I have been trying with devices (mainly Aneros) for about 6 years now and had very limited success until the start of this year. A bit of Mindgasm seemed to help get me started but what really unlocked it for me was eating cookies with weed in them. My sessions were incredible once I started with the weed even though I still can’t say I reached any kind of orgasm as such – I just really enjoyed the sessions (but generally drifted off to sleep – probably thanks to the weed). Anyway, recently I’ve stopped the weed due to some mental health issues and my success with toys has been zero unfortunately. But the last couple of nights (and last night in particular) I’ve had some really promising results with no toy at all and just totally being relaxed in bed and just kind of “feeling” the area around my prostate – and I don’t mean with my hands, I just mean being very aware of the sensations there. I did play with my nipples a bit which also helped. But as I’ve read many times it’s the subtle sensations that seem to build. I can’t pretend it was as good as when I was on the weed but I’m really encouraged by this. I was having horny thoughts also but I think the key thing was that nothing felt forced in any way. And the other thing I’ve always felt helps me is not any kind of rapid flexing of the muscles in the area but very slow and subtle tensing until I start to feel pleasure sensations and then holding that for a while or even letting it take the lead with where my flexing goes from there. I hope I’m making sense. I’m still in no way an expert on this but I found it better than trying to follow a more rigid practice like Mindgasm (although that still probably a great start to help people get to know the muscles in the area) and I was inspired by another post on here where someone else had gotten great results with no device. I think we are all very different and because the mind plays such a large part as well I think a lot of it is about finding your own “zen” state where you are really in tune with your body. I’m by no means there yet and I may have a dud session next time but I just wanted to share – and I’m especially pleased because I was thinking I’d only get anywhere again if I used weed and now I know there is hope without it!
Author: Glittering-Kick-7563
Amazing session with Eupho Syn
Last night I had my best session so far. Been on this journey a good few years but only been having success recently (I have to admit to using “special” cookies to get me to this success). I’ve really felt like I’ve been getting closer and closer to climaxing where I’ve felt the waves of pleasure build and then die away, build them die away…
I’ve had most success with Helix Syn V, my WeVibe Vector+, Eupho (white plastic) and Tempo. I got a Eupho Syn about 6 months back and used it once without much happening and then neglected it. Last night I thought I’d give it a go (someone else on here was singing it’s praises) and my session ended up being the best I’ve had yet. I’m still a little vague as to what a super O feels like and people have said you will definitely know when you’ve had one. All I can say is my body was really spasming in the most incredible way and I just felt the most wonderful pleasure all over (but definitely centred in my ass/prostate area). Once again it sometimes feels like there is a climax that is about to happen but doesn’t quite – it builds and peaks and then slips away again before building again. But I’ve read that it’s not like the same release as a penile orgasm anyway. I didn’t ejaculate but just really enjoyed those peaks which seemed to really linger for quite a while. All I can say is it was amazing whatever it was and I hope for more like that!
Session music
So not related to any techniques or anything but I wondered if people use music during their session? I know binaural beats have been mentioned on here and I have tried those but I prefer to not wear headphones if possible and I have a particular favourite album that I love to listen to during my sessions. It’s called “Orchid” by an artist called Ishq and I guess it’s kind of new age type relaxation music but I find it is a bit more upbeat and with lots more going on than you’d usually get in that genre. I find bits of it very mildly erotic but I don’t imagine it was written to be that way. I’m still on the journey rather than having had outright success but my sessions seem to be getting better and better and I’m just really enjoying whatever each one brings me now rather than chasing a super O
No success without weed
So I’ve been experimenting on and off with prostate play for about 5 years now but without any real success until I started experimenting with Mindgasm in January. Even then I just felt like I was on the right track rather than actually having outright success. Weed isn’t something I would usually use but I decided to make up some cookies (smoking makes me nauseous) and instantly my sessions were transformed. Still no actual climax but I was getting some real pleasure and lots of moments of feeling like I was on the edge of some kind of climax. Anyway, I’ve now run out of cookies and would rather not use weed long term (I have problems with addiction so need to steer clear really) but my sessions since are pretty much void of any pleasure – maybe some very mild pleasant sensations but nothing much. I try not to end any of my sessions with traditional masturbation but I find it hard to go more than a couple of days without penis stimulation. The only thing I can think to try is a longer time abstaining from traditional masturbation to help with rewiring. Any thoughts from others? Especially from people who are having success without the support of THC?
Pre-cum?
I’ve been having a lot of success in the past couple of weeks after adding a bit of weed into my sessions. I’m having involuntary contractions (at least, I’m not consciously controlling them) and I keep feeling on the edge of a climax but without ever quite rolling into one. I mainly use the Helix Syn Trident although I have pretty much all the models. But the one thing I wonder about is Pre-cum. I’ve heard people talking about leaking Pre-cum copiously but so far despite how amazing I’m feeling my penis remains dry. I should say when I am aroused when maybe sexting or something I do often leak Pre-cum but it doesn’t seem to happen during my Aneros sessions – my erection seems to come and go during the sessions and I definitely get very aroused but just wondered what other people’s experiences were
Almost there….maybe
I feel like I have finally got to nirvana but am not quite sure how to tip over the edge. My sessions are so enjoyable I’m not too worried at the moment but the first time I got there I barely did anything – just put my helix syn in and I was off. Any movement that was going on with it was on a subconscious level – I wasn’t actively controlling it or thinking about it.
Just to rewind a bit I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about 5 years (not always consistently) but without any success. About 6 weeks ago I started trying out Mindgasm – only tried the free lessons so far. I found that this really helped to awaken me in that area and I had a great session within a week – kept feeling like I was building to some kind of climax and this would happen over and over in cycles but no actual climax of any kind came and eventually the session just ended as the climax cycles ebbed away. In the 5 weeks since I’ve been completely unable to reach that kind of session again but a couple of nights ago I made a batch of “special” cookies. I have very limited experience with weed but read on here about the success people have in this journey with the help of weed. I can’t smoke it because it just makes me feel sick but having it in edible form is fine for me. Anyway – about 2 hours after consuming it I got really horny and put in my helix syn and it was instantly incredibly pleasurable and within no time I was on this crest of waves and feeling like I was near to reaching a climax. I went on like this for about an hour and in the end I did what I probably shouldn’t have and I finished myself off the traditional way – I was just so incredibly turned on I couldn’t help myself. Anyway, last night I did the same again and once again a major success almost instantly after inserting the helix Syn. This time I decided I wasn’t going to finish myself off so I just kept with the near-climax cycles. Eventually they died down and I started drifting off to sleep.
Bit of a ramble
So I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about 5 years now and own lots of toys – mainly Aneros. My practice has been a little inconsistent with periods of activity followed by months of not trying it. I guess when I first read about it in my naivety I was just gonna stick a toy up there and experience this incredible new type of orgasm. Sadly that didn’t happen and I’ve spent lots of time reading all sorts of techniques and toy reviews and persevering (albeit sporadically) hoping that at some point I’m gonna “get it”. I think I started to doubt that it even existed and that maybe this whole thing was a con – or even if it wasn’t that maybe I was just incapable of experiencing it.