I’ve been using a Progasm Jr and recently a Helix Syn for approx. 2 years now. Nothing much happened until some months ago where I started to get P-waves and tingles pretty much every time I use the toy. There where several instances where I got intense shivers, heart racing and the feeling of an immense pleasure incoming, so intense it made me even afraid. When it happened for the first time, my prostate tingled for two days which made me pretty anxious.
Also, I’m so far that I can basically alway cause P-Waves/tingles just with thinking about it, like a mental switch, and it’s almost as strong as with the toy in.
But that’s it – I never feel I can get beyond this stage. Is it the toy? I feel that they Syn works better for me than the Progasm Jr, so I thought about maybe getting another model, but there seems to be no consensus on which one.
Something I have also tried is stimulating the toy from the outside with a Magic Wand. It feels amazing and very tingly, but it’s just “constant pleasure”, but not like it would lead to climax. I can control both muscles independently, but “do nothing” worked best for me so far.
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Have you tried THC? I don’t smoke, but recently got some Delta 8 gummies and it makes a huge difference.
I’ve gotten so close too so many times. Just can’t quite get there.
I feel you, I felt like I got so close after eating edibles or smoking weed with the Helix Syn, but it also made me afraid because I suffer from anxiety and my whole body cramped, it felt like a demon force sucking my soul out through my genitals. It just kept going and going until I stood up to pee and took the Helix out (I think it went on even after that when lying down). Really intense and pleasurable, but also frightening. And all the time I was waiting for the sweet release, but it didn’t happen.
I would not say it’s the toy, granted some days certain models work better for me. More as it is very hard to actually tap into “falling into it” as it’s happening. Like for me when a lot of that starts, and it really ramps up to the point it’s like otherworldly feeling such small things can take me out of it. I get distracted, or maybe a bit anxious, or maybe something happens around me like a loud noise. Maybe I think too hard.
It’s very, very exhausting at times to get at this point then it just falls off and I completely get where you are coming from. Same thing with the sort of anxious feelings afterward, those can suck. Got better with time for me though. This is not meant to be discouraging though because exploration makes progress.
I will add in that the climax/release of sorts is more of just this, sense of wellbeing. It’s hard to word but it can be in this place of “My body can go for more but that was so intense do I want more?” instead of just a flat nosedive.
I need hands on devices (stainless wand) to get beyond my waves from my Aneros devices. I have only had one orgasm from the Progasm Ice. The paradise is the best though, a handful of orgasms from it. But probably thousands of orgasms from the wand.
You need to try all the different Aeros toys, some work better than others based on your anonymity. I have basically tried them all and have my favorites now
Please understand that I am not fluent in English and will be using a translator.
I used it 3 times a week until I reached a dry orgasm.
The time it took me to reach dry orgasm was 2 years.
The trick to reaching a dry orgasm is to be properly sexually aroused and to relax and concentrate on the sensation of the prostate.
If you don’t know what the prostate feels like or if it doesn’t feel good, ejaculate with the Aneros in at the end to end the act.
You should be able to feel the interval at which the prostate is pushed during ejaculation.
I do not recommend using a lot of tools because you will not know what the prostate feels like.
Progasm and Eupho (including Syn) are not suitable for beginners.
Helix (including Syn) and MGX are recommended.
I’ll say you should try THC because that’s what got me able to go over the edge.
Get an edible and try like a quarter of it first in a safe space to be double sure that it doesn’t affect your epilepsy and work your way over couple sessions to a larger dose.
Once comfortable with that try it with the aneros and let the extra enhanced relaxation blow your mind.