Author: goldenboy

“The Calendar Says Day 1 But My Body Says Day 19!”

I ended my current SR run at Day 18 yesterday. No apparent reason. I did not have any “blue-balls” and felt that I could easily extend this run to Day 21 and beyond. But sooner or later, I knew I would have to end it. So I masturbated very quickly in the bathroom and didn’t even have the chance to produce any precum. I was surprised that I had a large volume of cum, probably well over a teaspoon. Yes I did fall-into a refractory period and I felt it. Following church activities, I donned my XO “chastity cup” and retired for the night, not expecting anything.

Well! I awoke about 4 AM this morning with not a strong erection but a very strong feeling like I wanted to ejaculate again! Holy cow! My calendar says that I have “reset” to Day 1* but (I’m no expert in male sexual physiology) my body tells me that I’m still at Day 19! How can this be? (Now don’t get me wrong—–I love this feeling! But I always thought I would have literally have to go back to Day 1 and start all-over.) As I sit here typing this, I feel like I am full of semen, horny and ready to ejaculate (again!) Read more »

Rediscovering “Active Aless”

Background:
Most of the time, my Aless is “passive”. Usually, I feel it following a nice Aneros session and it continues for a while, depending on the massager I selected. My involvement is only as a outside observer. This morning, however, I am not “scheduled” for a session until tomorrow morning. I am in bed, just chilling when I began to get a nice prostate “nudge” which caused me to do some very slight PC contractions. Was I amazed at the result!

Technique:
Here I am, lying in bed on my right side, just like in a regular Aneros session. I sense a strong sensation from my prostate and encourage more. Before long, I am deeply breathing, and have some prostate orgasms which caused a tingle up my spine. My cock started to get erect and I developed some involuntary PC or anal contractions as well. My focus really was on my prostate and how it was feeling. It felt just like a “regular” Aneros session, sans the Aneros! Amazing feelings! I stopped after about 20 minutes but could have continued longer.

Conclusion:
I will categorize this as an “Active Aless” session (versus “Passive Aless”). The takeaway for me is that I do not need to insert an Aneros massager to experience the erotic pleasures of a prostate massage. All that is needed is my body and a willingness to experience prostate orgasms. The rest will happen by itself! IMHO, the mindset has to be “right” to experience the full ecstatic pleasures of “active Aless”. Read more »

“She Respected The Cup: An Aless Sexual Fantasy”

Background: I had finished a sweet, relaxing session with the Eupho Classic. I wanted to lie-down for a while and savor the Aless, so I found a nice, erotic track on YouTube that I remember: “SEX MUSIC – 10 Passionate Melodies for Erotic Moments”. I began to listen…..

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After a short while, I began to fall-into a sexual fantasy. It was quite real and quite intense. Here is the essence…..

I am lying down with my female lover and she begins to caress and cuddle me all over. But she sees that I am wearing a “chastity cup”. She tells me matter-of-factly: “You’re not going to touch your cock and neither am I!” You see, she respected the cup. She proceeded then to caress my body which was close to hers. My nipples were already quite engorged and firm and she proceeded to gently caress one, then the other. I feel it very strongly down in my prostate. Her nimble hands deftly made their way to caress my pecs and then my underarms and finally my arms. But she didn’t stop there. She reached around my back and down to my waist. She went further on down as well. Read more »

Sweet, Gentle Prostate “Milking” with Aneros Eupho Classic

I am amazed at the range of “effects” the various Aneros prostate massagers can induce. I had a recent session with my new Helix Trident that completely blew me away; I could have had a “full-blown” Super–O if I wanted it. But I wanted to stop-short. The Super-Os for me are rather intense and I have to have the right mind-set for them. I did not that time around.

This morning, I am in Day 17 of my SR and wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” overnight. I was awakened about 2 AM with a nice, strong pulsating erection and wanted to “keep” my scheduled appointment with Aneros. I knew in advance that I wanted a session with the Eupho Classic. I had not had one in a while and felt it was time.

I was not disappointed in this session. I experience p-waves almost immediately and began the gentle, relaxing contractions which felt so good. I have been experiencing a good “milking” of my prostate ever since my first wet dream. I don’t seem to produce any precum now during sessions. I think that is a good sign and feel that my body is accustomed now to release of prostate fluid then semen. I do not have blue balls at all now and I do not feel the need to ejaculate just yet. Read more »

This SGX Session “Sneaked” Up On Me!

