Author: goldenboy

“Our Male Sexual Reality: Imagining The Possibilities”

Introduction
All of us healthy men have NPTs, that is Nocturnal Penile Tumescence erections at night. These night-time erections come like clockwork. In my case, I am frequently woken-up in the middle of the night with one. Just this morning, I awoke to an NPT. While I was awake, it lasted perhaps 20-25 minutes. A constant, throbbing, pulsing erection. But that NPT was soon followed-up by another one! That one lasted another 20-25 minutes! So I was lying in bed, with an arousing erection lasting at least 45 minutes; all the while, I could do nothing but lie-back and try to relax as best I could. Since I am in Day 4 of SR, there was no possibility of an ejaculation for me. My sexual reality was fixed for about an hour.

While in this state, I began to “meditate” or fantasize on the possibilities of alternate sexual realities for us males. Here is what developed…..

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DPTs
Instead of nightly erections, what if our bodies were programmed for daily penile tumescence? We would have absolutely no control over these daily erections. They would come like clockwork. How would our lives be different? Well, for one thing, men would have to expect more “bulges” to develop at any time during the day. Our wives and lovers would know this and would probably look for them. Some guys (like me) may begin to wear our jockstraps (and perhaps cups as well) to contain our pleasure. More daily sexual encounters would be happening for sure. Atheletes’ attire probably would be affected as well. Read more »

“When Do Prostate Pleasures End? Hopefully, Never!”

Background
Now (reluctantly) in Day 2 of SR again. I wore my SafeTGard jock with it’s original “Cage Cup” overnight and awoke about 5 AM with a strong erection. I got the “sense” that my prostate needed to “relax” with a short massage session. So I dutifully lubed-up the HIH 950 with SSG and began to relax.

Session
“Relaxing” is not quite the word I would use to describe this session. At Day 2, I was expected much less from my prostate. Instead, I got a spine-tingling, whole-body shaking and moaning, ready-to-ejaculate orgasmic feeling. I had not expected this feeling which lasted probably a good 10 minutes. After that, for the next 10 minutes or so, I was somewhat more “relaxed” but still quite stimulated and horny.

After-Session Fantasy
Somewhere out-of-the-blue, I was locked-up in a cock cage (my CB-6000S) and let me tell you, that feeling of “involuntary” chastity sure beats my “voluntary” chastity cup any day! I even imagined (in fantasy) that there was no key! I was locked-up for perhaps an hour, then released.

Afterthoughts
I used to think that following an intense ejaculation, it would take at least a week to recover my prostate to the point of experiencing significant prostate pleasure again. But I am beginning to think that there is indeed a nice, seamless continuity of prostate pleasure if I delay the next ejaculation for another week or 10 days or more. My prostate seems to have a memory of it’s own and it is accustomed to a daily, relaxing “milking” session. I am only happy to oblige! Read more »

“My Prostate Couldn’t Take Any More!”

My! What a morning! I have the house all to myself this weekend. I had a great night, and so did my prostate! Here is the condensed version….

^Starting SR Day 11
^Wore Mueller cup overnight; strong night erection about 2:30 AM
^30-Minute session with Eupho Classic (and BB)
^Brief follow-on session with Helix-Trident (and BB)
^Switched to SD Ultra Pro cup (in SD compression boxers)
^Listened to nice tracks mostly Enigma Red; very deep meditative state; very arousing
^Switched to a swimmer jock; nice erection building
^Listening to more tracks; at some point I began to get some intense prostate O’s (perhaps a Super-O?)
^After a while, couldn’t take it any more; decided on an ejaculation, but how?
^Opted for a “Cum in 5 minutes” binaural with isochronic tones; very effective!
^Extremely intense ejaculation following a long, slow, arousing edging
^Ending SR Day 1

Conclusion
Now I know what “dry” prostate orgasms feel like! I know now that my “good” Aneros sessions are in fact producing some “mild” prostate orgasms (mini O’s?) But these orgasms this morning caused my prostate to start waving the “white flag”! It had enough and had to give-in!

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“Savoring The Non-Ejaculation!”

