Hello just after some advice really so here goes , I am a straight guy recently divorced after 22 yrs of marriage & now I am living alone I felt like exploring myself more so I bought the Aneros vibrating one. I have used it a few times & have had some pleasurable feeling but no orgasms as of yet. I have been reading posts on here trying to get tips. I smoke weed regulary so that ticks the box apparently. I have no expectations every time I put it in other than to try & have fun.
Question 1 how much lube do people use ? I have been using ky jelly at the moment.
Question 2 is it best to be gentle when contracting etc ?
Question 3 this is related to right now lol , I have just got hold of some coke (sniff) & was wondering if that would help ?
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Can’t see Coke helping. Weed works if you don’t have a high tolerance.. other than that – time patience and try the 3 free mindgasm lessons.. they help train the muscles in question.
You may find turning the vibe to low or off helps as well – just my experience that things that buzz can numb the nerves you’re trying to learn to feel… other Syn V users, please feel free to correct me 🙂
[https://www.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/quick-and-dirty-path-to-the-super-o/](https://www.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/quick-and-dirty-path-to-the-super-o/) Also don’t turn on the vibration until you can get results with it off.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I divorced a couple of years ago after 23 years married. I had (secretly) bought my first Aneros a few years before the divorce but always had to hide it.
My recommendation is to clear your head before you even start. Plan a time when you feel pretty confident that nobody will be stopping by. I like to get all the stuff together (lube, toys, towels, etc) together first. I’ll then smoke some and take a relaxing shower. All of this helps put me in the mindset.
I’ve experimented with different lubes. Really, just make sure you use PLENTY of it so it can move freely even with the slightest contractions.
I wish I could find the audio file that really got me to the super O. It focused on doing 10 contractions. On the 10th, clench and hold it for 10 seconds (or more). Breathe through the 10 seconds of clenching. I find that as I release the clenching I almost immediately start sliding toward a super O. Repeat the process and focus on breathing.
Hope this helps. Let me know if you might like to chat.
I found success in a very different way than what I’ve seen mentioned here. Disclaimer: it took about six months of frustration to have a prostate orgasm, but holy fuck was it worth it.
I had tried everything you’ll see suggested in this comment thread and it didn’t work for me, and to some extent still doesn’t. I’ve never been able to start having prostate orgasms without the vibration on, once I’m rolling I can turn it off and keep going, but I’ve never been able to have the first that way.
For me what works is I turn the vibration on right away, steady vibe level 2. I lay on my back, knees bent, feet on the bed. I don’t do the sphincter clinching, instead I’ll gently rock or roll my hips however it feels good. I also often add some external stimulation of the prostate with a couple of lubed fingers on my premium, the same kind of come here stroke you would use on a woman’s g-spot. On my stomach, one leg straight and the other raised, kind of dry humping the bed is another position that works wonders for me.