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“Subtle Intensity!”

Only in Day 3 of SR and wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” for part of the night. I awoke about 4:30 AM and wanting a session with the HIH 950. Now I was not too aroused but was earlier in the night. So I lubed-up and began to ride. It wasn’t long that I fell-into a nice, simple familiar fantasy: I am again at my urologist’s office and he insists that all his male patients now “prepare” their prostates with a 35-minute (minimum) session with the HIH 950 before their exam. He said that his male patients like this particular massager for it’s subtle intensity. (An added benefit is that I get to take this massager home!)

“Subtle intensity?” What does that mean? I didn’t know, but was soon about to find out…..

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Not soon after I began to “prepare” myself, I began to experiene a very subtle, very gentle “tickle” of my prostate and I began to (almost involuntarily) perform light PC contractions. They felt so good, so sweet. But after a while, I began to get more of a “tense” feeling deep down in my groin, which became more intense and to the point that at it’s peak, I had an uncontrollable abdominal spasm that doubled-me over and let out a moan. I was shaking at the time as well. Once this passed, I settled-in for more light PC contractions. Following that single “peak” orgasm (I know now that is what it was) I didn’t experience any others, but that one was enough for this “urologist’s prep”. I discovered a fair amount of prostate fluid (not precum) in the pouch. I was properly prepared for my exam! Read more »

I Was Contemplating An Aneros Session…..Then Realized I Already Was Having An (Aless) Session!

I am still alone in the house. Up at about 4 AM and relaxing and chilling. I was contemplating an Aneros session. I did have to ejaculate yesterday at Day 11 of SR. I was getting the dreaded “blue-balls” feeling again and didn’t want it to escalate into full-blown agony.

Anyway, back to the “session”, I went to lie-down and noticed a slight feeling coming from my prostate. I started doing some very light PC kegels (in and out, but mostly in) and began to get a “clamping” feeling when I did and “held” the “in” kegel. The pace of the kegels seemed to increase automatically and I convulsed on the bed several times, like I do when having a good Aneros session. OMG! I believe I was experiencing some Dry-Os and/or Mini-Os! The amazing thing about this is that I was doing just very SLIGHT kegels and no hard anal contractions at all! If only slight PC contractions are necessary for these sensations, then I could do these very often! I don’t have to wait for a “chairgasm”! I should be able to perform these delicate but stimulating “Aless” sessions in bed sans a massager! I must continue to practice!

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Cock Cage Or “Chastity Cup” —– Which Is Better?

Background
I have both but now seem to prefer the “chastity cup”. I actually don’t wear my CB-6000S cock cage much anymore. It isn’t that I don’t like it; I seem to prefer my hard “chastity cups” more. I’m trying to figure out why…..Here are some pros and cons of each.

One thing which both methods for male chastity have in common: both prevent masturbation and ejaculation. But once that is acknowkedged, some advantages and disadvantages of each become manifest. I’d like to elaborate on a few of the more obvious ones here…

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Cock Cages
Advantage: cock cage
Once locked-up, there is no possibility of release except with a key. If the male is not the keyholder, this will become extremely frustrating for him. (The “chastity cup” , however, relies on the “honor system”. I can release myself at any time just by pulling-off the cup! If this chastity “play” becomes too frustrating, the male can put himself out of misery).

Advantage: cock cage
A male wearing a cock cage can urinate easily through the slit in the cage, usually by sitting down. (The “chastity cup” in contract, requires removal of the cup in order to urinate, standing-up).

Advantage: cock cage
The cock cage provides intense stimulation when an erection occurs. I know, I’ve had them. (In contrast, erections in a “chastity cup” are nice but not extremely arousing. They are not supposed to be).

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“Who’s Afraid Of Helix Trident? —- Not Me!”

Background
I am alone in the house this weekend and enjoy being a “bachelor” for a few days! One of the pleasures of being alone is an Aneros session where I can just be myself! That happened this morning (Sunday). Here are the details…..

