Author: goldenboy

“Going From HFWO Feeling Back To Chastity”

Introduction
I can hardly believe it! I have reached Day 12 of SR! Of course, I went to bed feeling quite aroused but didn’t feel like I needed a cup just yet. I awoke about 2:30 AM with an erection so strong I honestly felt that “this was it” and my semen retention “run” was over! I felt that an ejaculation was imminent, no doubt about it.

Session
What did I decide to do? Have a session, of course! I needed to put-on a cup just to keep my cock from getting over-stimulated and spoiling the session with an ejaculation. I selected the ever-vigilant HIH 950 to help “milk” my prostate. It didn’t let me down this morning! All I can say is “moan-fest, Part 2!”. What an unbelievable feeling like I was about to ejaculate! For about 10 minutes, I was writhing on the bed and my left arm actually was shaking; the P-tab was especially effective as I felt that pressure on my perineum with every contraction. For a while, though, I thought that I would finally experience for the first time a HFWO! That feeling was short-lived, however, for after about 10 minutes, I began to feel my cock shrink and with it, so did that extreme prostate-arousal feeling. I took a quick look inside the cup: as I suspected, not precum but prostate fluid! Ah! The pressure was relieved and I feel that I have “returned” to the practice of “regular” male chastity and semen retention! Along with the “milking”, my arousal level has (at least temporarily) subsided as well. Perhaps this is the way that guys get-through long periods of locked-up chastity? Through periodic release of prostate fluid with the help of their keyholders? Sure makes sense to me. Read more »

“A Moaning-Fest With Helix-Trident!”

Introduction
Early-morning session with the Helix-Trident! I decided to lube-up with Boy Butter this time. Session got off to a great start; I started moaning right from the start! The Helix hit my prostate’s sweet spot immediately and never let it go! My moaning continued and so did the auto-f**k contractions! I find that the Helix-T is one of the best overall prostate massagers in my collection. Due to its design, it seems to target my prostate exactly where it should. I am helpless to avoid or negate its effects.

Session
Sessions with the HT always are longer than I realize. This one was a full 30 minutes. Some, but not a lot of precum. I am now in Day 11 of semen retention and have absolutely no signs of blue-balls yet. I am learning just to “let-go” with the theory that I “need” to ejaculate. It certainly isn’t easy when the aroused erections come, but I find that the best way to cope is just to ignore it, if that makes any sense. In every case, the erection (and arousal) will subside; it is only a matter of time. And once that erection dissipates, likewise so does the arousal. I must realize that I can’t be aroused 24/7; there is a certain amount of give-and-take in this. It is not a constant frenzy of prostate-induced orgasms! But the sweet Aless sensations linger-on for much longer than the actual session time. Ah! Read more »

“Day 10 and Looking Forward!”

Introduction
Day 10 of SR and no sign (yet) of blue-balls! Incredible erections last night; had to put-on my XO cup just to keep from an eventual ejaculation. Decided on a session with Eupho. Probably the best session I’ve had in a long time. Let me explain…..

Session
Since I was already greatly aroused, getting that “feeling” from my prostate was easy. Auto-**** contractions started almost from the beginning and so I knew I was off to a good start! Whole-body convulsions too! What I like especially about the Eupho is that with each different body position I experienced sensations on different parts of my prostate! I suppose that is built-in to the design of the Eupho. I honestly felt on my way to a Super-O! This session only lasted about 25 minutes but I expelled a lot of precum during that time. I took-off the cup and replaced it with a pair of silky boxers.

After-Session
Now listening to a favorite track on YouTube: “Fotis Langaris – Music for Sex (Round 4”). Going to lie-down and listen. Perhaps cozy-up to my scrotum and prostate but not my cock! My next ejaculation (so far) is more of a distant memory. When/how will it occur? Intriguing……

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“Don’t Be So Eager To Ejaculate!”

