Author: Doncejankiu

Other Orgasm Techniques (Re-Posted)

Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have also liked to combine my sessions with a a variety of different things I was curious about in solo play to achieve multiple orgasms. I always also wished to pursue a HFWO orgasm which kept getting away from me. Despite achieving a SuperO with Aneros, I still wanted to try all options of sexual pleasure, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.

To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both) away from your partner. Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.

But I can never satisfy my curiosity. If you haven any others, post a comment or send a message. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:

BDSM: eStim or Sounding 4/10 – not for me. I have invested serious cash into the set up and finally had a hwfo with eStim, using a plug, pads and rings and a quality machine. Quality matters, but to me the orgasm was dulled out by the electricity (or by pain!). Sounding was fun but always felt too invasive. Maybe I need an expert to tie me up and show me the real deal. I would like to try rope play, sensory deprivation and several other things. Read more »

Anal Orgasms… 10 Years On.

Welcome back to my blog! Several of my original entries were deleted due to website issues this year, so I decided to repost them. I do not have the original comments to most of the posts, so feel free to comment again! Thank you and I hope you enjoy reading about my Aneros journey.

I typically use Aneros when there’s plenty of time, I am alone and I can relax to enjoy it. My partner used to travel a lot for work, but doesn’t do it so much anymore. We also share a large house with his family member, so I am rarely here by myself. I still enjoy sex with my partner and it is amazing both when I top and when I bottom, but I never cum handsfree. was always envious of those that can find a way to do so and particularly have a HFWO which I have never had. Never ever. I have tried riding my partner every which way, every form of toy and spent a lot of money buying and throwing things out like fucking machines or supplements and even shrooms that simply didn’t work or change anything. In the end, I simply considered myself to be one of those people for whom it will never happen. I own an nJoy wand but only use it sometimes to milk myself after an Aneros session, never deriving substantial sexual pleasure or orgasming from it. Read more »

Recap – My First Dry Orgasm (Re-Posted)

Welcome to my blog! Several of my original entries were deleted due to website issues this year, so I decided to repost them. I do not have the original comments to most of the posts, so feel free to comment again! Thank you and I hope you enjoy reading about my Aneros journey.

I have been an avid user of Aneros toys and playing with my prostate for several years now. It started independently of my relationship with my partner, which runs in parallel. Our sex life is amazing and mind-blowing, if a tad ‘traditional’. We have been together since we have been very young and never looked back. We share an intimate romantic bond and have long almost tantric body-to-body sex sessions. I usually top, but we can both be versatile. I was always a more sexual person than he is and is constantly looking to enhance our experience without cheating. But he is rarely interested in anything else. I suppose I am happy with this, but always wanted to personally go beyond ‘nomal’ sex.

Even as a kid I knew something is ‘up there’ and would sometimes have dreams of some sort of anal pleasure, without understanding it. Now that I think about it, I find it almost unbelievable. I just didn’t know what to do with it. I wonder if anyone else was the same? Read more »

Success and The Regret (Re-Posted)

After several years of using Aneros, I have started to have regular prostate pleasure, and every nth time, I would get to a dry orgasm, a mental orgasm, or even a SuperO. It was always difficult to find time for sessions, but I slowly and surely built upon each session to keep progressing. The first time I had a SuperO, I was on the couch in the living room after coming back from college. It seemed to transition from a dry orgasm into a screaming orgasm that I could not believe was happening. I lay there exhausted afterwards and felt that I have found something amazing to have in my life. My partner was never interested in trying, so I stopped talking about it afterwards. I kept going, and taking notes from each solo session. I also became more open to trying other toys, nipple stimulation, and manual prostate massage. I wanted to try everything over the years that followed.

My only regret in my journey was never having experienced a HFWO, not from sex with my partner, from Aneros or from manual prostate play. I guess it is not meant to be, but I have surely kept trying and it seemed sometimes that I would come so close. I rode the edge of what seemed to be a near ejaculatory event through anal sex, Warpmymind hypnosis, manual nipple play, using a dildo, an nJoy wand, a fucking machine, eStim, and a Theragun. Read more »

Levels of Pleasure (Re-Posted)

After using Aneros for a few years, I started to have regular orgasms that were hard to define, understand, comprehend and recapture afterwards in my memory. So, one of those times when I found myself in a floating orgasmic state I tried to put these different level orgasms (both physical and mental) into a pyramid of sorts, or a circle of pleasure (the orgasms re-circle), so I can remember and build on it later.

This is what I came up with:

Level 1: Relaxation
Level 2: Noise Elimination
Level 3: Auto Contractions
Level 4: Prostate P-Waves
Level 5: Dry-O
Level 6: Floating, Loss of Direction
Level 7: Whole Body Waves
Level 8: Mental-Orgasm
Level 9: Loss of Time and Space
Level 10: Physical Super Orgasm
Level 11: Mental Super Orgasm
Level 12: Complete Out of Body Experience

The last level for me (Level 12) is the feeing of ultimate trance, almost godlike. Close to heaven if such ever existed. Pleasure is fully in my mind, it is unbelievable, and I have no sense of physical body.

Level X: Combined Level 10 and Level 11 Super Os at the same time – this is the the most stimulating type of orgasm. It activates all physical and mental outlets. Only had it a few times. I think it requires to keep up the physical contractions whilst allowing thyself to drift into trance. Read more »

Cheat Codes (Re-Posted)

Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have also liked to combine my solo play with a a variety of different cheat options and enhancements. I guess it was simple curiosity or the wish to pursue to a HFWO orgasm which kept getting away from me. I still wanted to try it all, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.