I am in Day 11 of SR, wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” overnight. I didn’t get too much sleep—I am close to another wet dream (the last one came at Day 12) and I had an extended erection this morning. Let me back up just a little. I was in bed relaxing only in my PJs last night when I began to fondle and caress my package to the point of inducing an erection. I seem to do this automatically when I’m not in a “chastity cup” at night. Well, that is always risky since it can lead to an unexpected ejaculation. So at that point I decided to put-on a “chastity cup” and once I had the SD “on”, that was the end of that!

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Fast-forward to this morning (about 4 AM) when I had the urge to listen to some relaxing but stimulating tracks. I found one for wet dream induction and began to listen (at the lowest volume). I went about 30 minutes; all the while I felt a nice “pulse” in my groin (probably my prostate) with every soft tone! After 30 minutes, I felt “ready” for a session, so I went to the bed and knew I wanted the Helix Trident (with Boy Butter lube). I got ready and started the session…. Read more »

Three “Tips” I learned From This Session

I learned three “new” things in this session. Let me explain…..

Background
I went to bed wearing my XO “chastity cup”. I am currently in Day 10 of SR with no blue-balls. I am due for a “scheduled” session and so I decided to go for it. It is about 4:30 AM.

Now here are the “tips”—

Tip #1. Letting your chastity “partner” decide which Aneros massager to use. (For guys who wear a “chastity cup” during a session).

Since I am in chastity, I let my “partner” decide which Aneros massager(s) I should use during this session. After looking them over, she decided on the Eupho Classic! She wouldn’t tell me yet which other massager she selected.

Why it works: Since it was not “me” doing the choosing, there is an element of surprise, a “mystery”, a “mystique” on how the selected prostate massager will work. (Of course, it is “me” doing the choosing. But this “mind game” gives a new perspective on the session).
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Tip #2. Lube, then lube again!

I “discovered” that by lubing, inserting, removing, then lubing again and inserting again, can make for a “better” session. Read more »

“An Incredible Aless Session!”

[Thanks to @BigGlansDC for his inspiration on the combination of Aless kegels and “diddling” (nipple stim)].

I just experienced the most intense Aless session I can remember. Here is how it happened….

I was up about 4 AM this morning, still wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” (a banana style cup) and I wanted to lie-down and listen to some relaxing tracks. I found one on YouTube which seemed intriguing: “Fifty shades of trip hop – instrumental music mix 2017” so I went to lie-down and started listening.

Well, it wasn’t too long into this amazing collection of musical tracks that I began to concentrate on my prostate: I began in my mind to “visualize” it, to “target” it with my eyes; going around and around it and focusing on nothing else.

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The music carried me deeper and deeper into this erotic session. Now I seldom perform any kind of nipple stim on myself during sessions, but something made me reach up and begin to caress my flaccid nipples. And before long, when they both achieved an erect, aroused state, something else happened…..I gave myself a penile erection within the hard banana cup! (I had been flaccid since I started this “session”). The nipple stim quickly escalated into a full-body massage and arousal which involved my pecs, hairy underarms and shoulders.

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Things progressed rather quickly from this point on…..I continued to perform the “diddling” of my erect, sensitive nipples and began to simultaneously perform kegels. And at some point, I began to fall-into a most erotic fantasy (one that was quite unexpected). Read more »

A “Triple-Header” !

Background
I have had sessions where I used two Aneros massagers back-to-back. But I believe this may be the first where I used three massagers in one day!

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First and Second Sessions
I had a “double-header” session early this morning (~3 AM) using the Eupho Classic followed-up by the Helix Trident. Both generated a lot of involuntary contractions and the Eupho achieved at least four dry-O’s and some nice “pumping” sensations. But I probably was not as aroused as I would have liked, so that is as far as this part of the session went.

Near the end of the Eupho session, I experienced quite a “calming” sensation in my prostate and knew that the session was over. But since I was still nicely lubed, I decided to go for the Helix Trident and see what developed. What I got from this “second” session were still more involuntary contractions but no O’s at all. I wasn’t even aroused for this part. But the HT did generate some new feelings, mostly due to the combination of the P- and K-tabs. The total time for these two sessions was about one hour. (These two sessions were good but my prostate felt like it was missing-out on something).

