Author: goldenboy

A Meditation: “Thin Veils To Male Orgasmic Bliss”

While relaxing this morning and listening to a nice, soothing track on YouTube: “Chill Out Sensual Nights / The Best Of Lounge & Chill Out Music by Johnny M In The Mix”, I began to meditate on how our male sexuality often is “hidden” only behind “thin veils” (real or otherwise) and it started to became very clear to me. Let me explain…..

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In spite of our “macho” appearance and persona, the key to male orgasmic pleasure often is hidden only behind a thin “veil”. Some examples will make this comparison more clear:

 My use of “chastity cups” or “cock cages” relies only on thin pieces of plastic that separates my hands from my male package, thus inhibiting me from masturbation and orgasmic release.

 Using a condom: It is only a thin piece of rubber, but my use of one during sex makes a world of difference. No matter how thin it is, there is always a loss of feeling. Us guys know that there is not supposed to be anything between our erect cocks and ultimate orgasmic pleasure during intercourse.

 When receiving a HJ from my wife: sometimes only the slightest “hint” of an erotic massage on my package can send me into a far-off orgasmic “orbit”.

 When performing an edging or “surfing” session, I want it to take a long time and use only the slightest pressure on my package.. Why? Because the arousal feelings seem to be magnified. Even slight “tapping” of my erect cock sometimes is too much to bear. The orgasmic ejaculation is intense. Read more »

“Exploring The Two “Male Chastities”

Bacground: I am awakened in the middle of the night, wearing my XO “chastity cup”. I am currently in Day 9 of semen retention and feeling extremely horny. My cock is throbbing rhythmically and I honestly feel that I am on my way towards a wet dream or an auto-ejaculation. I feel my prostate throbbing with every pulse. Now, normally, I would “decide” on an Aneros session right there, right then. But following a brief respite listening to some nice tracks this morning, I headed back to bed. And it suddenly dawned on me…..

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Aren’t there actually TWO male “chastities”? A strange concept you may ask. Not really. Let me explain…..

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The “first chastity”—-“normal” or “regular” male chastity—- is well-known; I have been practicing it for a while now. I usually wear a “chastity cup” to bed and that prevents me from masturbating and ejaculating. It works very well and is very sexually stimulating. Of course, this is all self-imposed—-I can stop the play and masturbate/ejaculate whenever I want. But it is mind-blowing to continue playing. There are all sorts of pleasures to be had—wet dreams, for one. Spontaneous erections and arousals that rock me to my sexual core. Sometimes it is too much to bear. Read more »

“Therapeutic Prostate Massage or Sensual, Erotic and Pleasurable Prostate Massage?”

[My friends, Ron and Bill are fictitious. They are used here to prove a point.]

I have two friends, Ron and Bill to whom I recommended Aneros prostate massage. Ron uses his massager to control his BPH symptoms and he tells me that it does a great job! Bill, on the other hand, doesn’t have BPH but uses his prostate massager to achieve wonderful, sensual anal and prostate pleasure. Which one is using his prostate massager correctly?

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The answer: They both are! Prostate massage is an activity that can have therapeutic benefits (such as control of BPH symptoms) as well as sensual, sexual “side-effects”. Thanks to @rumel for an important clarification that both aspects of prostate massage are valid. We are free to interpret our prostate massages any way we like.

Using prostate massage for therapeutic purposes is beneficial to me. I have seen a marked reduction in my BPH symptoms since performing almost daily sessions for 3-4 days now with my HIH 950 massager. Just last night, I didn’t get up once!

This morning, following the recommended “routine” of 15 minutes “do-nothing” followed by 30 cycles of slow PC contractions/releases, I began to get a feeling like I was going to ejaculate. I kept performing some PC contractions when all of a sudden, I began to “cycle” the massager very quickly. It seemed like it was on “automatic-pilot” and I really didn’t have any control over what was happening. But it felt so good, I didn’t want it to stop. This went on for perhaps another 15-20 minutes. It was time to get up so I ended this nice session to get ready for the day. Read more »

“Still Breaking A Rule”

I had a good session with the Helix Trident (#3) but in hindsight, I am still breaking a rule. I did have a very powerful erection at the start of the session, so I knew I would be feeling something. But, even though I had nice p-waves galore, somehow I felt that I “expected” more out of this session and that led to a shortfall. I felt disappointed in the session.

