Hi,
I’m 28M non rewired 5 years user. 5 years ago I had my prostate really sensible and the pressure was so good that I could feel my prostate swelling-up w/o the Aneros in ( I was already experimented with anal ). But, I was doing my session wrong. I was forcing stimulation by chain contracting my muscles. I had good sensation almost orgasmic. I did not know how to induce involontaries.
*insert months/years of dull session*
Now, I had some progress during my sessions. I had some involontaries (my first was recently). I understand a little how to induce involontaries (with the “do nothing” method) and I have better control of my muscles.
But, I have a new problem now. I can not build up pressure in my prostate. I do not feel it like it was 5 years ago. I think if I could have my “old prostate sensibility” and my today experience I could achieved an orgasm.
So, how could I regain control over the pressure build-up and make it more consistent between a session and an other ? I think it’s the key to progress in my journey.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/zqaul7/any_tips_for_pressure_building_how_to_swellup/
I’ve had a very similar experience over the years. The best thing that worked for me (assuming you’ve got your same old toy and it ‘fit’ well) was the do nothing method with a few hits of weed before hand. The do nothing method can be boring, but if you really focus, lights off, meditation music without words, and you can just ‘feel’…. eventually it will come back. That’s the best advice I can give, because chasing it with contractions can push it away.
I am 2 years in, on my path to rewiring and I am generally dubious about the no-fap ideas. I believe it depends on the reasons one might choose abstinence. So, coming to your question I believe if you can stick 7-10 days, depending on your age, without stimulating penis and prostate, when you restart it will respond better. Let the relaxed, horny mind, take control.
Have you ever tried the method of edging some before using the aneros? Just do not finish; this may get you really horny & really change things for you!
Hidden secret that worked for me… make sure you use tons of lube, lubing your hole and use your finger to get the lube inside (I use the cocoa butter infused Vaseline) and place a coating of CBD oil overtop the lubed massager.. now I Use THC tincture.. coat the whole massager overtop the Lube.. insert and you’ll quickly feel that tingling of your anal canal and swelling of your prostate!
Now, I have also tried (and I do not know how safe it is, so be warned) just a very, very light coating of Vicks over just the head of the massager, then another top,coat of the Vaseline…WOWSER… once the top coat of Vaseline melts, the Vicks hits the Prostate whoa does it swell up! BE CAREFUL, and I do the Vicks thing only randomly bcs I don’t know how safe it is… but after always looking for the edge and after much research… these tips gets me over the Top! Good luck