Author: B_Wayne

Third session – a quickie

Wow! What a difference a day makes!

After the disappointment of my 2nd session, I wanted to give myself some time before I tried again. But my anus had different ideas. The prostate soreness that I had experienced during the 2nd session was completely gone, and in fact it was feeling pretty good. My anus wanted, nay, it demanded something to fill it, NOW! So we compromised; a short session of only 30 minutes on the very next day after the frustrating and long 2nd session.

Expectations – 30-minute time limit; hands-off )like every other session(; quick and dirty; start with voluntary contractions and then back off

TSLE – about 8 days

The only difference in preparation between this session and the previous session was that this time I didn’t inject any glycerin-based lube.

After bowel movement, enema, and insertion of the Helix, I went straight to a 4-on-the-floor position; on knees and elbows, head down, ass up. I considered that by waiting/relaxing I was letting my arm tremor start to dominate my attention. So, after a few deep breaths, I start slow-rolling sphincter/PC contractions. Bingo! – instant perineal contractions progressing to full-body involuntary contractions, lasting 10-12 minutes. Again, I just observed, watched the spasms grow, recede, and return spontaneously. Purely involuntary. It was awesome. The spasms would recede until they were just in my groin, and then the sphincter/PC involuntary contractions would escalate, amplifying each other, until they set off another round of full-body contractions. Is this auto-f*cking? A definite pre-cum feeling, but without an erection or any actual pre-cum. Read more »

Fourth session – some lessons learned

I tried for another quickie session )30 min( like yesterday, but it wasn’t quite fantastic. I did learn some things, though, so I call it a success.

First, after a long, hot bath to relax, I inserted the lubed Helix. Drips of pre-cum for the first time. Just a few drips, but all I did was insert the Helix. No erection, just an electric feeling emanating from my groin and drips of pre-cum. This is new; something’s changing in me.

Second, the whole-body contractions weren’t nearly as strong or long-lasting as yesterday, and I stopped after about 10 minutes. I felt weak. Which leads to my theory – I’m thinking that the prostate glow I feel after a session is analogous to the muscle feeling you get from weight training. We’re exercising muscles, and the underused muscles are just getting sore. They get weak and tired, so they need time to recover, just like with a barbell. This was the 3rd session in 3 days, so maybe my muscles got overworked yesterday. It’s my theory at least. I should allow more recovery time between sessions.

Anyway, I stopped the session, but left the Helix in and went about my normal business of cleaning the kitchen, etc., for about 30 min, just to get used to it inside me. While the Helix was not arousing, walking around my home nude with a toy up my lubed ass was. I masturbated, but again didn’t notice anything different about the quantity or quality of the ejaculate. Read more »

Second Session – ugh!

Well, that could have gone better. Underwhelming on almost all counts.

Expectations – Wanted to get warm and really relaxed, get aroused, and then sit back and see what happens with minimal contractions.

TSLE – about 7 days

I had more time to work with, so I could spend a lot more time prepping. Heated the room, pre-washed all the toys, pre-rolled a shea butter bullet )stored in a glass of cold water in the fridge(, pre-lubed the Helix with shea butter, filled a plastic syringe with about 3 ml of I.D. Glide, and spread some towels over the sheets in bed. I liked all this prep work; the self-nurturing felt nice. After a bowel movement and a long hot bath, I felt very warm and relaxed.

After the bath, I gave myself an enema )3 x 4 oz; definitely necessary(, inserted the bullet, inserted the syringe and injected the Glide )I wanted to try a bit more lube(, and retired to the prepped warm bedroom, where I lay down on my side and comfortably inserted the Helix. This was the high point of the session.

• ROOKIE MISTAKE – For some reason, I could not get aroused with my imagination, which usually works pretty well. It was just one of those days )tired, sick, out of sorts, whatever( where I couldn't feel any sexual arousal. I could feel this malaise earlier in the day. I should have just removed the Helix and gone to sleep. But I kept going . . . Read more »

Newb's First Session

First session notes – wherein I expose my newb-ness

The Helix Syn came in the mail a few days ago along with the other supplies. I had about an hour and a half of uninterrupted privacy to look forward to, so I grabbed the chance to play.

Expectations – I just wanted to practice getting the Helix inside me and feel what it was like. I like CrimsonWolf's write-up about the do-nothing approach, but this time I just wanted to experiment. This was about 4 days after my last ejaculation.

• ROOKIE MISTAKE – A mistake even before I began? Yes, and I knew this going in. I wasn't aroused at all. I've read that the Aneros amplifies arousal, and if there is no arousal, then you can't really expect to feel anything. That was fine for this session; I just wanted to go through the mechanics.

I'm going to add some details so other newbies can follow along –

1. First, I stripped, and then had a bowel movement followed by an enema rinse )2 @ 4 oz warm water(. Probably not necessary, but I felt more comfortable this way.

2. I lubed my finger with some I.D. Glide, and smeared some around my perineum and into my anus. I scraped about a teaspoon of shea butter off the chunk I'd purchased, quickly rolled it into a bullet shape with lightly lubed fingers, and shoved it into my anus. Read more »

Introduction

Hi all,

I'm new to the Aneros experience. I don't remember how I learned about it, but somehow I did, and I've been lurking for the past few weeks, voraciously reading the posts of others. This is exciting! I'm really looking forward to diving in. I'm very grateful to the other men who have generously shared their experiences; I've already learned a lot about my own body and my sexuality/sensuality.

To repay this generosity, I thought I'd start an anonymous blog so that other curious beginners can have another data point to consider.

This first post is just an introduction so you can better understand who I am and where I'm coming from.

I'm in my mid-50's and have been in a committed relationship with my wife for 20+ years. We have 2 teenage children. I had a vasectomy about 15 years ago. I'm 5' 6" and HWP.

I had a pretty sexually repressed childhood, but feel that my mind is liberating itself as I get older; less defensive and more receptive.

I can still get erections, but they aren't as hard or long-lasting as back in the day. I want to see if Aneros can help with this.

I occasionally get hemorrhoids; too much kayaking in cold water. Again, what can the Aneros do about this? I'm considering getting a Peridise, but the reviews for Tempo sound more fun. Read more »