Author: goldenboy

“Just Enough” Chastity

Background
I’m only in Day 3 of SR and decided to wear my SafeTGard “chastity cup” overnight. This chastity cup is distinguished with several attributes. First, the supporter is quite loose and flexible. I probably would not choose it for use as a jockstrap in contact sports like football or wrestling. The Cage cup itself is comfortable but it is noticeably smaller than all the other cups I own. As I mentioned in a previous blog, it does not accommodate my erect penis very well. This jockstrap and cup combination then would not be my first choice for an adequate groin protector. But the SafeTGard Cage Cup is quite commendable in its use for chastity. I will explain….

Activity
Last night, I got to sleep and decided not to have a session just yet. Since I am only in Day 3, I wanted some time to elapse before I started to feel the ramp-up in my T-level, which normally starts for me around Day 4.

While wearing this cup and before I developed an erection, I had the opportunity to “feel” around the edges of the cup, near my scrotum. Because it is not tight at all, that area of my anatomy is quite accessible and so I took advantage of it. This actually developed into a fantasy of sorts: my partner is with me in bed and “exploring” my anatomical features with her probing fingers. It felt amazing! Surprisingly, I did not develop an erection. Later, she began to feel around the cup itself, and put her fingers between the outer pouch and the smooth, slippery cup. Again, an amazingly good feeling! Read more »

“Semen Retention: A Number or A Feeling?”

I have been practicing semen retention (SR) for a while now. In fact, I “mark” my calendar with SR days and when I ejaculated. It helps me keep track of the potential for blue-balls to which I (unfortunately) I am subject if I wait too long.

Lately, I have been having fairly frequent Aneros sessions. Often, my sessions utilize my Helix-Trident which can be fairly aggressive on the prostate. I have generated a lot of precum with it lately. I am only in Day 2 now (by the calendar) but my prostate and my cock tell me otherwise. I am having fairly frequent erections without warning. Is my prostate telling me something? Do I need to ejaculate again in Day 2?

Of course, I will not purposely ejaculate only at SR Day 2. I can usually last 9-10 days now before I feel the blue-balls coming on. In the meantime, I will mark my calendar with the right number and/or letter!
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PS For those guys who have not tried semen retention yet, I highly recommend it. You may find (like me) that it is not just a number; but by the way you feel you may be convinced to continue it. What will be your highest number? (Mine is 26!)
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“An Underwhelming Cup, But Compensation Galore!”

Background
I decided to wear my diminutive SafeTGard “chastity cup” to bed last night. I like this one: the strap is not tight at all and the cup (Cage Cup) is shallow and not too long. If I “point” my cock down in it, it fits well. Of course, it won’t accommodate an erection too well, but that’s okay. The erection will push up the cage and it will not be uncomfortable. By the way, I am heading into Day 9 of SR with no sign of blue-balls. Amazing!

Sesssion #1
I awoke not too early and decided to continue my BPH-relief sessions. I didn’t know which massager to use. I thought about the HIH 950 but decided to go for the more aggressive Helix-Trident. I lubed-up with BB and started. This session lasted about 30-35 minutes and what I noticed most was a lot of slippery, sticky precum. Almost like a ‘precum milking’. It seemed that eventually, following rapid and regular kegels (due to the P- and K-tabs) I hit a “precum sweet spot” and the more contractions I did, the more precum I produced. Eventually, I had to remove the cup completely and when I did, I was able to see and feel all the precum I was producing. My cock grew a couple of times just to show me how much precum it could produce! I ended this session on a high note and went back to sleep. Read more »

“You Can Try, But You Can’t Hide From Your Chastity Cup!”

Introduction
Sometimes, I go to bed only wearing my short PJs. Last night was one of them. I managed to fall asleep quickly, not knowing whether I would be awakened by an NPT (night-time erection). Last night was one of those nights! I am now in Day 8 of SR and feeling the full-effects of my testosterone boost.

