I been trying to get some great satisfaction from an aneros for about a year. After having one I’m for about 40 minutes I start to feel uncomfortable at my perineum and occasionally my k-spot. I would like to find a product that doesn’t have these “wings” stimulating these areas as much. I have considered just cutting the tip off of them and smoothing it out. Does anyone have a suggestion on a product or an aneros hack that might help me?