I’m gonna keep this short but sweet, if you are a person who is looking into getting an aneros or prostate play in general here is my mindset and experience on it after a month in.
1. Don’t over think it, use anything anyone is saying as a reference point and focus on yourself. Even with the mindsets people are peddling don’t over think it. Focus only on how it feels for you and make sure you aren’t beating yourself down. This includes an overemphasis on relaxation, it’s important, but telling another human to relax doesn’t help them relax. Don’t make the same mistake with yourself.
2. It doesn’t feel like how people describe it, some people describe feeling their prostate as a tingling or warm feeling, or it spreading throughout their body but that is their own interpretations of what’s going on in their body. You will more than likely interpret it different way, don’t chase a specific feeling you are being told to expect.
Instead I found it more helpful to draw comparisons from what you have heard to what you feel.
3. Don’t underestimate how much marijuana affects you. I was a person who was very adamant about not doing this with weed. However, after trying it once I can say the sensations were completely different and helped me to actually realize what I was feeling in my prostate.
If you are a person that’s heavy against being reliant on chronic for prostate play then I would say at least try it once. That is if it is easily available to you. It is so helpful in the discovery and rewiring process. I’ve only had one session with it and I feel that it would have taken me months to a year to get to the point I am now without it.
Finally I wanna make sure this is clear, I don’t want this post to in anyway invalidate someone else’s experience or feelings. This is very much a personal matter for every person that pursues prostate play and this is my personal experience and opinions.
At this point I haven’t experienced the super o or any o in general yet but I feel I will get there eventually. I hope that if you read this you were able to take helpful information from it.
I tried to make it as short and sweet as possible but there’s only so much you can cut short haha
TLDR: Don’t worry so much about what other people are saying, this is your experience do what you want. Weed is very very helpful but if you don’t like or want it don’t worry about it. Be kind to yourself, have a nice day.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/tf3eyc/my_experience_and_what_i_can_give/
My husband could get drug tested so he doesn’t want to try the weed. Do you know of anything else that would help?
I’m one of those that gets randomly tested for drugs with my job. I have made good progress over the 3+ years of p-play I’ve done. Yes, I believe I would of had faster success with weed but to be honest the longer time helped to me learn more about my body. When I retire I may try a session with some weed, but until then it will be a slow enjoyable ride to more intense mind blowing orgasms.
I have edibles for the first time.
Tried a couple over the last two weeks and the first sensation I get both times is a “glowing” feeling coming right from my prostate, followed by horniness.
I don’t know if that glowing prostate sensation is normal for edibles, or if it’s because I’ve used the aneros on and off for years (without orgasm)… but I’m really looking forward to an aneros session when that glowing hits again.
Maybe I’ll finally break through.