first Super-O achieved

Thought I’d write down how this process went for me (M39). Maybe it’ll help someone else along. I certainly have benefitted of being able to look up other’s experiences on here.

Got an Aneros (Helix Syn V) roughly 5 months ago, quite randomly read about it on reddit. After the first few sessions found that the ‘stairs climbing/ hip rocking’ method allowed me to start feeling where my prostate was. Usually spent 1-1,5 hours on a session, once or twice a week. The initial 3ish months were interesting, but in general I approached it quite actively. Which led to nice feelings, but not the orgasm build up feeling. The first major roadblock I hit about 1,5 months ago, muscles contracting too hard and ejecting the toy on the run up. I got around this by using a towel wrapped around the butt and holding opposite ends, to prevent the toy from getting ejected. This led to the first session of multiple wet orgasms/squirting? kinda thing. This was a bit of a breakthrough, although it felt I squeezed/forced it out. Too much pressure on the prostate/cowper’s gland. At the end of the session I relaxed and stopped moving and that was the first time I started to feel the hint of an ‘orgasm feeling’, that was totally separate from any anal nerve area sensations.

It took me another few weeks to find this particular feeling again, but now I could also generate it without the toy directly after a session. Started being noticably more ‘tingly’ after a regular session. Started using mindgasm without the toy for a session. Which led to being able to generate the feeling without using the toy at all, but no significant ramp up. I found that prior I had tensed up my PC muscles way too much, and the sweetspot was somewhere around 10% or 20% effort. You really have to listen/feel for it. Looking back the right intensity for the PC muscles contraction feels a bit like playing a saxophone or clarinet. If your lips press on the reed to much, there’s no room for the air to flow and vibrate to create sound. But no tension at all does not vibrate either. It’s quite subtly in the middle and you have to give it a minute for it to reveal itself.

The sessions leading up to today felt increasingly satisfying & intense while mostly using the ‘do nothing’ technique and nipple play now (quite amazing how sensitive these can get), but muscles would still tense up and relaxing would kill off the buildup temporarily. Not relaxing = ejection. Near the end of what was already an amazing session I build up the Aneros intensity from low, to middle and eventually high (~40 mins into it), mostly on the 1st pattern. The first few months high setting would desensitize quite quickly but today I was apparently warmed up enough and quite quickly this led to the first super-o. Because the vibration was more intense, the buildup was quite quick. Before I had a chance to start tensing up it was suddenly like I broke through the cloud cover with nothing but clear skies around.

Weeks prior I thought I maybe had already achieved the super-o and I had too high expectations, but today I realized that ‘you’ll know when it happens’ was totally correct. I stayed up there for roughly 30sec or a minute before coming down and I just started laughing spontaneously for a while. I stayed highly orgasmic/electrified for a while and ended the session. Spent some time reflecting on it and the conditions. Going into todays session I was not particularly horny (had ejaculated twice 2 days prior), but I was feeling mentally quite positive and had slept well. Feeling pretty evolutionarily complete directly afterwards.

There were a fair number of sessions over the past months where I felt things were not really going anywhere and had to give up. But these all contributed in the end to getting the few breakthrough sessions and finding the way.

**TL;DR:** started active/rough with hip rocking, all kinds of movements, the ‘waking up’ period->first wet orgasm->found the orgasm feeling->learned how to do Aless (no orgasm)->do nothing technique with Aneros into first super-o. Aneros on low power and 1st vibration pattern worked best for me, even though irregularity of the vibration seems to be the general recommendation.

Happy hunting.