Author: goldenboy

“I Avoided Chastity (Almost) All Night!”

Here’s the Scoop
I just decided to wear my good-old PJs to bed last night. No issues there. I knew the NPTs were coming later-on during the night, but I would take my chances then. Well, I awoke not once, not twice, but three times, each one with a hard, throbbing, long-lasting erection! After what seemed like a cumulative hour-and-a-half of this, I decided that enough is enough and so I decided to put myself into chastity with my XO ProCup. What a relief!

Session
Still in the last NPT erection, I decided on a “daily” session* with my Helix Trident. I like the Helix because of the way it is designed and the way it “hugs” my prostate without my even trying. I lubed-up with BB and went to lie-down in bed.

This wasn’t the longest session with Helix (only about 25 minutes) nor the most stimulating, but nevertheless, I’m glad I chose the Helix. It always yields a nice Aless following the session.

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*Added Benefit: I have noticed a marked reduction in my BPH symptoms with a “daily” Aneros session. My nightly trips to the bathroom are now virtually nonexistent! Is Aneros causing this effect? I think so. If I regard my daily Aneros sessions as therapeutic, then I am using them exactly as High Island Health suggests: Read more »

“Does it Matter What I Wear To Bed? You Bet!”

Background/Session
Now in Day 8 of SR and my testosterone is peaked. I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” to bed but woke up about 4 hours later with an erection. I wanted a session so I went with the SGX (lubed with Slippery Stuff Gel). Now this session was not particularly interesting, but one thing I did note was the time. I was quite surprised that 30 minutes had transpired! I really didn’t “feel” like it lasted that long. Was I daydreaming? Or was I just enthralled by the pleasure? I have noticed this same phenomenon with the Helix Trident. Time seems to “fly” when in a session with these devices. Following the session, I retired to my sofa, put on headphones and just chilled with some relaxing tracks. I was disappointed that I remained very flaccid during the entire time.

When I finished with the musical “session”, I took-off the cup and replaced it with a pair of boxers with a contour pouch that displays my package (flaccid or with an erection) with a nice ‘bump’. I went back to bed.

Extreme Erections
I awoke twice during the remains of the night, each one with a very intense and arousing erection. It takes me much self-control not to cum. I even thought about putting on another condom and with a few thrusts into the bed, have a very satisfying ejaculation. But I believe my self-control is not yet “out-of-control” and so I was able to cope. Read more »

“Eupho and a Condom (On My Cock)”

Introduction
I awoke about 4 AM with a very hard night-time erection. Today in Day 7 of SR and my testosterone should be peaking. It sure feels like it! I decided to have a session with Eupho Classic. I wanted to try something new: put a condom on my erect cock and keep it on during the session. Let’s see what happens…..

Session
I lubed-up the Eupho with Boy Butter and inserted it easily. The session got underway with nice p-waves and a gentle “tickle” on my prostate. The condom stretched-out as my cock got firm once again. As the session progressed, I found myself lightly thrusting on the bed and the condom slipped as it should on the inside. Ohhhh, what a feeling! The combination of prostate massage and some cock rubbing makes for an interesting “simulated sex” feeling! [This combo should make for some great sex!] Oh, how I wanted to ejaculate! I did feel some fluid emanating from my cock into the condom and that only made it slipperier! This session lasted 30 minutes.

Afterthought
The condom stays on the glans of my cock after the erection subsided, but it is ready to go-to-work should the need (arise) again!

PS Aneros and condoms make for an interesting, sexy pairing! Try it sometime!

PS Having a condom on my flaccid cock (on the glans) now makes for an interesting sensation. It enables the cock to be “ready” for the next erection! Quite a sexy, arousing pleasure! I like it! Read more »

“What A Great Session With Helix Trident!”

I slept in my Safe-T-Gard Cage Cup overnight. Up around 4 AM and wanted a session with Helix Trident. I was not especially aroused but figured I would get that way soon enough. I was right…..but it took a little time. Let me explain…….

