Hey guys, I have been an Aneros user for at least 5 years, I have great stimulation and some near orgasam Moment but never anything On the same scale that gets mentioned here, I have been using mindgasam and doing the contractions though it never brings involuntary movements or contractions, as I think this is key, are my muscles too weak although I do use my kegal muscle, I feel it tenses me up too much and I get more pleasure doing nothing and relaxing. I want to try something new and start experience different sensations as I feel like I am at a dead end with my current method. Any tips will be greatly appreciated ?
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May be the wrong toy. Tempo and Helix got things going
It took me quite a while to get adequate strength and control over my PC and sphincter. I found that when I would exercise them I would tense up as well and tended to hold my breath. Try concentrating on deep breathing with your exercises and focus on keeping the tension in the rest of the body down. It takes a lot of dedication and practice! I can now control them independently and move them in a wave like fashion which is really good during sessions.
Are you rewired?
May be late on this but DO YOUR KEGELS!!! If you think you’re doing enough, you’re not. W/ no toy in, try to crank out 100 kegels w/ a 0.5s hold at the peak of contraction. Now do more sets.
If you’re already doing that, then try switching up how you’re performing the kegels, increase intensity of contractions, perhaps even make them slow and deliberate. My early p-gasms were rather weak and i had trouble reaching HFO until i really started cranking out the kegels.
And wow what a difference that made. Although i admit to having a rather sensitive p-spot, my p-gasms went from similar to how you described a “near-orgasm moment” is to basically like rubbing one out w/ no semen and it keeps going. I’d surmise it’ll be a distinct feeling for you once you get there