It would seem through my casual browsing of this subreddit that most *just my observation* people seem to be able to more easily find their “end goal” hands free from taking a delta8, edible, smoke etc.
I’m glad that works for them, weed in any form gives me terrible, terrible, terrible anxiety. I don’t know it just does, glad it works for them, its the exact opposite for me. I’ve tried them all, all very bad hiding under covers anxiety.
Am I having a confirmation bias that most people are getting off with some marijuana supplement?
It would seem to me that I see very few people stone cold sober having a lot of success, to the point I feel like it is almost a prerequisite.
Am I off target on this thought process because I am really struggling with a hands free orgasm that I about have thrown in the towel.
I’m mainly asking this just out of curiosity of what other people think about this.
Thanks ahead of time for any responses 🙂
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It simply helps in those who need help relaxing but do not have increased anxiety as a side effect. It is possible to do sober though. One can also relax a little too much if the weed dosage isn’t spot on, making it counter-productive to the “end goal”.
Side note: Try to avoid having an “end goal”. Simply partake in the journey, and see where it takes you. Expectations breed disappointment which breeds frustration.
What was the dosage you were using? I can get really bad anxiety too if I use too much but if I get the dose spit on it’s magical.
I do not use any “helpers” and have had mind blowing prostate orgasms. I will say that it took me quite some time to relax and get in the correct mindset.
I’ve only used weed twice along with Aneros in the last 5 years. I’ve always read about people achieving super Os while high and cannot achieve orgasm without. All the while wishing they hadn’t used it as a “crutch”. So I’ve stayed away from it for that reason.
I also get quite bad anxiety with weed, even though I smoked a fair amount in my younger years.
When I have used weed in my sessions, it only makes it different, but not necessarily better. I have consistent almost blackout waves of full body orgasms back to back for up to 4 or 5 hours every session without weed. The only difference is that it might happen quicker or deeper. But normally when I’m finished, my mind is clear, whereas after weed fueled sessions I’m a lot more groggy.
It’s pretty much just a shortcut, as it helps most people relax. If your like myself, you might just have to put a bit more time into trying to fully relax your mind. It’s easy at this point to relax my body, but took a lot longer to relax my mind fully. It still hasn’t happened as it still goes a mile a minute, but it’s getting easier.
That’s probably why the weed has that effect on us, because our minds are constantly going. I’d love if I could smoke weed like I used to.
But I’m glad I’ve made it this far, to repeated prostate orgasms and insane sessions without the use of it.
Not saying either way is better, but it absolutely can be done without. It just takes a little more time maybe.
I had nice results before weed and edibles addition. There was a times when I don’t even needed a toy.
But when I consume some I felt that I transit in relaxed and horny mood faster, so for me – it’s a nice addition, but I don’t use it every time, just when I want to get something different. So, let’s say it’s just a different kind of play – not same one boosted with supplements.
But if you’ll want give another chance – check up dosage and type of weed/edibles – it have a huge difference inside similar products.
I have been trying somewhat regularly for the last few months but have owned devices for 5 years. I hit my first super o while high last week. Haven’t had a chance to try sober since. My own hope is that now that I know I can get there that it will be easier to get back.
Works for me without any substance.
Weed was the only way for my prostate to make contact with the manager. It helped me locate my prostate so that I could focus on it more. It helped relax my mind. Start at a very slow dose and see what happens.
I learned all the good aneros related stuff without weed. I smoke maybe 2-4 times a year and the sessions are exciting, not better or worse, just different. I too have paranoia so I usually avoid weed. You’ll be fine without it, and pleasure is possible without, I and many others are the proof.
The consensus seems to be:
1. Thc GREATLY increases the chance of dry orgasms
2. It can be done 100% sober, but even then… most people who can do it sober or high, report way more intensity while high.
As far as anxiety goes… when I first did an edible, I had my first and only panic attack of my life. Heart was racing, legit thought I was gonna die. Nowadays, I smoke a thc vape 100% of my sessions… the more I overdid it, the less anxiety I felt. Now, the higher I get, the more intense it gets with none of the heart racing “I’m gonna fucking die!” side effects lol
Never smoked or took any substance. Nor for prostate play. I have prostate orgasms for several months now after just under a year of practice. I play without any toy most of the time. Just me and my body.
Everything is possible is life without drugs. Well, except hallucinations.
I have been hardcore sober for 15yrs, and I think my finding extreme pleasure has been aided by that time learning to deal with (and tune out) the din of constant external stimulation without substances. Just keep at it, and maybe even consider it a meditation rather than a means to an end for a while. This is where the mindgasm stuff (and muscle exercises) are a huge benefit. The act of concentrating inward should tune most things out, if you can’t stop your mind then put it to work on the different muscle groups between your hips. I can “roll” the muscles between my hips around my prostate or a toy! This is not to say that anxiety is not a problem. I had a partner for whom the silence was just terrifying, so anxiety is very real. It’s all on a spectrum though, so you kind of need to take little bits and pieces that work for you and custom build that space which will allow you comfort. Also, I hope it goes without saying that I’m not opposed to others finding their path with THC, etc, that’s right on! Even when I did use substances my brain’s chemical imbalance made weed a sort of nightmarish high where I felt nauseated and anxious (I tried to smoke and be cool for 15yrs, not happening, lol). You got this.