Background
Now in Day 9 of SR; wore my Mueller cup overnight. Early morning, decided to take-off the cup and replace it with a pair a silky boxers with a contour pouch. Went back to bed but couldn’t sleep; decided to lie-down on my comfortable sofa and settle-back with some relaxing massage meditation tracks. Also decided not to have a session this morning.

Meditation
While listening, I honestly felt like I would edge, then ejaculate. But what developed was a very gentle scrotal/perineum massage that completely avoided my penis. I received all the erotic sensation of this “massage” without the expectation of an ejaculation. That was not to say that I didn’t want it. I did. But without the presence of “blue-balls”, there was no reason in the world that I should ejaculate!

Outcome
I now have a semi-firm erection and my balls feel very solid. I am leaking precum too. I should ejaculate. But instead, I will let this erection settle-down until I go flaccid again, then (hopefully) I will make it through the day without the ache in my groin, signalizing to me that it is indeed time for a release! But I really want to progress to Day 10 and beyond in this “run” of semen retention! What a feeling to be at max-T! Read more »

“SR Day 8 —– Oh My, What A Feeling!”

Background
Now in Day 8 of SR with my testosterone boost in overdrive. I wore my SafeTGard cup overnight and awoke about 3 AM with a hard, throbbing erection. Wanted a session so I selected my HIH 950. Now it doesn’t look like much but let me assure you, it does the job!

Session
I started the session somewhat flaccid but quickly developed another erection. I continued to wear the cup during the session since it takes my hands off my cock where they don’t belong. I immediately began to feel the p-waves and some auto-contractions which resulted in some precum. Honestly felt like heading for a HFWO. I am moving around in bed, lightly moaning throughout. Surprised that 30 minutes had already passed while in this feeling of ecstasy.

After-Session
Went to listen to some nice, erotic tracks for about an hour, then went back to bed still wearing my SafeTGard cup. I somewhat remember a lucid dream that was of a sexual nature. I remember “thrusting” in bed but not much more. Perhaps I am closer to a wet dream than I realize? Interesting, but I have absolutely no blue-balls feeling during this current “run” of semen retention. I hope I can keep it that way! If I may be honest, I am feeling like an ejaculation* but don’t really want one just yet. (Thank goodness for the chastity cups that help me!) I like the “High-T” feeling too much! It puts a “male” spin on everything I see and do! Read more »

“Relax, It’s Only Chastity!”

Introduction
No session last night. But I awoke around 12:30 AM with a stiff one. I decided to wear my XO “chastity cup” —- and that got me thinking…..

Instruction
The “chastity cups” I wear could be interpreted as a piece of erotic fetishism. Yes, they cradle and caress my manly “package” with authority: they could be considered to be ultra-sexy. However, in reality, in my case, they are nothing more than a means to an end. That is, they prevent me from enjoying the pleasures of male masturbation. Do I need this? I believe I do. Without it, I am prone to my wandering hands’ eagerness for pleasure and gratification. And an erection within the cup only adds to the temptation.

Sensibility
Just relaxing into the satisfying feeling of chastity is rewarding enough for me. If I can keep my head where it belongs, I can endure the reality of night-time erections (NPTs). But the added pressure of a testosterone boost (I am now again in Day 7 of SR) does take my “chastity game” to a new dimension! It’s like trying to ignore an itch—-it needs to be scratched! The same way with a sexual urge. It can be ignored, but only up to a point. Eventually, that itch just has to be scratched! What is my sexual “strength” to ignore the itch? I am tested almost daily!

Reality Check
The subconscious mind stores everything you ever did in life. Here is a definition: Read more »

“Sorry, Guy, Your Cock Is Off-Limits But Your Prostate Is Not!”

Introduction
I had my annual urological checkup yesterday. Having had a PSA blood test 2-weeks ago, I always am a little apprehensive until I hear the number. Well, I’m happy to report that my PSA was again quite low (1.7)! My urologist also performed a thorough DRE and said my prostate is in fine shape! What a relief! I celebrated with a nice dinner out with my wife!