To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both). Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.

But I could never satisfy my curiosity. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:

Edging – 6/10 I would still be interested to get to a ‘goon’ state or a multiorgasmic masturbation session. But this is usually contradictory to Aneros play. I have generally enjoyed my experiences with edging, especially as this is something my partner is receptive to. Those are even better. But generally I don’t have the patience to start stop enough times to get a continuous orgasm state. Maybe this will come with age. It would be interesting to learn this one day. Reach out to me and share if and how you started ‘gooning’ Read more »

Hiatus and Arousal (Re-Posted)

I think I have reached a hiatus and can’t seem to derive a lot of pleasure from my Aneros recently. It feels dull if I’ve masturbated or had sex recently, or I get extremely overexcited without masturbation and sex, so I often end up masturbating instead, which loops back around.

If I try and hold back to not ejaculate for several days, I know the sessions can still be mind-blowing. But I get so aroused I am unable to work or study and end up watching porn and masturbating. There’s nothing else I can think about all day, except teasing myself and I cannot find enough time to have a lengthy Aneros session. I also have to think of ways to avoid ejaculating during sex.
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If I ejaculate through sex with my partner or masturbation, I cannot reach the same level of satisfaction through prostate play for several days, even if I find time for it. I am either not interested or the sessions are dull.

It is also difficult to learn to combine my solo sessions with regular sex with my partner, and that does not always go well. He is simply not interested in trying any toys (including Aneros) himself, and does not understand my desire to have solo sessions independently. I should be happy about that as in he only wants me when we have sex, but I have always been a more sexual person, and I am fascinated by Aneros and prostate play. What was your journey in learning to combine sex or masturbation and Aneros Use? And how do you deal with the refractory period that follows after ejaculating when it comes to prostate play? I suppose it is a learning experience to get to a place where I can rewire and combine both, or enjoy both without affecting the other. This is just one of those things that I haven’t yet mastered.

New Decade (Re-Posted)

After all of my success, I have experienced several months (or even a few years) of dull or limiting sessions in my Aneros journey in 2018/2019 I have almost stopped having them. I posted about this in my previous entry. I knew I would return to Aneros one day, but every time I tried it seemed to go nowhere. I tried to be aroused just enough, and simultaneously relax using all my previous learnings, but no matter what I tried, it didn’t bring me the same level of pleasure.

Then, as we rolled into the new decade, I suddenly and unexpectedly reached new heights. It started with finding out that I may be alone for several days and nights that inspired me to prepare mentally and physically for potentially long sessions that would allow me to relax and re-discover pleasure, and continue my journey. I was getting very excited about that. Whilst that didn’t transpire, I held back and decided not to orgasm in a traditional way. What followed was completely unbelievable, phenomenal and blew my mind completely.

Day 1 – On day 1, my partner went to bed early. He didn’t know that I was holding out, so I decided to just lay next to him and slip in a generic massager that was closest to me. I didn’t experience any overwhelming sensations, but it was pleasant. This increased my arousal further and I wanted more. Read more »

The elusive Aless orgasm (Re-Posted)

Some say that they need the right mood, others champion spontaneity. There are some that claim to have it on demand as soon as they close their eyes. Previous prostate play experience helps a lot, as you can link back to the experience of using an Aneros or another toy. To me, I rarely do it and rarely to reach the same level of pleasure. But maybe I should invest more time into it. No prep, no clean-up.

If I am in the right state of mind, I will attempt Aless at night. My technique is to imagine that I have an Aneros inside, slowly moving and touching all the right spots. Then my session almost matches an Aneros session. Only once I have ended up with an Aless super O.

Nipples help for sure! But I don’t consider it fully Aless, more like nipple induced prostate orgasms. Just last night my partner began stimulating my nipples during sex. I became superbly excited and had a few dry Os in the process, which was amazing. Afterwards, my prostate fluttered, and I didn’t want to cum yet. I decided that I wanted to stay in the arousal mode.

Then, as he fell asleep, I slowly began Aless contractions and reached a sweaty shaking orgasm. It wasn’t very intense, but I imagined a toy going in and out, and visualised it massaging my prostate. In the process that took over an hour, I had several strange visuals that enhanced the experience. I saw a finger or a hand there, reaching in and tickling my pSpot, I imagined being fucked and stimulated. And I just wanted to surrender and submit to the experience. Read more »

Newfound Success… 10 Years On.

Aneros remains one of the greatest wonders I have discovered. I am superbly happy to have had the journey with it. But it can only get me to a deep orgasmic state and blissful state if I have at least 5-6 hours of solo time and no distractions, which is rare. Recently, I have learned to combine it with nipple stimulation which can get me there a little faster. But I still need an Aneros and a lot of alone time to get me to a place of incredible mental and physical pleasure where I lose the sense of being and float space. What works for me is extreme relaxation and plenty of time on my own.

That’s why, despite my success with Aneros, I was always jealous of men that can achieve regular anal orgasms through sex, particularly HFWO which I have never had. Never ever. I guess you always want something that you cannot have. I have tried riding my partner every which way possible and every form of toy available for the past several years. I have spent a lot of money buying and throwing things out like dildos, fucking machines, hypnosis tapes, poppers and even shrooms that simply didn’t work or change anything. In the end, I simply considered myself to be one of those people for whom it will never happen. I kept an nJoy wand in my closet but only used occasionally to milk myself after an Aneros session, never deriving substantial sexual pleasure or orgasming from it. Read more »