I know, I know, I “cheated”. I am not schedule for an Aneros session until tomorrow night. But something was whispering to me early this morning…”treat myself to a session with the SGX. You won’t be disappointed!” So I obliged, not knowing what to expect. I certainly did not want a Super-O after my recent experience with the Helix Trident. But I lubed-up and began the ride. Now the SGX although it feels very good, usually does not do much for me in the way of stimulating a prostate orgasm. That all changed with this session. Let me explain…..
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No sooner did I get things going, that due to the thick ribbed stem of the SGX, I began to get immediate involuntary anal contractions (in and out) which felt almost like an anal orgasm was building-up. Soon after, I began to get hard, really hard. And in a short while, I distinctly felt my prostate being stroked and “edged” to an ejaculation! OMG! A HFWO? That is exactly what this felt like. I honestly felt primed and ready to ejaculate, ready to explode with cum.
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This feeling went on for quite a while and I remember falling-into a fantasy. I am lying with my lover and she is massaging my prostate with her lubed finger with the intention of making me ejaculate. I came so close! But as I neared the PONR, I felt a “pumping” sensation down to the tip of my cock and knew that it was prostate fluid being expelled, but not in an ejaculation. Around that time, my erection was starting to subside as well. I could regain some of the erection by performing some quick kegels (in and out) but by then the strong ejaculatory “feeling” had subsided. Although it still felt very good and arousing, I knew that that the PONR was now more distant and so I decided to end this amazing session. Yes, when I checked-in, it was not precum but a thin prostate fluid, and quite a bit of it.
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PS I am now in Day 16 of semen retention with absolutely no sign of blue-balls! Have I “beaten” my old nemesis? I would like to think so. I’m not exactly sure how I did it. Perhaps the periodic release of prostate fluid (especially through a wet dream) was the key. Will I now achieve another 21-Day Challenge? I am so close….

“Helix Trident: Reprieved”

OMG! What can I say? I will take-back everything I said about the HT! Let me describe this session…

I am “scheduled” for a prostate milking today (Monday) so I lubed-up the HIH 950 with Boy Butter and proceeded. I was wearing my XO “chastity cup”. I did the prescribed 15 minutes “relaxation period” followed by 30 very slow and deep contractions and releases. This part of the session was about 40 minutes long. I did expel a few drops of prostate fluid (it was not sticky like precum). I am feeling good so I went back to bed.

About an hour later, I got up again and felt that I needed to give the Helix Trident another chance. I have had four sessions with it already and none of them was especially interesting (Yawn…)

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All that changed this morning with this “second part” of the session! How can I put this delicately? I can’t! So here goes….

The HT wanted to screw* my brains out! There is no other way to say it. Following no more than a minute or two of nice p-waves and auto-contractions, the HT wasted no time in getting down to business and proceeded to screw me over but good! I started breathing heavily and the HT started moving on its own. Before long, I was convulsing on the bed without control; my fingers and toes were tingling and I had to bury my head in the pillow so as not to wake up anyone else with some moans. I felt my brain starting to get a “foggy” feeling and remember sensing a greenish tinge in the darkness. To be completely honest, I was just a little terrified what was to come next. Read more »

Male “Chastity Cups”: Cozy, Comfortable Restraint

@BigGlansDC inspired me to talk about the use of jockstraps and cups in their use for chastity and male erotic pleasures.

I had a somewhat sleepless night and awoke about 2 AM. I had been wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup with SD 218 jockstrap. A very nice, comfortable combination! It allows ample room for my erect cock and is also very secure (no cheating thru the edges of the cup!) After a while with a semi-hard erection, it subsided again and I began to dwell on how “comfortable” the cup feels and how my cock is nicely “restrained” inside. I know that without the chastity “cup” straddling and protecting my package, I would have greater temptation to play and caress it to the point of inducing another erection and possible ejaculation. So the “chastity cup” IMHO is aptly named.

