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You may have noticed recently that I “cleaned-out” a lot of my old blog posts. I just felt the time was right to do this and move-on. Of course, there are still plenty of topics (some new and some old) which can be presented, perhaps in a new way.
I’ve done this for two reasons: First, it will help me to get re-established in the Aneros blogs. Second, it may encourage others to “pick up the baton” and post some blogs of their own. I enjoy writing (and reading) the Aneros blogs!
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Background
Many of the posts on Aneros Forums allude to the inability to let-go during prostate massage sessions. I have found that the following “imagery” helps me to let go of that control.
Technique
I visualize myself getting ready to cross a bridge over a moat and into a castle. I am told that I cannot bring anything into the castle except a prostate massager and some lube. Everything else must stay outside of the castle. I must clear my mind of any “clutter”. When I feel “ready”, I insert the massager and cross-over the bridge. I am in Aneros Castle!
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Results
Therefore, when I cross-over the moat, I am well-prepared for any feelings that may occur during the upcoming session. I am encouraged to fantasize and to visualize what I am feeling. In my opinion, it is important to select a fantasy which “matches” the feeling. For example, in this morning’s session, I once again am in my urologist’s office and being prepared for a prostate exam. I must “retain” the massager for a minimum of 30 minutes. I basically attempted the “do-nothing” technique but with the involuntary contractions developing, that was very hard to do. I attempted, unsuccessfully, to re-position myself but the contractions just followed my current position. All-in-all, a very good session!
Background
I slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight and awoke about 2 AM quite aroused. I wanted a session and I had to decide between the HIH 950 and the MGX Classic. I selected the MGX. Now, although this session was good and I expelled some prostate fluid (not precum), in hindsight, my rectum was not as empty as it should have been. Hence, this session was less than refreshing and ultimately, disappointing. Fast-forward about an hour. I decided to “retire” the hard chastity cup for a while and replace it with a regular jockstrap. I selected my Omtex swim supporter and defly placed it beneath my long PJs. Well, before too long (as I have said many times before) I can’t keep my hands off my male package when it is so accessible (not in a hard chastity cup). But this time was different. Let me explain…..
A New “Edging” Technique
Instead of “stroking” and “kneading” my package through the soft knit pouch, I began to “press” and “hold” my finger(s) against my frenulum. Then I did the same thing to my scrotum. And then down to my perineum. And something amazing happened…..I slowed things down to the point of “do-nothing” edging! And as I began to feel an incredible power building-up, I sort-of fell into a meditation as well. Here is the essence of it, to the best I can remember.
Now, I’m not complaining, but I seem to be having intense ejaculatory feelings while in semen retention Day 4. I slept in my XO “chastity cup” for the entire night and got up once or twice with an incredibly strong arousal feeling, like I wanted/needed to ejaculate. Feeling almost like a wet dream was coming. I don’t know what’s prompting this response, but I suspect the fact that I have had almost daily Aneros sessions for the past 4 days could be a factor. Coincidentally, that is the length of time I am now in semen retention. These sessions have been very good and productive. Lots of precum and lots of prostate fluids.
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Is my body prompting me to ejaculate more frequently? Will I experience a wet dream soon? I don’t know the answers now, but I feel like I am living in the male world “between arousal and ejaculation”! It is a great place to be, but it takes perseverance not to cum. There are so many “triggers”, so much stimulation. The practice of male chastity does indeed ramp-up this response; otherwise, I would be edging and masturbating at will. Wearing regular athletic supporters (jockstraps) is a great turn-on for me; I can’t keep my probing hands off my sensitive male package. The scrotum, perineum and frenulum all work together to get me aroused almost to the point of ejaculation. I have to let things “cool-off” before I cross the edge (the PONR). And wearing a jockstrap without a “cup” sometimes it just too tempting; it will take a “steely” determination to avoid masturbating to an ejaculation!
