Wet orgasm

So i have a Aneros progasm and had a smaller aneros a few years back. I can get some light tingling going on or a small wave of pleasure with the these things just having it in my ass. I have also tried a technique where i lay on my stomach with the aneros in and dry hump the matress. Doing this feels extremely good but it does not get over to any orgasm.

However if i move the aneros up and down in my rectum with my hands i will get a strong wet orgasm. I would imagine you guys have stronger orgasms doing it hands free. I also hate that the orgasms i achieve by moving the aneros up and down, are wet, because i lose all “hornyness” after them. Any thoughts?