Need Help

So I’ve been using my aneros for about a year now. Wasn’t really effective for a bit, but I stick with it.

Here lately I’ve been getting better results. It’s a lot more pleasurable, and I think I’m getting p waves. I’m not sure about the involuntaries. I’m actually super happy because now I get pleasure when not using my aneros.

For example: This morning I was gaming and I get a pleasant feeling. I don’t do anything but keep breathing at a steady pace. The feeling grows and becomes a fullness in my balls. It then rises up and the pleasure spreads across my body. Then it fades away.

This happens everytime. Pleasure builds, spreads, and then fade away. I try not to chase it, I try not to change what I’m doing that brought it on. What am I doing wrong? Is there something I should do when the feelings spread?

Even right now I feel that tingle again…

Feeling Frustrated

So tonight was my fourth session with my aneros. So far I really haven’t felt all that much. At times I can feel my pulse, I even get a few involuntary contractions. Though nothing really pleasurable.

I know that I can’t just expect good times right out the gate, but it is hard to dedicate to rewiring when the reward is so elusive.

I’m mainly whining, and I know I need to learn to relax and just go with it. Any advice on how to get into the mental space needed?

Quick question.

So i just tried my aneros for the first time last night. It was interesting, and I know I have a lot to discover. One thing though was position. I know everyone is unique, but what positions do you think are best for a newbie user?

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