So I’m relatively new to prostate play but have been experimenting over the last 6 months or so. I have a collection of aneros toys that I acquired after becoming interested with the idea of rewiring and receiving a new and more rewarding kind of pleasure.
It’s been a fun time so far (most of the time). I’ve had some pretty good feelings but I feel as if I’m stuck.
I can’t seem to figure out which position is best. Sometimes I feel great on my back and other times it’s better on my side. The pleasure usually begins and feels really good but then subsides after sometime. How do you stay aroused for the whole session?
Also, from everything I’ve read, I know that it doesn’t seem to help but the best that I have ever felt was being rock hard and ending up stroking myself to a traditional O.
I’d deff appreciate some insight from those who have crossed this path before me.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/xin3n0/a_few_questions/
I think the best course of action is to not worry about staying aroused during a session…. it’s very much about relaxing and just being present in the moment. It does come and go, and there are times it’s better than others. But I usually stick to laying on my back with my feet flat on the bed, or with my legs raised.
It’s easy to get caught up in the position….and using that to turn me on more in the moment. But it usually detracts from the session, and I find that darkness, and zero distractions work best for me.
I sometimes wish I had a suspension chamber so I could remove the feeling of the bed itself and just float with it.