So I’ve tried a variety of clenches and positions and have a toy. I’ve felt very nice feelings. My body reacts—it trembles and flushes with a hot feeling. All of that is great.
But…
Nothing I’ve felt has come close to the amount of pleasure from the exact moment of cumming traditionally. Even though it’s a short 5-10 seconds at the peak of pleasure, nothing—not even hours-long feelings of “niceness” have—come close to that.
I understand that it’s a whole other kind of pleasure, and many of you would say it can’t be compared. However, there has to be some arbitrary scale in which you can say you’ve felt a better feeling during prostate play than jacking off. What is that feeling like? Because if you told me that I’d be signing up for feeling the pleasure of a traditional orgasm strung out over a long duration—hell yeah, I’ll be all over that. But if you tell me that it’ll never get as “quantifiably” pleasurable as that, rather it’s just about the waves and the length of time and all that, I can’t bring myself to get too excited about that. Idk why, but I can’t. Maybe I’m just looking for a new mindset more than anything.
I’m not trying to diminish the fun of prostate play at all. This is totally a personal hang-up which may or may not actually be a hang-up. That’s what I’m trying to figure out.
I’ve never had an “orgasm” from prostate play. Therefore, if you ask me what’s given me a “better” feeling, it’s hands down masturbation. Has anyone ever felt that way and had it change?
I obviously see a lot of talk on this sub about how prostate play generally feels, but I feel like no one has ever asked a question in this exact vein before.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/11k3zv2/dissuaded_by_how_good_it_feels_to_cum_from/
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I’m sort of in the same shoes as I’ve never had a orgasm from prostate play (after nearly a decade now) but it feels great and all.
I’m guessing the responses you get will be a long the lines of “you’ve never properly rewired” , “you have to ignore your dick for a few weeks and take a break to build arousal”.
Stop comparing your prostate experiences to traditional orgasms. You are creating expectations and ultimately disappointment, especially with where you are at in your prostate pleasure journey. Let prostate play be what it is and let it take you where it takes you. Zero expectations.
I’ve only recently had any success with my sessions after maybe 4 years of “well there are some nice sensations but not a lot going on”. But even now although I keep feeling like I’m on the crest of a climax it then passes and I wait for the next wave and I would also like to know if there is an actual climax that will one day come. I once read that a traditional penis ejaculation is like a 1 on a scale and a prostate orgasm is like a 10. I don’t know if that’s exaggeration but I’m definitely not there myself yet although like I said I’ve recently made some really good progress and definitely had many sessions where I feel like I’m on the cusp of something special. Unfortunately after a while it starts to lessen though and I end up drifting off to sleep (still a lovely way to drift away though)
For me, the prostate induced pleasure is far more intense and good than the traditional orgasm. Really the best sexual pleasure of my life.
I relate to a lot of what you’re saying, as I’ve had similar thoughts. I’m still in that learning process–I’ve had many dry orgasms but not a super O yet.
However from my pretty limited experience I can tell you that in terms of “quantifying” pleasure, prostate orgasms do seem to be on another level. They can be deeper, richer, longer, and more full-body. It’s not just simply that you took a traditional orgasm and ramped it up 10x, it’s more like your body found a new avenue of pleasure instead and the farther you go down that avenue, the better it gets.
But strictly speaking in terms of what I feel during those 5 seconds of regular ejaculation? That’s still generally more intense, pound for pound. Think of it as the difference between a very sharp and very strong (but short) spike of electricity versus floating deeper and deeper into a pool of pleasure. It really is comparing apples and oranges.
Having said that, I can **totally** see how, with more experience and practice, prostate orgasms are able to exceed the intensity of even those 5 seconds of traditional ejaculation. It’s just the fact that I’m still a beginner-ish. But ask anyone who’s had super O’s and they will tell you 🙂
Just relax, let the Prostrate feelings dominate your body, you need to re-wire yourself sensations & as time & experience goes by, feelings should get better & Prostrate orgasms also stronger. Make sure you are inserting the massager correctly! It just might be upside down. I did this when learning. Good Luck!
All of my Masturbation is now prostate stimulation. I only touch the D at time of insertion (PIV).
Yes! (X 1 billion to the 3rd power) it is better (for me), the feeling I get when massaging my Vas Deferens is almost identical to the point of no return feeling. The feeling will continue as long as I can keep the pace, pressure, stroke, device all the same (a bit complex).
I need to add something controversial, 3 to 3.5 inches is not long enough to reach all prostates. I need longer in the 4.5 in range, to the center of my prostate. This is another great reason why I recommend starting with the NJoy wand.
I get amazing pleasure from things that don’t touch my prostate, Aneros paradise, Eupho, Tempo. But unfortunately only waves 🌊 from anything that doesn’t fully reach my prostate. The device needs to reach beyond the prostate for a lot of the pleasure that I like most (5.5 insertable inches, or more).
One, don’t touch your dick, Two, do this https://community.aneros.com/forum/general-discussion/quick-and-dirty-path-to-the-super-o/
Orgasms from masturbation are more intense, but they last like 5 seconds or so and then there’s a recovery period. Prostate orgasms last longer and come over and over. They’re still intense, but in a different way. They feel really different, but prostate orgasms are way more satisfying to me