Author: goldenboy

“Yes, I’ll Report The Dud Sessions Too!”

This was one of those sessions which never really took-off. I thought I felt aroused, although I didn’t have an erection at the start of the session. So I lubed-up the Helix Trident and started-out. Although I did experience some mild auto-contractions, I just didn’t feel anything against my prostate. I continued for perhaps 25 minutes, but sadly, nothing came. I am now in semen retention Day 10 and wearing my SafeTGard cup for chastity control.

I can’t say I’m really disappointed. Perhaps my prostate is satisfied at the moment and doesn’t want to experience orgasms right now. Perhaps the several days’ worth of milking has kept it satisfied! Whatever the reason, I’ll just savor the fact that I am still progressing in SR. Usually, by now I will have experienced the blue-balls and would have to end the challenge! I’ll stay on the journey!

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“Chastity Is A Game Of Tug-Of-War!”

Introduction
Of course, it is not a real game! But the thought process behind self-imposed chastity is indeed tug-of-war*. Let me explain……

My side of the rope:
I hold on to the “rope” instead of holding on to my cock! It is really that simple! I want to remain in chastity (and semen retention) for as long as possible. I am now at Day 9 and hope to go at least another 6 or 9 days! I ”pull” on the rope by not edging or surfing at all. I have found from much experience that too much edging, surfing or an anticipation of partnered sexual activity will arouse me too much to the point where the blue-balls are almost inevitable. So I am very careful even with Aneros sessions not to directly stimulate my cock at the same time as my prostate.

Just this morning, I had a very nice milking session with SGX which I have not used in a while. It was a worthwhile session: I expelled more prostate fluid, not precum (I can see and feel the difference. Precum is very slippery and stringy, prostate fluid is not as much so.) These healthy prostate milking sessions seem to keep me satisfied while at the same time not getting me too aroused; hence, a nice balance. I enjoy prostate massage without any blue-balls. Read more »

“It Really Doesn’t Get Any Better Than This!”

I had an incredible session this morning with the HIH 950. All I really expected was a nice “milking” session. What I got was much more. Who knew that this diminutive prostate massager had the power to take me close to an ejaculation and feel like a Super-O? As soon as I lubed-up and started, I felt it hit my sweet spot almost immediately. I am currently in SR Day 8. I have no blue-balls feeling (yet). I decided to put-on my XO cup for this session.

Not too long afterwards, I began to get a strong orgasmic feeling with anal/PC contractions. I had to muffle more than a few screams of pleasure. I knew I was “pumping” prostate fluid because I could feel it make its way down to my cock. One of the descriptions of the Super-O indicates large muscle contractions. I definitely had these during this session. From the beginning of the session, I felt close to ejaculating and honestly felt that I would. That is also another “sign” of a Super-O. To quote from the Aneros Wiki:

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“A Super-O is an overwhelmingly strong non-ejaculatory orgasm that may involve: durations of minutes at a time; full-body orgasmic waves of pleasure; intense pleasure throughout the pelvic region, particularly the prostate, rectum and surrounding muscles; loss of a sense of reality; strong emotional responses; flashes of color (optical activity in the brain); large muscle contractions; a strong sense of ejaculation (with no emission); protracted involuntary vocalizations, roars or screams; pleasant convulsions; pronounced deep or staccato pelvic thrusting or writhing; a sense of soulful release and relief; a sense of self-redefinition; and, an energized feeling immediately following orgasm and being ready for more (as opposed to post-ejaculation lethargy).” Read more »

“Chastity’s Middle Name: Frustration!”

Introduction
I got up to go to the bathroom with a semi-hard erection. I was only wearing my regular PJs. When I went back to bed, I became very aware of the sensitivity of my cock and scrotum, so I did what any horny guy would do. I started to fondle and play with them. Of course, I have no intention to want to ejaculate yet (I am in Day7 of semen retention) but it feels so good to get some external pleasure this way.