Introduction
I decided to have a ‘quick’ session with the Helix Trident. I had not ridden it in a while. I am only in Day 3 of SR so my expectations were not too high. As soon as I started, I began to feel the nice P-waves and an almost immediate erection. I was wearing my SafeTGard “chastity cup” with the XO ProCup (instead of the Cage Cup). I did not feel any Dry-Os this time around but that was okay. I still expelled some prostate fluid (not precum because it was not slippery and sticky). The Helix Trident (due to the combination of P-tab and K-tab) allows for a nice, easy and quick “in-out” motion caused by the two tabs. It doesn’t take too much anal or PC contractions (kegels) to get the flow going.
An “Experiment” In Male Chastity
I don’t know what prompted this but as soon as this session was over, I decided to replace the “chastity cup” (which I wore during the session) with a traditional jockstrap (athletic supporter) for the rest of the night and see what develops. I didn’t want to ejaculate so in my mind, this substitution was okay. I couldn’t predict the outcome. I selected a Bike swim/run jock (which is not too restrictive and has a nice soft knit pouch), put it on under my PJs and went back to bed.
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An hour or two later, I awoke with a NPT (night-time erection) that belied my Day 3 SR condition. I could not believe the stimulation now acting on my penis and especially the frenulum. Saying that I felt close to the PONR was a gross understatement. What I felt was a combination of a near-wet dream feeling and literally being in a (female) penetrative state of sex. Literally! In other words, f*****g awesome! No exaggeration here; I was completely paralyzed in the feeling of sexual intercourse and felt that with only a few more “strokes” I would be ejaculating! But it’s only Day 3! So much for this “altered” male chastity state!
Background
I am wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight and am only at a new Day 2 of SR. No need for a session, right? Should I or shouldn’t I? Well, the time seemed right. I do remember at least 2 NPTs (night erections) within the cup. I hadn’t ridden the Eupho in a while and so I thought, what could be the best that could happen? Maybe some P-waves and nothing more. Well! I got much more than I bargained for. Let me explain…..
Session
After reading @Harper’s recent blog, I would concur that the Eupho just was “swallowed” up rather quickly; it seemed to know exactly where it was going and what it was going to do. And almost right from the start, I began to develop an erection. This was strange; usually it takes a while for me to get one during a session. But the Eupho seemed to hit the right spot and the erections developed quickly. OMG! The Eupho is acting like it wants me to ejaculate! It is edging me ever-onward. It didn’t seem to care that I was only in SR Day 2 and really had no desire or intention to ejaculate. But that didn’t matter to the Eupho.
Background
I am in Day 9 of SR with no ejaculation for 9 days. It seems my brain is “teasing” me with various opportunities for an ejaculation. But I am resisting. This morning, I had several “prime” opportunities for a welcomed ejaculation. But I rejected every one. Let me explain…..
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Opportunity #1
I slept in my SafeTGard “chastity cup” which is not too restrictive at all. I was “allowed” to remove it for a while and replace it with a very restrictive “Bike” cup for about 10 minutes. Then I was allowed to change into a pair of swimming jammers with a front liner. The idea was to get me to embrace the idea of coming out of chastity and allow my genitalia to express their desire for their intended purpose. I can feel my package through the silky material and can easily make-out my swollen balls and growing cock. It would feel so good taking this to the limit and experiencing a great orgasm and ejaculation. But for some “strange” reason, I rejected this opportunity for an EJ.
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Opportunity #2 (Fantasy)
Still wearing my swim jammers, I am “escorted” by a friend of mine (who is also a physician) into a “gentlemen’s club” where the “clients” come to masturbate and EJ. This is done very discretely, in private rooms. They use binaural beats to induce ejaculations in their clients. I am given a pair of nice headphones and start listening to some soothing but enticing tracks. Before long, I have an erection and feel my prostate starting to pulse, in anticipation of an ejaculation. But I am holding back once again, and rejected this prime opportunity to achieve an ejaculation.