I’m going to approach this blog post a little differently. Please bear with me….

I have enjoyed the past couple of days of “prostate milking”. I have found that performing a milking session while I am greatly aroused seems to get me close to the PONR and an ejaculation without actually having to ejaculate. When I pass that point, I can then “relax” into the feeling almost like a refractory period. I am then prepared for another round of arousal and the next milking.

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I have recently discovered the pleasures of “manly grooming”—that is, shaving my shaft and scrotum. Thanks to @BigGlansDC for providing me the inspiration. I find that the task of shaving is quite erotic, sexy and stimulating. It is not all difficult and the results are amazing! A clean-shaven scrotum is quite smooth; I can even feel it through my jeans. Also, when paired with my wearing of a “chastity cup” there is much less irritation and “pulling” of hair, thus a more relaxing experience!

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But getting back to the topic at hand, I am now at Day 10 of semen retention! I have slept overnight in my SafeTGard jock with a Mueller cup. This combo is adequate for my erect cock and it is not too restrictive around my groin. This morning, prior to the milking session with the HIH 950, I decided to put-on a condom. I use it not to collect semen from an ejaculation (that would work too), but rather to further stimulate my cock…..it is effective that way. Read more »

“No-Nonsense Prostate Milking Session!”

Well, I made it to Day 9 of SR (wait—let me check my calendar!) Yes, it is really Day 9! I awoke about 3 AM with an erection so strong that it woke me up. I was not wearing anything but my PJs and for a while, I just tried to “relax” as best I could while squirming around on my stomach. I felt really close to the PONR. Had to get up to go into the bathroom and needed to go a few times for relief.

When I returned to bed, I just knew that my prostate was aching, begging for a session. I quickly settled on the MGX Classic—it has been a while since it was selected, but this time it was perfect for the job.

Session
The session started out in the usual way, except that I started moaning and not quietly! The MGX went to work on my prostate almost immediately and it didn’t matter what the ridges were doing to stimulate my anus, the body of the massager was getting exactly where it should be! I had put-on my XO cup at the start of the session.

After about 25 minutes, I decided to pull-down the cup and take a peek. I was not too surprised to see a good 3-4 drops’ worth of clear but not sticky fluid—-prostate fluid! This became then a true prostate “milking” session; one which I desperately needed. I continued the session perhaps another 10 minutes or so and was not too surprised to see an additional 2-3 drops. The session probably could have been continued for another 10-15 minutes, but I felt my cock starting to go down and with it, the intense feeling in my prostate. Ah, a “perfect” prostate milking session! Read more »

“Just Delay A Session!”

Background
I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” to bed last night and I am now going into Day 8 of semen retention. I know what that means…..my testosterone-level is peaking and I certainly feel it! I feel sexy, turn-on, and ready to ejaculate! I was awakened several times early this morning with an incredibly strong erection within the cup. I was so-close to the PONR: I began lightly “thrusting” and pivoting inside the cup, yes, hoping for an ejaculation that was not to come. Oh how I wanted it! So close but No Cigar! But it was fun trying!

Session?
I contemplated an Aneros session while in this state. Which model to choose? A: HIH 950? B: MGX? C: Eupho Classic? D: Or none of the above? I selected “D”. And here’s why….

Rationale
As aroused as I was, why did I not choose to perform an Aneros session? Oh, it would have felt so good, so arousing. It probably would have produced a good amount of precum too. But just as male “chastity” prevents me from masturbating and ejaculating, my sheer “willpower” alone prevented me from initiating my Aneros session. With chastity, there is always a hard “cup” blocking access to my cock. But with Aneros, there is no equivalent “shield” blocking access to my r****m! It is only by sheer willpower that I say “NO!” to a session!

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“Just Relax….Into Bliss!”

Background
My lower back has been very painful lately. I think I have a pinched nerve. Anyway, I had to get up about 3:30 AM and take a much-needed pill; also put some ice on it as well, that did help a bit.

When I finished with the ice, I got back into bed and had a thought pop-into my head (sort-of like a fantasy): “I want to help you to relax. I want you to take the HIH 950, lie-back and just relax.” Very matter-of-factly, I complied.

