Author: goldenboy

“Male Chastity Cups and Semen Retention: Perfect Together!”

Background
I was awake this morning still wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “Chastity Cup” over a nice pair of silky red boxers with a bulge pouch (or codpiece). This combination gives me a nice, sexy feeling when I am hard in the cup. The extra material gives just a little bit more stimulation to my glans, teasing me, and it can take me close to the PONR quickly.

While relaxing and not thinking of an Aneros session just yet, I began to “meditate” on male “chastity cups” and semen retention and what the two have in common. What I discovered was all too-familiar. Let me share some of my thoughts….(This developed into another question-and-answer session!)

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Questions and Answers
While wearing a chastity cup, can I touch my cock?
Sorry, guy, there is no way you are doing that. Just forget it!

While wearing a chastity cup, can I at least play with my balls?
Sorry, guy, you cannot. I hope you are not too disappointed.

While wearing a chastity cup, can I at least touch my perineum and put pressure on my prostate?
No, you can’t do that either…..sorry.

Can I try to give myself an ejaculation?
You can try but you probably won’t be able to. You won’t be able to get the stimulation on your cock that you will need to ejaculate. Sorry.

Can I plan to have an ejaculation possibly tomorrow night?
Sorry, you will still be wearing a chastity cup and you won’t be able to ejaculate then either. Read more »

“Another Quick Way To Boost Arousal”

Here is another simple and quick way I “discovered” that will help to boost arousal. This tip is intended for those guys like myself who wear “chastity cups”.

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While wearing a male “chastity cup”, just take the leg straps and move them closer-in towards the center crack. This will help to keep the “cup” in place so that it cannot easily be moved by hand. This accentuates the “helpless” feeling while wearing the chastity cup. It will also put more pressure on the perineum and, indirectly, the prostate. The combination of pressure and additional confinement will (at least for me) significantly boost my arousal while in chastity. This creates an entirely new “feeling” while wearing the cup! (Of course, the straps have to be moved farther apart prior to a session!)

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I could have easily had another session this morning; I would have selected the Helix Trident. But I decided to postpone that session perhaps until tonight. I am currently in Day 7 of SR and my testosterone level is rising; I feel it! I want to masturbate and ejaculate so badly! I want to cum! I need my chastity cup!

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A Thorough Prostate “Milking;” An Ideal Session?

Wow! I can hardly believe this session happened! Let me explain…..

I wore my XO “chastity cup” overnight and awoke about 4 AM feeling quite aroused. I wanted to listen to some nice tracks so I settled-in with headphones on. I listened for about 1.5 hours. During that time, I began to get strong Aless from my prostate generally in-sync with the beats of the music. Since I was wearing a “cup” I could not touch my male package at all; all erotic pleasure had to come through my prostate.

When I finished listening, I had a strong desire to have a quick session; I selected the HIH 950. I lubed-up with a different lube (Slippery Stuff Gel) and began the session. No sooner did I start, I had an incredible feeling from my prostate! In a short while, I felt as if I were being “edged” to an ejaculation! No exaggeration! I began to moan and squirm on the bed, feeling that an ejaculation was imminent. A HFWO! That is how it felt; I was on the edge of the PONR for as long as I was able to endure it. After about 30 minutes, even though I could have extended this “milking” session longer, it was time to get-up for the morning routine, so I reluctantly removed the 950. When I went to inspect the inside of the cup, sure enough it was wet and when I examined my penis, I had prostate fluid (not precum) oozing out like from a fire hose! I honestly can say that I have not felt this way during a session ever! It was that stimulating, that productive. Was it an “ideal session”? I think so now. The big question now: could I have ejaculated? Don’t know for sure now, but if I continued the session, I would say about a 90+% chance of showers! Read more »

“A New Direction For My Sessions?”

This blog post is not related to any particular session lately. Rather, my sessions seem to be taking a different direction. Let me explain…..

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The past two sessions have been good. I generally start aroused and wearing a “chastity cup”. Nothing new there. But lately, my sessions have been shorter and less eventful. My most recent one with the SGX was only about 20 minutes long. But in that time I had one quite large full-body contraction (was it an orgasm?) I am beginning to think so. That one large contraction came on the heels of a basically do-nothing approach to the session. This session with the SGX started out very nice and relaxing. But before long, I could feel it starting to “tickle” my prostate which started to swell.

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I believe that the key to enjoyment of my sessions lately is to just relax into them and have no expectations. And if the session is short and only filled with one orgasm, then that should be good enough for me! I should not try to lengthen it or expect multiple orgasms. Perhaps when my body is ready, it will give me another Super-O! It will probably build-up out of a “do-nothing” start! But until then, I will just savor the sessions as they come and enjoy every brief moment of them! Read more »

“Random Thoughts”

Well, I’m in-between sessions and have some “free-time” in the house today. So I thought I would put-down some thoughts that have crossed my mind lately. In no particular order….

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The “feelings” of Dry-O’s, P-waves and the like are almost impossible to describe! For example, how would you describe a delicious steak? “Tastes like a good steak”! So how would you describe a prostate orgasm? “You’ll know it when you feel it”! Of course! But what does it FEEL like? Uh….kind of hard to describe, isn’t it? When guys ask about prostate massage, it seems that the only thing to say is to try-it! Once you “feel it”—-you’ll know! The feeling is truly indescribable!

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There is something magical, mystical about Aless. It seems to come at infrequent intervals, but when it is there, you will KNOW IT! What a great feeling! I’m glad I’m a male!

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There is something about wearing a male “cup jockstrap” that goes right to the core of my sexuality. I don’t know if it is a fetish or what, but that feeling of “enveloping” my most private male parts is a huge turn-on for me!

