To preface, I (30M) have experimented with prostate stimulation on and off for years. I’ve used my fingers, various massagers (just upgraded to the Helix syn), and I’m even lucky enough to have a fiancé that likes to get involved (she’s used her fingers and we also do pegging from time to time). For all this time I’ve only been able to achieve better “traditional” orgasms and have been okay with that (and so had my fiancé 😉.
I stumbled upon this forum back towards the beginning of the pandemic. My hours at work were cut way back and I had a lot of time on my hands. Over these last few months I tried and I tried but could still only achieve those “Super T’s”, which was fine.
Then last night it just clicked… and to be honest all this time I’d been doing two big things wrong.
The first was I had been flexing “backwards”… I’m no expert in anatomy but, to put it simply, all this time I was keeping my anus loose and flexing my “don’t pee muscle”. After spending the last week or so reading through this forum I realized my mistake. Last night I tried “rolling”… flexing both the anus and “don’t pee muscle” and then loosening the “DPM” but keeping the anus flexed.