Session
I had a nice session early this morning. I thought I would select the HIH 950 but instead went with the SGX. It was a good choice: right from the start, I began to experience anal contractions (almost like an anal orgasm). I am again wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” — I had a brief respite this week due to some groin irritation caused by a flare-up of a skin tag. That seems to have cleared-up and I am again placing my cock “off-limits” but not my prostate! And while relaxing this morning, just chilling, I began to dwell more on this topic…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on the fact the quite a few of us Aneros men have issues with sex in the usual sense. I am no exception. But that does not mean that we guys cannot obtain sexual pleasure and relief. It’s just that we do it another way. Let me explain….. Read more »

“My Cock…..Exposed!”

Background
After my TO yesterday, I was wiped-out for about half-a-day. No energy, feeling “blah”. I did rebound by the later afternoon, however. I noticed I had some groin irritation probably caused by my extended wearing of “chastity cups” and so I decided to go “cold-turkey” without them for a few days for improvement.

So I slept last night in nothing but my PJs. Of course, the NPTs woke me up a couple times during the night. What to do? Well, all I could do was roll-over on my side, take some pressure off my cock and “try” to get back to sleep….which I eventually did.

Release from Chastity
Of course, I have trouble keeping my hands off my cock when not in chastity, so the next couple of days will be challenging for me. But I am only in Day 2 of SR again, so I am not anxious in the least to ejaculate again.

This release from chastity will have its pros and its cons. On the pro side, I will be able to enjoy any erections that I experience for the next few days. I will see and feel each one. It may even make for a more romantic “setting” in the bedroom! But on the con side, it may hasten my desire for another ejaculation. And with sufficient arousal, it may provide me with an opportunity to experience the “blue-balls” feeling once again. Read more »

“Refractory Period Following Prostate Massage?”

Introduction
I have noticed with “daily” Aneros sessions, that I invariably experience a pseudo-“refractory period” following the session. I looked-up “refractory period” online and discovered this definition (ref. ISSM – International Society for Sexual Medicine):

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“What is the refractory period?

After orgasm, both men and women experience a resolution stage. At this time, their bodies “recover” from sexual excitement and return to their normal states. For men, the penis becomes flaccid again and he goes through a refractory period.

During the refractory period, a man doesn’t think about sex or get aroused. His body does not respond to sexual stimulation and he is unable to reach orgasm again until the period is over. The length of the refractory period is different for every man. It may take a half hour or more for his body to perform sexually again.

Younger men may need only a few minutes of recovery time, but older men usually have a longer refractory period, sometimes between 12 to 24 hours. For some men, the refractory period can last a few days.

Experts aren’t sure why the length of refractory periods varies so much among men. But they do know that the length of time needed is not related to potency or testosterone levels.”

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“After the Erection and Arousal, What Comes Next?”

Hello!
I’ll bet you’re wondering: I know the answer! Do you? I thought about this too…..The answer is not an ejaculation! Surprised? Let me explain……

The Truth
What came next for me was an Aneros session. I selected the HIH 950 for my prostate’s health. This massager does its job without being overbearing. There is just enough stimulation of my prostate to help me relax into erotic bliss. During this 30-minute session, I tried to relax as completely as possible. But it isn’t easy, for every so often, I would get a ‘jolt’ of pleasure that caused me to tense-up my anal sphincter around the massager. Usually, when this happens, I can feel my erection starting to build-up as well. I know I am experiencing some prostate orgasms when this happens.

Male Chastity Interaction
For this session, I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” and also a condom on my erect cock. I like the stimulation the condom provides against it due to the added silicone lube. Oh, what a feeling! At one point, I removed the cup and squirmed-around on the bed, causing even more prostate pleasure! But I was careful not to stimulate it too much: no ejaculation for me at this time! Read more »