Ambush
I awoke to an extremely hard, throbbing cock and the PONR “feeling” I have felt so many times before. I needed to use the lavatory, and while I was in there, I was “greeted” with an SD “chastity cup”. Before I knew what happened, the cup was pulled-up, completely enveloping my still-erect cock. I saw it disappear beneath the close confines of the hard, yet flexible cup. My cock is now “behind bars” so-to-speak; that is the way this “ambush” felt!

Conclusion
I tried to run-away, but I just wasn’t able to escape from my fate: this “chastity cup” had my name on it and was waiting for me in the night!

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“A Funny Thing Happened While Practicing Semen Retention”

Introduction
I slept in my XO “chastity cup” and felt very unfulfilled sexually overnight. I am thinking about an ejaculation again. A night-time erection woke me up quite early. I realized that I am now approaching Day 7 of SR and that will mean a peak in my testosterone level. I looked online for some benefits of this testosterone “boost” and came up with a significant list. Here are some examples of the benefits of increased testosterone….

Testosterone Boost
“Testosterone maintains male fertility, libido, mental and physical energy levels, muscle strength, general well being and prevents depression and fatigue.”

It seems to me that all of these things are desirable. I achieve all of these by regularly practicing semen retention (SR) and it is notable that testosterone level “peaks” to about 45% above “normal” at SR Day 7! (This has been verified by a scientific Chinese study).

Attention from Females
It is also said that men practicing semen retention will have more attraction from females. But I never understood why. I think I know now. A quick online search revealed the following….

“Women at their peak fertility prefer the smell of men oozing with testosterone, a new study finds.”

Wow! Now I know the reason that when I practice SR, I seem to get more “attention” from some women!

Increase in Male Libido
On top of all of the benefits of semen retention, there is one that stands-out above all the others: increase in male libido. I looked-up the definition of “libido”: Read more »

“Aneros Inspiration…In A Parking Lot!”

Background
Yesterday, while walking through a parking lot to my car, it suddenly struck me how “cars” are a lot like Aneros prostate massagers! Sounds foolish? Well, hear me out. A car is designed to take one from Point “A” to Point “B” . It could be a jalopy or a sleek convertible. But it will take you where you want to go. It has a motor, four wheels and a steering wheel. Well, isn’t this the same basic principle as with Aneros prostate massagers? We can choose the most “fancy” massager or one that is most “plain”. But in either case, we are still getting to Point “B”! So it makes sense to me that regardless of whether I choose the lowly HIH 950 or the sleek, sophisticated Helix-Trident, I will be massaging my prostate. After all, they are both designed for the male anatomy. And the same is true for all the other Aneros models.

Session
Last night, I slept in my very comfortable SafeTGard “chastity cup” with Cage Cup. The Cage is shorter than all other cups I have and it will not accommodate my erect penis. But that is okay, since when erect, the frenulum protrudes beyond the top edge of the cup and provides some very stimulating feedback. I am currently in Day 6 of SR (how I wish it could be Day 16!) and as I described in a previous blog, I have been having sessions now to relieve BPH symptoms. It is working well! Read more »

” A Night Full of Surprises”

Background
I could not have seen this night coming! It was full of surprises. Let me explain…..

I am now in Day 5 of SR and feel my T building-up. I went to sleep wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” and a short pair of PJs. I had not yet fallen asleep yet; it was only about 10:30 PM. Although not aroused in the least, I got an urge to have a session. I am now doing more frequent sessions to relieve BPH symptoms and they appear to be working. I selected the SGX (which I had not ridden in a while), lubed it up and it felt so good upon insertion. I could not have predicted the outcome of this session.