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“The Male Arousal Continuum and Aneros”

I was thinking about this the past couple of days. With my current practices of Aneros prostate massage, semen retention (SR) and wearing of male “chastity cups”, is there any “common denominator”? Is there something that “links” all of them together? I believe the answer is yes! Let me explain….

The common “link” I believe is arousal. Let me be more specific.

What makes an Aneros session so enjoyable? It is the feeling of a prostate orgasm triggered by my arousal. The better the arousal, the better the session (usually)! Extreme arousal can lead to an extreme Aneros response, a good amount of the time.

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What makes semen retention so enjoyable? The build-up of semen in my system, particularly at Day 7 when my testosterone gets a boost, is arousing! And any days at around Day 12 I could have a wet dream! I’ve had one already in a “chastity cup” and the experience is unforgettable! Knowing that I have not ejaculated in (X) days is arousing in itself. It seems that every day that goes by only strengthens the arousal just a little bit more.

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What makes wearing a chastity “cup” so enjoyable? Why do I enjoy sleeping in one so much? The answer should be obvious…..arousal! To have a night-time erection while wearing a cup produces an exquisitely erotic sensation that can’t really be described, only felt. And what a feeling! It is that feeling of being near the PONR for a couple-dozen minutes at a time. And as much as I squirm and twitch within the cup, I cannot ejaculate and must remain in chastity. That is the beauty of wearing the hard cup! Read more »

“A New Mindset, A New Attitude”

I began this “dual” session with a new mindset, a new attitude. Let me explain….

I wanted to do a therapeutic session with the HIH 950. (I am now in Day 6 of SR and wearing my Mueller “chastity cup”). As I started the session, I did something different…I began to “personalize” this session by telling my prostate: “Now don’t be afraid of the 950” and visualized the 950 nuzzling against it. I immediately began to relax, much more so than ever. And, even though I was aroused (but not greatly), I began to feel a gentle “tickle” and eventually a “worm-like” movement of the 950 against my prostate. I had not felt this in a long time. I just continued to relax into the session and began to quiver, letting the 950 take my prostate to where it wanted to go. About 30 relaxing minutes later, this (part of the) session was over!

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I have had some trepidations about using the Helix Trident since my last “intense” session. But guess what? I took the same attitude towards the HT and again I “told” my prostate: “Please don’t be afraid of the HT”! And guess what? I had a nice, relaxing second-part of this session! I was able to relax; the HT continued its gentle massage on my prostate and the combination of P- and K-tabs insured that the HT did not stray too far from its intended “target”: my prostate! This 30-minute session was not intense at all; quite the contrary, the HT produced some soothing sensations that I had not felt before while using it. Read more »

My “Therapeutic” Prostate Massage Sessions

My sessions during the last two days have been especially enjoyable for me. Two nights ago, I used the HIH 950 for a “regular” therapeutic massage. I lubed-up with Boy Butter. One thing I noticed about this session was that the 950 was pulled-in very deeply, thus stimulating my prostate as much as it was able. And did it stimulate me! I had a fairly long session, about 45 minutes. Not surprisingly, when I went to clean-up, I discovered a large amount of “wetness” on the inside of the “chastity cup” pouch! This was definitely not precum; it was not sticky. The session felt like a manual prostate massage; I had an almost continual “tickling” sensation and it felt absolutely relaxing and stimulating at the same time.

This morning, I decided on another “therapeutic” session with my Eupho Classic. I pre-lubed with some Boy Butter then lubed the Eupho with Slippery Stuff Gel (a nice combination!) This session lasted about 40 minutes and it was wonderfully relaxing. I am beginning to develop PC muscle control to make the Eupho “dance-around” my prostate and could feel the orgasms as they developed. At the peak, I experienced an almost convulsive-like twitch throughout my entire body. Subtlety is definitely the order of the day with these “therapeutic” prostate massage sessions. They seem to get the job done without being extremely arousing.

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