Session
I lubed-up the 950 and as soon as it went in, I started to deeply relax, just as I was instructed. My focus was not on the prostate pleasure that would be induced, but rather how relaxed it could “make” me feel! So I began to quickly feel a light quivering in my anus; yes, I was relaxed but I also was feeling more aroused. I honestly felt like the 950 was “relaxing” me into almost continuous orgasms right into an ejaculation! Is this the definition of “relaxation”? I was surprised that the 950 also was “making” me relax into doing some stronger contractions; this also felt “relaxing” enough to expel some fluid.

Anyway, I was surprised that this relaxing “session” was a full 40 minutes long! I had on my Mueller “chastity cup” and when I removed it, I was not-too-surprised to see (and feel) a good bit of slippery, clear precum. Easily 3-4 drops’ worth. Read more »

“The Time Machine” and “The Hot Zone”

Introduction
Two different topics in this blog. I just felt it was better to combine them rather than have two separate blog posts!

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“The Time Machine”
I had a nice session with the Helix Trident this morning. Great session, orgasmic feelings galore. But the most interesting thing about this session was the timing. I have found that, particularly with the Helix Trident, the length of the session is always LONGER than I realize. This session was no exception: this session lasted a full 25 minutes. But in my mind, it should only have been about 10 minutes! Where did the extra time go? My only explanation is that somehow I am placed into an orgasmic “trance” during the session and I am unaware of time. That seems to be the only logical explanation for it. I have no other. Did you ever experience that sometimes when you are trying to “fall asleep” and suddenly realize that you in fact have been sleeping and/or dreaming while waking up? I think it is that kind of reality in these sessions. Most of the time now, my sessions occur in the middle of the night. So it makes sense that somehow my brain is in “shut-down” or “sleep” mode and it will get its rest any way it can! One moment I am having an Aneros session, lost in orgasmic bliss and the next moment I am transported back to reality, fully awake and lying in bed!

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“Caged-Up”

“Caged-Up”

Background
I got up early this morning, before the sunrise, with a good night-time erection. Since it was getting too arousing for me, I decided to put-on a “chastity cup”. But which one? My erection was starting to go flaccid, so I decided on my SafeTGard “Cage Cup”. I put it on and, unable to get back to sleep, decided to put on headphones and just chill out with some relaxing, erotic sounds. It wasn’t too long before I started to meditate. Here is the essence…..

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Meditation
I began to meditate on what it means to be “caged-up”. I had a vision of an animal, particularly a lion, confined in a space that he really didn’t want to be in. But more importantly, he is caged-up against his potency, more specifically, his sexual potency. He is unable to roam, mingle and “service” the lionesses. More specifically, he is unable to penetrate the female with his penis.

Isn’t this the same approach, then, with us? Don’t “cock cages” and “chastity cups” perform basically the same function? Aren’t they taking away our sexual potency too? They both prohibit us as males to roam, mingle and “service” other females (or another partner). They prevent us from using our penises in the intended manner or for pleasure.

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“Male Chastity: I Want To Touch Myself but I Can’t Even See Myself!”

Narrative
My practice of self-imposed male chastity grew out of the parallel practice of semen retention. And my interest in semen retention developed as a result of wanting more out of my Aneros sessions. But what is it about male chastity that is so intriguing, so stimulating? Here is my point of view…..
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In my case, I wanted to put an end to my habit of male masturbation. It’s really that simple. My foray into the world of cock cages and then “chastity cups” enabled me to “block” access to my cock so that I could not masturbate nor ejaculate at will anymore. Of course, this is not a 24/7 arrangement for me (like it is for men in chastity with keyholders). But it is of a long-enough duration that I can be mentally “teased” with orgasm denial just long enough to make it pleasurably unbearable for me. After 5 days, 10 days or 12 days (like I just experienced) of orgasm denial, I am climbing the walls in anticipation of an ejaculation. Denying a male his orgasm (ergo, his ejaculation) is a powerful thing, one not to be taken too lightly. The subsequent arousal caused by denying masturbation is intense and may not be tolerated well by all men.
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