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I know better than to “expect” results with any given prostate massager. Kudos to @rumel for clarifying to @sfs about possible separation of prostate massage for therapeutic relief as well as for pleasurable sensations. It really is how you look at it; after all, it is all prostate massage and really can’t be separated thus. So even thought I can “artificially” separate the two (therapeutic massage with the HIH 950 and pleasurable massage with all others), they are all stimulating my prostate and will have exactly the same result. So have I walked around a large circle, only to end-up right where I started? Intriguing….

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PS Slight change of subject for this blog without starting a new one… Read more »

“This Eupho Session Hit The Mark!”

This “double” session started-out with the MGX. I was wearing my SD Ultra Carbon “chastity cup” and waking up in the middle of the night, felt ready for a “rebound” session after a disappointing one with the Helix Trident. I was not disappointed this time around. Let me explain…

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This MGX session was a little different than most. For one thing, my body pulled it in quite deeply and I never really felt it moving. I didn’t notice the anal canal stimulation as much as that in my prostate. But the p-waves were plentiful and so I kept it up for about 40 minutes. When it was over, I thought that would be it for this session. No Dry-Os but that was okay. It felt good nonetheless.

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Was I completely wrong! Of course, “mother nature” called and following that, being quite “empty” and cleaned-out, my body just felt “ready” for another session! I selected the Eupho Classic since I had not ridden it in a while.

OMG! The Eupho found it’s mark quite easily and (inspired by GGringo’s blog) I fell-into his world of Dry-O’s! I counted no fewer than three, in fairly rapid succession. Curiously, I felt an erection coming on about the time the orgasm “peaked”. It convulsed my body briefly each time, followed by a brief erection, then I felt a “pump” from within my prostate! Then the erection subsided as quickly as it appeared. This went on for a total of three “cycles”! I knew that the Eupho was hitting the mark because the feelings were so definite. There is a good deal more movement with the Eupho and it took advantage of me in this session. I have not felt this way during a session in a long time. I give the Eupho high marks for its ability to “hit the target”. Read more »

This Helix Trident Session Was A Dud! I “Broke” A Couple Of Rules

Well! In my eagerness to have another session with the Helix Trident (the house was empty for about 2 hours this afternoon) I violated my “cardinal” rule for Aneros sessions: Be Aroused! I had worn my Bike “chastity cup” for about an hour beforehand while doing some yard work outside. But when I came in, I still had a very flaccid cock. I wanted to do another session with the Trident and see what it could accomplish. So I started the session still wearing the “cup” but nothing else. After about 10 minutes, although I did have some nice involuntary movements from the Trident, I was not feeling anything in my prostate. It felt “dead to the world!” I even took off the “cup” and buck-naked, attempted several different positions on the bed, hoping for some arousal and some prostate orgasms. I got none. About the only thing I got out of this session was just a fraction of a drop of precum!

Morale: The best Aneros sessions start out with an honest arousal!

PS I think I broke another “implied rule”: If most of your sessions are in the evening, then don’t do a session during the day and vice-versa. Virtually 100% of my sessions now are in the late evening/early morning hours while I am more greatly aroused. I should have learned my lesson by now. Touche’

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“First Look: Helix Trident”

The wait is over! I finally picked-up my Helix Trident this morning and already I am excited! Even before I have my first session with it, here are my impressions:

First-of, I am extremely impressed with the “build quality”. The “fit and finish” is superb (IMHO)! The surface is very smooth, much more so than the other massagers I own. The P-tab and K-tab look like they will be very comfortable. The “arms” are a little more flexible and “springy” than I expected, but I’m sure that they will contribute to the overall Helix experience. I notice a little bit of asymmetry in the design; I would assume that is done on purpose for the “Multi-Axis Motion Architecture” feature. I am highly impressed with this prostate massager and I can only imagine what results I will obtain with it. After all, my very first Super-O was with a Helix Classic!

