Feel like I’m at a bit of an impasse with this thing

So I’ve had a Helix Syn V for about a year now, I’ve not really used it consistently the whole time, but when I did I used it for a few sessions, had some mild tingles but then left it.

Recently however, I bought a magic wand rechargeable and have basically swapped to having all of my penile orgasms with it. Basically, I now hold the wand to the glans and flex my pelvic floor to cum. It’s definitely an improvement, I find myself having better orgasms with it and often find myself orgasming with or without porn (I sometimes cum whilst browsing for a video), which I think is a general improvement in comparison to how I used to be, spending half an hour browsing all kinds of porn until I found something I either liked or was close enough for me to cum to.

I recently found the Helix and thought “aw yeah let’s give it a go”.

There’s a noticeable difference in the strength of the sensations now I’ve sorta ‘reprogrammed’ to the idea of vibrations and contractions being linked to orgasms and not friction and movement. I find myself more able to have p waves and if I focus on the feeling I can often get to the point of precum leakage, I’ve even had a few dry orgasms with it but haven’t really felt anything I’d consider mind blowing or life altering, but I can feel the potential.

Problem is, I still finish with a penis based orgasm, instead now I use the wand and not my hand. This has generally been an improvement, there was one noteworthy time where I was able to use the aneros and wand and have a pretty damn strong orgasm, but I know that if I focussed more on the aneros this may lead to something more.

I’m still watching porn when I use it, I tried audio, but I felt weird listening to it and even though I came, it was weird.

I also don’t wanna try weed. Mainly because I don’t want to have access to it, I smoke it way too much when I do.

I’m also still masturbating daily using the wand. I feel like this is halting progress.

Even though I’m using a wand and not my hand, should I commit to abstaining from all penile masturbation and just give the aneros a go for awhile? I feel like if I focus on it and get to a super O a few times consistently, I can then start reintroducing the wand and still hold onto my prostrate pleasure, my understanding is that the the rewiring processes is kinda permanent and although you can lose the ability to super O, it’s much easier to get it back than it would have been to obtain the first time round.

Do you think I should give up using the wand (and therefore penis based pleasure) completely? Should I also give up on looking at porn? I don’t watch anything too intense, just solo stuff and the occasional intimate lesbian scene with ‘real’ looking women, it’s just something to listen to and visualise whilst I do things. As much as I love rough sex and BDSM, I can’t stand watching it in porn form, it’s like those videos where real professionals watch actors do the things they know how to do for real, I just cringe and lose immersion when something obviously fake or dumb happens, it’s just bad.

I’m also wondering about frequency of use. Is there anything particularly wrong with using it every day (whenever I feel horny)? I’ve seen people suggest sessions with gaps inbeteeen, but I can’t work out if that means nothing, not even penile stimulation between aneros sessions, or if that’s something that’s taught to newbies so they can also break the cycle of porn usage men have, I’m very unsure.