But just as quickly as I discovered this pleasure, an inner voice told me: “NO! You are supposed to be in male chastity and you need to block access to your package now!” So I quickly listened to that voice and put-on my Mueller “chastity cup” with a covering of loose nylon shorts. Then I went back to bed…

Relief and Frustration
A brief digression…..MLB players, catchers and pitchers in particular, wear almost without exception hard cups to protect their male privates. Why they do this should be quite obvious. They cannot react fast enough to get out of the way of a hard ball coming at them at 100+ mph! A direct shot to the groin of either player could send either one to the emergency room. Yes, some players complain that the jockstrap/cup combo is uncomfortable, but many of the newer cups are actually quite comfortable. If I were a MLB player, I would wear one all the time. Read more »

“Meditation: Frustration and Satisfaction”

Background and Session
I had a nice session with Eupho early this morning, lasting about 30 minutes. I did not sleep in a chastity cup overnight and so I decided on wearing one this morning while I chilled to some relaxing, erotic tracks. I didn’t select my usual XO or Mueller cups which are comfortable and non-restrictive. Instead, I chose my SD Ultra Pro Carbon Cup which is restrictive and very supportive. Of all the cups I have, this one frustrates me in the way it stimulates my entire package. It can accommodate my erect cock as well. I can’t cheat at all while wearing it.

Meditation
While relaxing to some musical tracks (still wearing my cup) I began to meditate on the recent disappointment of some Aneros guys (in the Forum) with their lack of arousal and/or prostate stimulation. And it dawned on me: satisfaction with Aneros is not a guarantee! There will always be a give-and-take, ebb-and-flow of prostate sensations, including orgasms with our sessions. Thus, a prostate orgasm is not a “given” in any Aneros session. Rather, “satisfaction” should arise from other areas of our lives, our prostates are but one small facet of them. Yes, we magnify them because we want the great satisfaction of reporting about our Super-O’s or MMO’s in the Forum. But satisfaction with Aneros should be much deeper than just a fleeting experience during a session. When taken in the context of the “whole male experience” our Aneros sessions, however satisfying or not, become an integral part of us as males. And we should take great satisfaction in that! Read more »

“Your Cock Is Not Detachable!”

Background and Session
Now in Day 5 of SR. Slept just in my PJs. Expected to be awakened by an NPT: I was! Decided on a session with HIH 950. For this session, I took-off everything! An “Aneros-only” session (just my body and my prostate massager). This was a short session (perhaps 15 minutes) but it felt good and produced some precum.

Erotic Hypnosis
Decided to put-on my Bike “chastity cup” which I have not worn in a while. This jock/cup combo is very secure and nicely stimulates my package. I then went to lie-down and listen to an erotic hypnosis track as recently suggested by @SOwithoutAneros. Not thinking I could be hypnotized, I started listening for about 5 minutes…..the next thing I realize is that Shibby is waking me back up, after about an hour! I took a peek inside the cup: I had leaked some precum! What happened during the interim? Did I get an erection? Did I have an orgasm? What did I actually experience? Should I remember anything? Is it all buried deep within my subconscious mind?

Cock Pleasure
Anyway, getting back to the title, it seems to me that every little touch of my semi-erect cock now sends a nice jolt of pleasure directly to my prostate, letting me know what its purpose is. No, I don’t have to ejaculate but the soft, gentle touches on my cock (especially the glans) keep me focused on being a potent male (always with the potential for ejaculation). I can’t just “detach” my cock from my body and put it back-on when I want to or need to. So this erotic feeling goes everywhere I go, and I wouldn’t want it any other way! I can’t help but think now: could this feeling somehow be related to the hypnosis track? Intriguing…. Read more »

“Relaxing In The Comfort Of A Chastity Cup”

INTRODUCTION
I awoke about midnight with a strong night-time erection. I was only wearing my PJs; I was not wearing a “chastity cup”. Since it takes at least 30 minutes for the erection to subside and since I was awake, I naturally began to get pleasure from lightly caressing my scrotum and erect shaft. I felt myself being drawn ever closer to the PONR. I am now in Day 4 of SR and definitely feel my arousal starting to build.