When will my first session be? ASAP, you bet! I have a prior commitment this evening so I will have to wait until later on tonight!

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PS This will be my second session today! The first one was with the HIH 950 and it was a no-nonsense “fantasy” session. Here is a brief description. Read more »

“Back To Basics: Male Chastity”

Male chastity is really designed for the long-haul. Let me explain…..

I decided to sleep without my “chastity cup” last night. I had just a bit of groin irritation and decided that I should avoid wearing a cup for the night. As I suspected, I had a hard, if not impossible time keeping my hands off my cock! When I awoke with an erection, I decided to put-on a swimmer’s jockstrap just to reduce the urge. It didn’t work too well!

So when I got up a second time with another erection, I decided to put-on my SafeTGard strap and cup. Now this cup is too short for my erect package and the head (and frenulum) protrude beyond the top edge of the cup. This can set the scene for some direct stimulation of the frenulum which is absolutely forbidden while in male chastity. So I “switched” cups: out with the SafeTGard, in with the XO!

It worked! I cannot now touch, fondle or otherwise stimulate my cock and especially my frenulum. And that got me thinking: What is the purpose of male chastity, after all? While in long-term chastity (I am currently in Day 17) it is vital to keep the penis “locked-up” by means of a cock cage (which I own) or by means of a “chastity cup” (which I am wearing now). By not keeping the penis “locked” is asking for much trouble. It runs a strong risk of an unintentional ejaculation. Read more »

“Back To Basics: Is There A Limit to Horniness?”

@SOwithoutAneros inspired me with this thought (to @Harper):

“For now I’m fully amazed by a new kind of ruined orgasms I wouldn’t even call orgasms. It’s only like spilling over and releasing some pressure from the pipes but more in the way I otherwise would leak precum. It feels awesome and comes without any refractory period. Instead it makes me fucking horny and hornier and hornier. Like a new level of edging. Simply wonderful!”

It got me thinking: Isn’t this what we’re all about? Let me try to elaborate….

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Back To Basics

I had a great session the other night followed by strong Aless. While lying down, I had an extreme urge to “finger” my prostate. And I did just that. The feeling was so intense, much stronger than with an Aneros, I knew I would have to ejaculate, but had to stop-short since I didn’t want to spoil my continuation of SR and a possible next wet dream. I experienced an erection immediately and that got me thinking:

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Putting all Aneros use aside for a moment, let’s get back to basics! Our prostates are “key” to everything about us as males that is sexual. First and foremost, our erections. Where do you think your erection comes from? You guessed it…..your prostate! What can we accomplish as men without erections? Our prostates are vital in our production of semen, which is required for obvious reasons. So don’t ever belittle erections and our pleasure in getting them. Don’t belittle ejaculations either! They are both there for a reason. Read more »

A “Boot Camp” Training Session Fantasy!

I am still reveling in the “post wet-dream” feelings. It is a new way of looking at semen retention. There is not the anxious “when am I going to cum next?” feeling. I know that along this pathway of SR will lie another wet dream…and another…

I am currently in Day 15 of SR (not including the wet dream) and wearing my Mueller “chastity cup”.

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My past couple of sessions have had a “military” theme fantasy. Here is one I experienced just this morning. (I was fully-aroused at the start of this session).

[Sensitive readers be aware: these descriptions may get somewhat intense]

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Our military has discovered that the “enemy” has been exploring the use of prostate stimulation to coax information out of their adverse male counterparts. They have discovered that repeated, continual use of this technique has been positively beneficial in obtaining sensitive information from the prisoners without the use of force or torture. They do this with the use of very effective prostate massagers into the male prisoners’ anatomy. Their hands are cuffed so as to prevent them from removing the massager by themselves. Over the period of time which this has been “studied”, the general consensus is that most men will not be able to endure their sustained, repeated prostate stimulations without pleading, begging for release from this technique and the intense, agonizingly pleasurable feelings of a prostate massage. Many of the male prisoners have never experienced prostate massage before. (The prisoners are told in advance that this technique will be repeated again and again on them if they do not reveal requested military information.) Read more »