My last session I was really close to getting either a HFO or a HFWO. I never experienced either. I felt like I was on the edge of cumming which was probably about an hour but I couldn’t get over it. How do it get over that hump? That was the closest I’ve ever felt like I was going to cum.
Secondly how do I make my sessions shorter? I feel like when I do my sessions it takes a while for me to really get warmed up and I’m the mood. Probably about 1-2 hours then the build up happens. Does it get shorter with experience or is it something I’m going to have to deal with. Thanks!
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/zq9nac/question_getting_over_the_hump/
I found the secret for me was finding the right head space to allow my body to cum. Almost zen like openness to new sensations and allowing myself to relinquish control.
NIPPLE PLAY… NIPPLE PLAY… NIPPLE PLAY !!!!!!!! If you get those damn nipples sensitized this will absolutely help get you over the hump… once sensitized they will feel directly attached to your prostate…cannot stress this enough!! Those who listen to me, have achieved the Super O… those who haven’t are still struggling.. when you’re in the middle of nice pwaves and HFDO, keep moving that aneros…then start rubbing and massaging your nipples… when you feel like you want to stop to enjoy those incredible huge strong pwaves, and feel like you can’t take it anymore since it feels soooo incredible… KEEP THAT MASSAGER MOVING AND BANGING YOUR PROSTATE!!!! Then feel your nipples connect to your prostate as you massage them… you should then explode (yes, that’s how it will feel) EXPLODE and float into your first Super O!! Good Luck
Nipple play doesnt do it for me. Feels good at first and then meh
Try both ways, just be patient and persistent and eventually you will start to get results. Just don’t stress about it, that’s counterproductive. The right mental space is absolutely the most important factor in my experience, all the kegels in the world won’t help until you find the right head space.