Author: FairLink3333

Shift your focus!

Hey,

For quite some time now I try to reach that elusive Super-O. I felt some pleasure here and there and had some p-waves but nothing earth shattering so far. Today I was kinda frustrated about another dud session, when I read the following quote in the aneros forum: “Pleasure is where attention is”. This made me think: I always felt the pleasure generated by the aneros in the general penis area. Maybe this was because my center of attention was very much penile focused? Penile pleasure waves are easily induced, so why not try to induce pleasure waves from the prostate? I mean, it’s a prostate massager after all, right?

So I had another aneros session with the intend to actually shift my focus from my penis to the spot, where the aneros makes contact with the prostate. At first nothing much happened. The penis sent some pleasure waves as always, but I tried to ignore them. I tried to even feel the tiniest sensations in my butt. After some time I felt some warmth at the spot where the aneros makes contact. Then, all of the sudden, holy fucking cow!!!, this sensation changed. It suddenly became pleasureable and pleasure was groing very deep inside of me. And not only that. It felt like a very substantial type of pleasure that felt like it could grow into a Super-O very easily. Compared to the pleasure induced by penile attention, which only feels like you are on the brink of a normal boring orgasm but dies down very easily, this one felt warm and fuzzy and lovely and like it could spread across your whole body. When I have p-waves in my penis, they die down easily when I get an errection, but the prostate centered p-waves weren’t affected by my errection at all (which, by the way, emerged much more rarely with the mentioned prostate pleasure than with the penile pleasure). Read more »

Where to focus on?

Hey,

Most of the time my pleasureable sensations are located at or right below the penis. I can build the sensations to get pleasure waves and even dry orgasms – but no Super-O so far.

One day though the pleasurable sensations where located in the rectum, right the position where the aneros touches the rectal walls and prostate. This sensation was so much more pleasureable and it felt like I could reach the Super-O that way. Whenever the massager moved, I felt the movements very distinctly (while the movements almost weren’t noticable the sessions before) and with every milimeter of movement, I felt intense pleasure, located in the rectum (not at the penis this time).

That only happened once and I think it was actuall prostate pleasure (contrary to the pleasure felt at the penis).

Now my question is: Should I focus on the sensations at the penis (which are very easy to induce) or should I focus my awareness at the rectum, to bring the rectal prostate pleasure back?

To the folks who are fully rewired: Where do you usually feel your pleasure? At the penis or in your rectal walls where the massager touches the prostate?

I’m confused.