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Opportunity #3
Back in my bedroom, I am placed in my restrictive SD “chastity cup” over which was placed my swim jammers and then my PJs. This was a very straightforward “EJ challenge”: I will be given a 5-minute “window of opportunity” wherein my male package would be exposed and I can take advantage of the situation, but only for 5 minutes. I can do anything to help myself ejaculate during that time. But after the 5-minutes, the “window” will close and I will be denied any opportunity for an ejaculation. Would I accept the challenge? It got close to the 5-minute “starting time”. When the clock hit 5:15 AM, I was allowed to remove everything and started fondling my scrotum and perineum, which felt so good. I developed a hard erection too but refrained from stimulating my cock too much. I knew that this opportunity was quickly slipping away. When 5:20 AM came up on the clock, up went the SD cup and I am left with the feeling that perhaps I made the wrong decision. I had been given three opportunities to ejaculate and I rejected all three.
I slept in my very comfortable XO “chastity cup” overnight and awoke about 4 AM. I had to visit the lavatory and when I finished, I found that the perfect time for a quick session. I selected the HIH 950 again. I am currently in Day 8 of SR and, thankfully, do not have any blue-balls feeling yet! I find that virtually all of my sessions lately are good ones. With extended days without an ejaculation, I feel that the massagers are trying their hardest to make me ejaculate, one way or another. This morning’s session was no different.
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I am lying in bed, generally moaning and squirming around. I developed a firm erection almost immediately and it stayed firm for almost the entire session (about 25 minutes’ worth). Towards the end, I felt compelled to remove everything (cup and PJ bottoms) and observed a nice flow of precum. I could have easily finished the job. But I held back…..Why?
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What is it about holding back an ejaculation while in semen retention? What is its power? Is it that with the EJ comes a refractory period? A sudden diminishing of sexual “readiness”? Perhaps it is all of this and more. Yes, ejaculations represent our very essence of maleness. Holding the EJ back is like a dam which holds back tons and tons of water. Of course, the water has to be released sometime, somehow. Otherwise, a flood would ensue. Plus, no power would ever be generated. I believe it is the same way with ejaculations. We need to “release” our semen, if only occasionally. Those of us who regularly practice semen retention know the dynamics. There seems to be greater power with every “release”. And with that release, comes the potential for yet another powerful release at a later time. The EJ cycle continues…..
Background
I am in Day 7 of SR and felt like I should ejaculate. But how to do it? I went to bed wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” but awoke an hour or two later. I had this feeling that I wanted to ejaculate. So I went on my comfortable sofa armed with only a box of tissues. I lowered my PJs and my cup and selected a nice binaural track for male ejaculation; it was about 15 minutes long. After listening, I was somewhat aroused but not enough to masturbate and ejaculate. So I went back to bed….
More Attempts
I then “swapped” the SD cup with the SafeTGard cup for a while, trying to remain in chastity. But that didn’t last too long either. I still felt the need to cum. So I “swapped” the SafeTGard cup for the SD soft cup/jockstrap which I hadn’t worn in a while. I could feel my package through the dense foam and it started to feel very arousing and good. But I still didn’t feel too close to the PONR and an ejaculation.
I then “swapped” the SD soft cup for my Duke swimmer’s jockstrap, pulled-up my PJs and put it on; then went back to bed. I suspected that this combination would eventually help me in my quest for an ejaculation. And then something magical happened…..
I really was not due for a session this morning, but I was awakened (while wearing my Mueller “chastity cup”) with an incredibly strong erection. I am now in Day 6 of SR and feeling its effects. I didn’t have more than 45 minutes for this session but decided to go for it. So I lubed-up twice: once to lube the anal canal and second to make insertion of the 950 that much smoother. It worked well!
Session
Right from the start, I felt the effects of the HIH 950. I was thinking to myself: “How can such a simple piece of plastic have such a profound effect on my prostate? Whoever designed it certainly knows more that I about my male anatomy. Within a minute, I was moaning in bed, and actually near tears. I felt close to the PONR and an ejaculation. Every way I turned and tossed on the bed only intensified the feeling. I almost couldn’t take much more of this. What is did was focus my mind on one thing only: ejaculation! The ultimate male power trip!
Effect
Towards the end of this brief session, I pulled-down the Mueller cup and was not too surprised to see a nice wet spot on the inside of the pouch and also part of my glans glistening with wetness. I felt it: it was not sticky like precum. I feel a relief from this erection which has now subsided. I think I “milked” my prostate!