I lubed-up HT and started the ride. I am always amazed at how quickly time passes when using it. Before I knew it, it was almost 30 minutes. But then, something “magical” happened. I began to feel an erection building through the cup. And at the same time, I began to feel more “pressure” from the HT on my prostate. Honest truth! As the pressure began to build, so did the orgasmic and HFWO feelings. The design of the HT is such that movement is quite different from the “Classic” models. I can feel the difference.

Toward the end of this 40-minute session, I began to squirm and convulse on the bed. I basically had a “do-nothing” session but with the design of the HT and especially the P and K-tabs, it is hard not to feel the contractions (and reverse ones as well) on my receptive prostate. I wish this session would have lasted longer, but I noticed that my lube (Slippery Stuff Gel) was beginning to dry out a little. I could tell upon removal. For these longer sessions, I should use a longer-lasting lube! (Perhaps shea butter as suggested by @Zenopause!)

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“Made For Touch: A Male Chastity Perspective”

Introduction
While in bed last night, I started out wearing my XO ProCup over a pair of form-fitting red boxers with contoured pouch. A great, sexy combination! Toward the middle of the night, I woke up aroused and decided to take-off the cup for a while and see what happened. I was lying in bed just wearing the boxers. Well, it wasn’t very long that I had my hands all-over my firm, sensitive package. I just couldn’t keep them off! So after about 10 minutes or so, I decided to return to chastity and put-on my cup once again. Being in Day 4 of SR, I didn’t want any last-minute surprises!

Bed-time “Chastity Session”
Believe it or not, this same pattern was repeated at least 3 times. And each time, I was unable to keep my hands to myself. This became almost like a “chastity session”! I once again put-on the “chastity cup” and that got me thinking…..

Perspective
I began to dwell on the concept of male erogenous zones and why touch is such an important part of the male sexual arousal cycle. And it became very clear to me: the male body is designed for touch! Think about it…..without touch, we cannot get aroused. Without touch, we cannot ejaculate. So it is not surprising at all to me that my “experiment” in bed last night proved to me why male chastity is embraced by me so boldly. It prevents sexual touch of myself BY MYSELF. It is one thing to arouse onself; it is entirely different if someone else (male or female) arouses me. And that is where the male erogenous zones come in: touching these “zones” is required for the “normal” sexual response cycle of the male. Read more »

“Just Got The Urge For Chastity”

Introduction
Only in Day 3 of SR but still feeling quite horny. No session for me this morning; however, I got a sudden “urge” to try-on my CB-6000S cock cage after many months of inactivity. Would it fit? How would it feel? I was intrigued at the possibilities. Here is what happened……

The CB-6000S
This is the real thing! Initially it took me about 2-3 weeks to get the “fit” just right—I was wondering whether anything changed. I got out all 7 pieces and once I lubed-up with Liquid Platinum, everything started to go-together just as it should. However, there was one slight problem: I developed an erection almost immediately! OMG! This is not desirable when trying to get into a cock cage. I think my cock sensed that it was going to get locked-up and was demonstrating its displeasure at the thought! All I could do was just to wait a little while until I started to shrink—–it didn’t take but a minute or two. Once on the flaccid side, my cock was able to be enveloped in the clear cage and with a “click!” of the lock, I was placed in chastity. Oh, what a feeling! Read more »

“Sexual Libido Tune-Up: An Extended Fantasy”

Introduction
This fantasy “session” was inspired by @BigGlansDC; thanks buddy!

Believe it or not, I am only in Day 2 of semen retention. But that is not stopping me from having great daily Aneros sessions. This morning was no exception, let me explain….

Session
This morning’s session was with the selected Eupho Classic. I like Eupho because it is very slender, inserts easily and has great movement. This 25-minute session again gave me a HFWO feeling but it did much more. It “triggered” in me a fantasy, a “living fantasy”. Here it is as best as I can remember…..

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I am due for my urological and prostate exam in 2 weeks (yes, for real) and my urologist wants to give me a male libido tune-up prior to my schedule visit which they have found to be very helpful for us older men. I will relate the various “steps” as best as I can recall them.

