I’ve been at it for a little over half a year now and I feel like I’ve made big steps lately. I have both the Ice and Helix syn(cut the tails off both of them, highly recommend it). I get to the point where it feels amazing and I could cum in pretty much 10 seconds if I wanted to touch my dick. I’m still to experience any involuntary contractions 🙁 The only way I can achieve “involuntary” contractions is to contract at about 20% and it’ll start doing it’s own thing but it’s still in a way me doing it.
Anyway, I basically dance on the edge and I have a hard time getting over it. Every contraction feels incredible but I can’t quite get over the edge. Relaxation is out the window at this point as I’m having muscle spasms in my whole pelvic area. How did you guys get past this point? I stay at this level for about an hour (probably longer if I tried) before I call it quits. Total session duration probably 1-2.5 hours.
I have an Njoy wand as well but I haven’t had much success, I have no idea where to use it as I don’t seem to feel where my prostate is.