First HFDO!

Following on from previous posts about pwaves always ending in HFWO, I experienced my first definite HFDO! Thanks to all of your helpful advice received.

My main point would be that it occurred in a session 2 days after ejaculating through sex. I only usually use my aneros if I’ve not cum for about a week and feel particularly horny. So I’m the urge to squirt cum wasn’t there, and neither was any expectation of orgasm. I had some free time to myself so thought I’d have a play. I was relaxed and quite early on started experiencing pleasurable pwaves. I wasn’t thinking about cumming, just going with the flow. Then (I think) my 4th pwave didn’t subside as usual, it just kept building and building. I was literally losing my mind with the pleasure, lost the sense of where I was, what I was doing and was shaking, writhing around, grabbing bedsheets and growling! And then just a release, lying still and panting heavily wondering what has just happened. I then realised I hadn’t been thinking about my dick at all and felt no need to cum by ejaculation. After a minute or so I started another pwave, less intense this time and I ended the session.

I’ve had a couple of pleasurable sessions since, no HFDO or urge to HFWO, just pwaves which – as someone posted before, to me feel like the start of a HFDO but without the duration or intensity. I need to keep in mind not to chase and go with the flow and hopefully more HFDOs will follow 😃

Intense P waves, but no HFDO

Thanks to practicing the the first few Mindgasm lessons, I now find I can start off on my p-wave journey fairly easily when relaxed and horny – ie not ejaculated for a few days. Lube up, slide in the Aneros trident helix and with some gentle contracting of pelvic floor and sphincter muscles start building pleasure resulting in long, body shaking, heavy breathing waves of pleasure. If I really allow myself to lose control, the 3rd or 4th wave is so intense that the involuntary contractions become really firm, causing a wet orgasm. It literally feels as if the cum is being squeezed out of my prostate. This is immensely satisfying, but I want to carry on fucking myself silly! I can sometimes consciously stop this by relaxing all muscles, but then lose the wave and the orgasm. I’ve posted similar before but any HFDO tips would be much appreciated 🙂

Achieving HFDO?

I’m interested to hear from anyone who has managed to move away from HFWO to HFDO. A lot of posts I’ve read from those that achieve HFDO/Super Os is that they never have HFWOs.

I’m currently using the muscle ‘tug of war’ method to gain involuntary contractions which brings on body shaking, heavy breathing p waves but no sense of orgasm as such. I’m only really satisfied through squirting cum, but then I have to finish! Is there just ‘re-wiring’ needed to reach a level beyond the p waves without the urge/need to squirt?

Starting my prostate play journey

I’ve used my Aneros helix trident a few times now but with little success. Thought I’d share my mini breakthrough today, hope to experience p-wave, hands free orgasm sometime soon. I set myself aside an hour (not enough time maybe?), lubed up and relaxed, knees up laying on my side. Once I got used to the feeling I slowly contacted and released my anus to move the massager. So far quite relaxing but not mind blowing. 20 minutes in I was surprised by how much pre-cum I’d produced, which turned me on more! I found I could get into a rhythm of contracting and releasing with a slow build up of pleasure. This was easily lost though when relaxing or changing sides to lie on. Around 40 minutes I caught a wave but maybe chased too much? I let myself go vocally and found myself rubbing my nipples and stroking my skin as I was beginning to tingle. Was so hard not to touch my cock, which was by now rock hard and leaking pre-cum. This faded and never returned, the only other feeling was around. 50 mins feeling a lot more full and feeling the massager move more, but the intense pleasure didn’t return. Any tips for my next try much appreciated, will be posting progress again