First dry O’s

Hi!
Finally had some noticeable pleasure for my helix syn.
I realised that I have to squeeze my spinckter muscle quite hard for the helix to reach the spot. I think I need an Aneros which is a couple cm longer to reach that point without squeezing like a mad man… Any tips?

New try

Don’t really have any success, think om gonna try the do nothing method again later this day.
Anyone with tips for guided meditation to really calm down first?