After about 45 minutes or so of contemplation and just plain relaxing in the cup while flaccid, I wanted to switch to another cup so I selected the SafeTGard with Cage Cup. Now this cup is definitely smaller and shorter than the SD but it was fine for my flaccid cock. After I switched, I went to lie back down and just relax, trying to get some sleep. [Note: when I removed the SD cup, I was surprised to see a “string” of precum oozing out of my semi-flaccid cock]. Read more »

“How Deep Is The Well?—-A Reflection”

While listening to a familiar track on YouTube this morning, I began to reflect on our male sexuality.

[I had a session recently where I experienced a 2-hour refractory period after release of some prostate fluid. It caught me by surprise. In essence, I lost all desire for anything sexual. It was an “empty” feeling—one which came on very suddenly and without warning. After the period was over, I did regain most of my sexuality].

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Then, continuing to listen, I reflected on our male sexuality: “Will It Be There When You Need It?” Of course, “it” refers to our arousal—our erections. It is those erections that seems to “trigger” something much deeper within us. [Here I got a sense of a sexual “well”]. Without that erection, we can’t even begin to look down into the well. Can we see the bottom? What is in the well? This reflection continued……

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What is it, then that makes our prostates pulse? [Here, I began to perform nice PC contractions in sync with the music]. After all, no doubt about it, we will need our prostates to be involved in our sexual decisions and actions. Our sexual “wells” run very deep. What’s in yours?

What turns you on? Is it a sight? A touch? A smell? A taste? A sound? Ah….these are the senses. it seems to me, then that we as males are “wired” for sex. We have to be. There are things that will trigger a sexual response in us. We like it, we need it, and we desire it. Read more »

“This Session Didn’t Work….Or Did It?”

Background: I am in Day 12 of SR and still feeling very horny. I am due for a “scheduled” prostate massage session today (Friday). So I decide to start a session with the MGX/Boy Butter.

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I know that expectation for a session are supposed to be kept to a minimum, but since I am scheduling these sessions and still remain horny in chastity and devoid of prostate pleasure for a couple of days, I honestly expected more from this session. I was wrong. What did I expect? Actually, I expected a good deal of dry-o’s perhaps leading up to a super-o (which I have not had in a while).

The session with the MGX lasted about 25 minutes or so. I felt a “pumping” from within my prostate once or twice but didn’t feel much of anything else. So I considered this session to be essentially a “dud”.

Still wanting more, I lubed-up the Helix Trident with a little more Boy Butter and continued the ride. This was for another 25 minutes. I did feel an intense “auto-f***” from the combination if the P- and K-tabs. I felt a distinct “lateral” movement of the Helix. But still no dry-o’s or a super-o. I was disappointed.

Following the session, I went to clean-up. I was surprised to see a fair amount of “wetness” inside the pouch of my XO “chastity cup”. It was not urine, nor was it sticky. Conclusion: it was prostate fluid (which is thin and milky). Read more »

Chastity “Grab-Bag”

My use of “chastity cups” has taken a new turn! Let me explain….

Last night, I had to decide on which cup to wear. I wanted the soft, flexible fit of the SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup with the comfortable, relaxing fit of the SafeTGard jockstrap. So what did I do? I combined them! And I wore this “combination” overnight with great success! The SD cup is my favorite. It is long enough for my erect cock and nicely tapered at the bottom, straddling my perineum. The SafeTGard jockstrap has a nice, wide waistband that is not too tight, a smooth and soft cup pouch and nice, wide leg straps. By combining these two male chastity “elements”, I achieved the best of each. I was greatly aroused during the night and with this combination, the cup “expands” away from my body (due to the erection) just enough to accommodate and add to the stimulation on my cock. I am currently in Day 11 of SR and still hoping to achieve another wet dream any night now.

My “chastity cup” collection: SD Ultra Pro Carbon, SD Soft Cup, Mueller, XO, SafeTGard, Bike
My “pouch jockstrap” collection (capable of holding a cup): SD 227, SD 218, Mueller, XO, SafeTGard, Bike, ARMR

So there are various “combinations” possible; enticing pleasure awaits! I would expect some new and unique feelings emanating from the “new” combinations of male “chastity cups” and pouch jockstraps. [Note: The Bike jockstrap pouch is rather small and can’t accommodate every cup.] Read more »