Libido Tune-Up
First-up was the prostate massage “session” as I have already described it. I was wearing a cage cup for this session so my cock was not accessible to me.

Next, I was instructed to put-on a pair of tight boxers with a contour pouch. This felt good and I was instructed to lie-back and “feel” for my erogenous zones through the silky material: specifically, my scrotum, cock (including the glans and the frenulum) perineum and anus. All of these in turn were to receive some “loving” from my hands. The aim was to induce an arousal in me that could result in an erection. After a period of time (perhaps 20 minutes or so) I was feeling quite aroused; yes I did have an erection and was ready for the next step. Read more »

“Hey Aneros! It’s Only Day 1 Again!”

Background
Nearing the end of SR Day 13, I went to bed knowing that I would have to ejaculate. I was getting a very “full” feeling and an achy “blue-balls” sensation in my groin and just wanted a release. I put-on a pair of silky boxers and retired for the night….

I awoke a few hours later with a raging erection and a feeling that (gasp!) I needed to ejaculate again! Not wanting to, however, I quickly put-on my XO “chastity cup” to quench the extreme feeling and keep my hands where they belonged. It didn’t work too quickly, but finally after about 10 minutes of non-masturbatory peace, the erection began to subside.

Session
I honestly felt that I “needed” a session at this time. But so soon after an ejaculation? After all, it’s only Day 1! Should I or shouldn’t I? Yes, I quickly decided on the HIH 950, if only for regular prostate health. Good choice! The massager went in deep and began to stimulate my prostate to the point of expelling prostate fluid! For 25 minutes or so, I was in orgasmic bliss! I could not believe how the 950 was hitting the mark! At several points, it honestly felt like I was approaching a HFWO! Read more »

“Protecting My Virility”

[Definition of virile–“having the nature, properties, or qualities of an adult male; specifically: capable of functioning as a male in copulation” ] [Definition of copulation–“engaging in sexual intercourse where the penis is inserted into the vagina”]

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Background
Currently in Day 13 of SR with no blue-balls. Getting quite horny and having random erections throughout the day. No wet dream yet. I would welcome an ejaculation but feel there is no great need to have one just yet. But the mental pressure for it is getting fairly intense. How long can I go?

Session
Continuing “squeezing” my prostate to release fluid, I selected my MGX early this morning for a nice session. It released a lot of prostate fluid into the cup of my SD jock. During the 20-minute session, I thought about how good it would feel to ejaculate, perhaps through a HFWO. But afterwards, I decided to take-off the SD jock and just wear a pair of silky boxers. I went to lie-down and relax some more. My cock was flaccid, but I started fondling my very sensitive package, especially the scrotum. This turned into something of a fantasy, as I am in bed with my lover and she is very gently caressing my package all-over, not with the intent of making me ejaculate, but rather to give me an orgasmic sensation in my groin. This she did perfectly! At the end, however, I was not erect. Read more »

“I’m Not Going To Lose It If I Don’t Use It!”

Background
Now in an incredible (for me) Day 12 of SR with no blue-balls! I awoke about 2 AM, erect and wearing my Mueller cup. I decided to have a session with my Helix Trident. It was a good choice! Significant auto-* contractions and a general feeling of “squeezing” my prostate again. I expelled more prostate fluid with this session.

Alas, I did not experience another wet dream yet.

Use It or Lose It?
I am referring to the dearth of ejaculations for me lately. Frankly, I am getting horny as hell. I am almost at that point where I have to have a wet dream and soon. All I seem to think about now is ejaculating. This is going to be a real “test” of my transmutation techniques. Keeping my sexual libido in check while going about my daily routine today is going to be quite challenging. I hope I am able to cope. I must remember that guys go much longer than me while still practicing chastity. I must remember that I will not lose my ability to ejaculate, regardless of how many “days” it’s been. This ability is “hard-wired” into my male body! I will never lose it!

How Do I Really Feel?
Honestly, I am typing this blog with a half-erection and a feeling that I could ejaculate at any time. Perhaps I am closer to a wet dream than I realize. I know my cock is trying to tell me something… Read more »