hello i was needing to ask of all the guys that have tryed the aneros. when i first heard about the aneros i wanted to try more for me but also to help with mine and my wifes sex life. but in the area that i'm in the sex stores don't seem to carry a lot for the product. a few weeks back we found the progasm but thats all we found. i never used anything like this before. should i hold off till i find one of the others or try it any way? please tell me what you think