When you order from the Aneros website, your package will say that it shipped from High Island Health. If you look up High Island Health you’ll see that they make prostate massagers. So if somebody really wants to be nosy they will easily figure out exactly what you ordered. Sure, it doesn’t say “prostate massager” directly on the package but if somebody would be nosy enough to read where your package is from in the first place they’ll be nosy enough to look it up.