I did not want to continue this stimulating activity and so I decided to put-on my XO cup. Immediately, I felt a great sense of relief: I was no longer able to masturbate, even if my intention was not to ejaculate. I am now able to more fully “relax” without the temptation and without the guilt.

I thought about the following “word-games” and here is what I discovered:

EXPERIMENT #1
I decided to look-up the word “prevent” and try the following experiment:

A chastity cup prevents masturbation.
A chastity cup blocks masturbation.
A chastity cup forbids masturbation.
A chastity cup hampers masturbation.
A chastity cup impedes masturbation.
A chastity cup prohibits masturbation.
A chastity cup stops masturbation.
A chastity cup frustrates masturbation.

And on, and on, and on….

Wow! The chastity cup then becomes a great tool in the “fight” against masturbation! It is no wonder then that I have an affinity for this practice of wearing one when I need help! That is why my mind gets great relief while my male package is “protected” this way! Read more »

“Regaining Arousal Through A Regular Jockstrap”

Since I had to end my SR “run” at Day 8 yesterday, I have to regain strength in the arousal department. Having slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight, I obviously couldn’t feel my sensitive package at all through the cup. So this morning, I decided to stash the cup and put-on one of my jockstraps: the Duke track and swim supporter. This jock has a nice, large, supportive pouch that can easily accommodate my flaccid or erect cock and it does so with great support.

One thing about wearing a “regular” jockstrap (as all guys know) is that it is possible to tease and caress your package through the pouch of the jock. I just can’t keep my hands to myself! Naturally, I began doing this this morning. There is something about stimulating your package through a jockstrap pouch that at least for me is especially arousing. Perhaps it is the “teasing” way that the jock pouch covers my package but allows “playing” as much as I want through it. I can see and feel the curves, bulges and bumps of my masculine package but not see the actual articles. The pouch enables a full-blown erection to occur without much embarrassment either. The erection feels so good through a pair of mesh nylon basketball shorts like I am wearing now. In fact, I feel that arousal building right down to my prostate. Read more »

“Importance Of Focus In Sessions”

Summary
Lately, all of my Aneros sessions have one focus: they are necessary for me to help my prostate “heal” after my recent procedure. These daily prostate massage sessions were ordered by my urologist for a minimum of about one week. I am mostly using my HIH 950 prostate massager for this purpose and I find it to be quite arousing and beneficial in the healing process.

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Reality
Of course, my prostate is in perfect condition and there are no doctor-ordered sessions for me! So this “therapy” is a fantasy! But isn’t this a dishonest approach to my Aneros sessions? By taking this approach, I have a defined focus for all my sessions this week. Rather than aiming for as much prostate pleasure as possible from my sessions (which is always nice), this specific focus takes away the “pleasurable” aspect of prostate massage and puts it aside for a while. Of course, when the prostate gets massaged, a guy undoubtedly knows it! I am no exception! And these therapeutic massage sessions for me are every bit as stimulating as ones intended solely for the pleasures they can provide.

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These “Clinical” Milking Sessions Are Good For Me!

Background
I am now in a getting-horny Day 5 of SR. Went to bed not wearing a cup, but woke up about 3 AM with an arousing erection. Had to put-on my Mueller cup to prevent an unintended ejaculation (I was dreaming and remember squirming-around in bed).

It’s been a couple of days since a session and so I wanted one this morning. I selected my HIH 950; this massager seems to hit the “mark” for me recently and also did so this morning. As soon as I inserted it, I fell-into a most-typical fantasy: I am being “prepared” for a prostate procedure in the morning and I need to allow this prostate massager to work on me for at least 30 minutes.

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Session
The HIH 950 was lubed-up with SSG and was easily inserted. (In the fantasy, a nurse or aide does this for me). I didn’t feel much at first, but only after a few minutes, I began to experience a feeling in my prostate that only Aneros guys will appreciate. I began moaning right from the start; it was that stimulating. I tried to find a “better“. less-intense position (on my other side, on my back, on my stomach) but the clinical “prep” just continued to work on me unabated. Read more »