Hi there!
A few months ago, I bought myself a Progasm Jr. I haven’t had much success with it so far, just mild anal pleasure. That said, I kept trying in the hopes that my body would eventually get used to it, taking from the accounts of people on this sub and other websites. Here and there, I read that refraining yourself from masturbating the usual way for a few days would make you more sensitive to pleasure in other parts of your body.
So I gradually started to space out my masturbation sessions for longer and longer periods of time, and when I felt like I wanted to jerk off, I made sure to always plug in my Progasm Jr, and only ever use my hands when the frustration really got to me. Eventually my toy began to move on its own while I was watching porn and I did start feeling some other kind of pleasure from that, but nothing too substantial. However, something different happened today.
As I usually do before any session, I went to the bathroom to empty my bladder. It would seem, however, that I did a poor job, as I felt the urge to pee half an hour in. I didn’t want to end my session that early, so I pushed on despite the risks, and I began experimenting with that feeling. I tried to concentrate on the area where the urge to pee was coming from, and little by little, I switched focus to a spot right under it that felt really good.
When I did, my body started convulsing, but it would stop right after. It kind of felt like an adrenaline rush that would adruptly end as soon as it began. I have read something about “the shakes” on this sub before, but I am not sure whether it was that or something different. From what I gathered, it looks like you need to let them happen, although I have no idea how, as some kind of reflex seems to
be preventing them from going on for long…
Anyway, I felt a lot of pleasure from focusing on my toy’s moving around that precise spot under the area where the urge to pee was coming from, but again, nothing that felt like a potential orgasm. I got frustrated and started using my hands, stroking the head of my non-erect penis. To my surprise, I had a wet orgasm very quickly when doing that and the spot suddenly felt numb.
Now, despite cumming, I kept trying to focus on the numb spot and I eventually managed to start the whole body convulsing thing again, but it never seemed to go anywhere after that. It felt like there was a “sparkle” gradually taking shape as the toy was pushing on the spot, but it always ended up on my body convulsing and those convulsions stopping almost immediately after they started. The spot was back to feeling numb too.
Has anybody here had a similar experience? Do you think I might be on the right track?
I’m thinking I should try it again tomorrow, but I’m unsure about having a session so soon after this one.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/v465k6/progress_maybe/
There are a few basic guidelines to help achieve true prostate orgasms and one of them is ‘stay away from your penis’. Your brain is trying to rewire for new, unknown sexual experiences and mixing in penile stimulation just delays achieving good results.
I think you’re on the right track! Since you had a wet orgasm, I would advise that you give it at least a day, maybe two, depending on your recovery speed. You want to be sensitive and responsive so that if you do stumble into a technique that works for you you’ll respond to it. I know for a fact that doing sessions too frequently can dull your sensations. Well, at least it does for me, but I’m probably older than you lol