Session with SGX
Within the first 20 seconds of insertion, although I was completely flaccid going in to the session, I developed a hard erection beneath the chastity cup and it stayed hard for the rest of the session. And almost from the start, I began to softly moan. Not because I wanted to, but almost as if I had to. This moaning was quite unusual for me; I felt something in my anus that was caused by the ribbed stem of the SGX. I concentrated on my anal canal, not concentrating on anything that could be happening with my prostate. And the moans just kept going unabated. The moans actually lasted the entire 35-minute session! When the session ended and I went to remove the SGX, I noticed that I was still erect beneath my Mueller cup. Read more »

A Quick Primer on Male “Chastity Cups”

Background
While relaxing and chilling this morning with some nice tracks, I had the opportunity to fantasize and reflect on my fascination with male “chastity cups”. (I had an inquiry from an Aneros member recently who wondered whether I am still practicing semen retention and male chastity. The answer is a resounding yes!) Let me explain…

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What is a male “chastity cup”?
What it is basically is a male athletic supporter with a hard cup. Nothing more, nothing less! There are many brands available and I have several. Among my favorites: XO ProCup, Shock Doctor Ultra Pro Carbon Cup, Mueller Sports Medicine cup, SafeTGard with Cage Cup.

What is is used for?
There are myriad uses for these cups. First, in sporting events such as baseball and hockey, the cups are used to protect the vital male genitalia from injury. Ever been accidentally kicked in the balls? Not too pleasant? Well, the cups prevent the most serious injuries from occurring.

As I use them for male chastity, these cups serve another purpose entirely. They prevent me from touching, caressing and stimulating my male “package” so that I cannot masturbate while wearing one. So simple but yet so effective! I can stroke and rub the hard cup all I want and I may develop an erection but suffice it to say that there will be no ejaculation while I am wearing one. This is especially true at night while I am in bed (before I have selected and put-on a cup); invariably I will begin to play with my package almost automatically. I have to catch myself before I get too aroused with an erection. It is too easy to reach the PONR and an undesired ejaculation. It is then that I select a cup and put it on. Read more »

“This Eupho Session Was For BPH Relief”

I have been overdue for a session, getting frustrated as well. I think I was in an Aneros “lull” and I think I know why. I have been getting away from the “original” purpose of Aneros (and High Island Health) and that is for BPH relief. This is the reason I “discovered” Aneros in the first place almost 2-1/2 years ago. So I decided to return to my “roots”—–and guess-what? I had a very good session. Let me explain……

I slept in my XO “chastity cup” and am currently in Day 4 of SR. When I awoke, I was not especially aroused. But that didn’t stop me from lubing-up the Eupho-C and getting some BPH relief. I have noticed recently a trend towards more frequent trips to the lavatory at night and double and triple “voiding” afterwards. The prostate massages work very well in this regard and I am disappointed in myself for not taking advantage of it.

What I probably should do is put myself back on a “BPH-relief” schedule every couple of days and determine how my BPH symptoms are (hopefully) diminishing. After all, it is less than 2 months away from my annual urological exam and I don’t want any surprises! Read more »

Are We Over-Analyzing Our Aneros Sessions’ Experiences?

No session last night. I am only in SR Day 2 but slept in my XO ProCup overnight. What a feeling! This morning, before I got up for the day, I began to think about the “chastity cups” that I wear. They really only consist of 4 “pieces”: waistband, leg straps, pouch and hard cup. But the way they all come together around the male anatomy is nothing short of amazing! That combination seems to go straight to the center of the male libido. While lying in bed, I am again thwarted from fondling or even touching my male package! I can touch all-around the hard plastic “cup” but I can’t do anything else! So frustrating!

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A little later-on, I am reading some recent forum posts and, pardon me, but it seems that we Aneros gents are “over-analyzing” our prostates! I am probably just as guilty as the next guy. But hey, after all, what are we doing to our prostates? We have this anatomically-correct piece of plastic that we are inserting you-know-where (lubed, of course) and the rest is up to us. Our bodies’ response is going to happen or it isn’t. And if it doesn’t, well, there is always another time and place. Read more »