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If I “visualize” what an Aneros massager is going to do to my prostate, it turns me on even more! Just looking at the shape of the massager while it is lubed-up and ready-to-go in can almost trigger an orgasm just waiting for that moment!

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“Never-Ending Helix Pleasure//Tease & Cum”

This session happened two nights ago; a very busy day yesterday prevented me from blogging this until now..

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I was in Day 10 of SR and wore my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight. I awoke about 2 AM (I believe) with a huge erection; I knew I wanted a session with the Helix Trident. Prep was easy and before long, I started the session.

Right from the start, the Helix-T took command of my prostate. It was not a “bully” but rather was in charge of taking me where I wanted to be and very quickly. I began lightly moaning almost right away and believe me when I tell you that I was moaning the ENTIRE session! I couldn’t say for sure if they were p-waves or min-o’s but the pleasure that was generated from the Helix-T was unbelievable!

The design of the Helix-Trident insures that kegels are not “wasted” — the “in/out” motion cause by the combination of P- and K-tabs insures that the prostate is continuously stimulated. I enjoyed every minute of this session! I took a peek inside the “cup” and—yes—it was wet with prostate fluid. This was a profitable, prostate-milking session!

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“Some Sure-Fire Ways To Boost Arousal”

Background
A lot of guys here on Aneros complain about lack of arousal and consequently, poor sessions. I have been in that camp as well. I tried something different last night. Before retiring to bed, instead of putting-on a “chastity cup” I decided to put-on a regular jockstrap. So I put-on my new Duke swimmer’s jock along with a silky pair of boxers. The Duke jockstrap has a somewhat rough pouch (I don’t wear it anymore in the pool because of some irritation it causes) and it provides good stimulation of an erect penis within. It also has a longer pouch than others and supports my package very well.

I slept for about 8 hours with this combo and I remember dreaming quite vividly (but not erotically). The rough jock pouch provided more intense stimulation than a hard cup. I awoke with a nice erection and decided then to take-off the “regular” pouch and replace it with a hard cup. I selected the Shock Doctor Ultra Pro Carbon Cup which now feels very comforting and secure.

Aftermath
Yes, I was very aroused and “ready” for a session this morning. I could easily have had one while wearing the hard cup and I knew which model I would use (Helix Trident). But I said “NO!” to myself! Why? I began to think about it and I believe I know the answer. Much the same way as when you are very horny and aroused with an aching erection, what do you want to do? Have sex? Masturbate and ejaculate? Edge? You can stimulate your cock, of course, and eventually ejaculate. But you can say NO! and withhold that pleasure for a while longer. I do that all the time now while in chastity. Read more »

“Chastity Masturbation” : Is It Even Possible?

Background
I am currently in Day 7 of SR and starting to feel very horny. I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight. Woke up quite early and couldn’t sleep. Still wearing my chastity cup, I am feeling very frustrated; I am not due for an Aneros session and don’t really want to force one. What to do?

Fantasy
I went back to bed and before I knew it, I started to fall-into a fantasy. I am in the arms of my lover and she begins to caress and coddle me all-over, almost like a tantric sexual massage. Eventually, all my sleeping clothes come off and all that is left that I am wearing is my chastity “cup”.

“Chastity Masturbation Session”
Eventually, this fantasy begins to fade and I am left by myself in bed. I am still caressing my body all over (including the cup) and I am getting a nice erection. What do I do? I begin a “chastity masturbation” session! Sounds like an oxymoron, doesn’t it, but it is really stimulating. I have had experiences where I woke-up in the middle of the night, and feeling close to the PONR in the cup. Why not try to induce this feeling through a “chastity masturbation” session? Read more »

“Prostate Edging and A Male Fertility Clinic…”

This unusual fantasy was quite spontaneous and pleasurable. Here are the details….

Background
I slept in my SafeTGard “chastity cup” with the Cage Cup overnight. I am in Day 5 of SR and awoke about 4 AM with a hard cock and “edging” close to the PONR as I have done before while wearing this particular cup (it is smaller than the other cups and my erect cock gets some additional stimulation with gentle movement—a nice feeling! I feel like I am going to ejaculate but don’t). I am due for a prostate stim session and decided rather quickly on the Helix Trident; why this model I didn’t know at the time but now it became very clear that this massager would be ideal for this session.

I lubed-up and began. Almost immediately, I began to get what I would call “rapid-fire” auto-contractions. I could not stop them nor control them. (Thanks to the HT for this movement). And from the start, I began to lightly moan. This moaning actually continued for most of this session. Read more »

Is Your Arousal “Switch” On or Off?

I was thinking about this this morning. I am currently in Day 4 of SR and wore my XO “chastity cup” to bed. I awoke about 2:30 AM with a hard, throbbing erection that I could feel right down to my prostate. I lay in bed, motionless for about 15 minutes or so. I honestly felt like I was on my way to an ejaculation! I had a “peeing” feeling down in my cock; feeling suspended in time close to the PONR. And all of these sensations got me thinking….

Male arousal is like a switch: it is either “on” or “off”. There is no middle-ground, no “gray area”. Why is that? Well, I think the answer is pretty obvious. Male arousal is designed for one purpose: ejaculation! That’s right, why else would the arousal occur?

As a refresher, the stages of sexual arousal in males are: Excitement, Plateau, Orgasm and Ejaculation, Resolution
[Note that Orgasm and Ejaculation generally are not the same thing].

I believe I awoke in the “Plateau” stage and was close to the “Orgasm” stage since I felt like I was only a stroke or two away from ejaculating. But I did not ejaculate; I believe my wearing of a “chastity cup” prevented unnecessary stimulation of my penis and thus an ejaculation. After a time of strong arousal in bed, I began to “climb-down” the arousal mountain and my erection within the cup began to subside.

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