I’m a beginner and I’ve only played with a plug once . It was pretty big and it fit but I lost it like a year ago . I wanted to get back into prostate play so I bought the Helix Syn Trident .
I started off by fingering , and it was going well . I just used one finger and I went about half my finger in . It wouldn’t go anymore no matter how much lube I put or how much I pushed .
The helix Syn trident was huge . I didn’t expect the tip to be so big . I tried to put it in but no success .
I just ended up having a regular orgasm .
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/ygs5nv/beginners_first_time_using_aneros_helix_syn/
Yeah, basically how it went for me when tried this cheap massager years ago. About slightly bigger than the aneros classic, very difficult even getting it in, couldn’t go farther than 1/3 insertable length at first.
Keep using your finger. In time, you’ll get knuckle-deep, just slow and steady progress, like anything else involving the body. I don’t like depth, and, like you, it was difficult to even get a finger in for a time.
The Eupho is more finger-sized than the Helix, and, honestly, i really wished i went w/ that first. I did use plugs to “open me up” more for that dumbass toy, and that did work, even though they were awful for prostate stimming on their own. You may consider a 2-piece plug set and they really don’t have to be big, no more than 1.25in wide at the bulb and no longer than your middle finger in terms of insertable length for a Helix. For most of the aneros models in that size class, that’s realistically all you need.
you were probably going at the wrong angle
Keep at it. It takes time getting used to things up there.