Author: goldenboy

“This Session Really Milked My Prostate!”

I “finally” milked my prostate! Day 12 of SR but it feels only like Day 1. I noticed it starting yesterday. I thought I would be forced to blow my load due to “blue-balls”. But I persevered and it paid off! I wore my XO ProCup “chastity cup” overnight.

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I decided to milk my prostate using the SGX. It was a wise choice. A couple of things were different about this session. First, I made sure that the SGX was deeply-seated so it was making adequate contact with my prostate. And second, I did not want to “short-change” this sessions’ timing: I planned for a full hours’ worth.

During the session, I had the strong urge to “pump” my hips almost like I was thrusting in sex. I kept this up for perhaps 5-10 minutes or so. Actually, I thought that I would be inducing a HFWO, that’s how it felt to me. At one point, I had some strong involuntary abdominal contractions; these I could not stop. At some point later in the session, I distinctly felt a “fluid” pumping and making its way to my penis.

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At the conclusion of this milking session, I was quick to examine what kind of fluid was expelled. It definitely was prostate fluid: it was somewhat thin and milky white. Definitely not precum. The quantity was more than just a drop; perhaps 3 drops. Read more »

“Semen Retention: Is It Really Just A Number?”

I am currently in Day 11 of semen retention (SR). Although I have not ejaculated for 11 days, that does not mean that I am not “tempted” greatly for a release. I have read that if I can make it past a certain point, it will get easier. But until then, my male body seems to have a great “bag of tricks” at its disposal to force me into having an ejaculation.

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Here are some of the ways my male body is coercing me for an early release of semen:

1. Increased prostate activity. Yes, I can feel my prostate trying to work on my penis and vice-versa. Yes, guys, I’m talking about erections. When the prostate starts talking to you, you should listen! I try to relieve this “prostate horniness” with an Aneros session. It usually works.

2. Spontaneous erections. I noticed that beyond Day 10, I start getting spontaneous erections, usually later in the afternoon. Obviously, it is a way for my body to tease me into thinking just “why” they are occurring! If I take no action, I can rest-assured that they will come the next day!

3. Extreme arousal. I experienced this recently at night and blogged about it. For no apparent reason, I had the most extreme arousal with an erection that I can remember. I did not act upon it, although it took me “nerves of steel” to withhold an ejaculation. Read more »

ED “Cure” In The Future: A Sexual Fantasy

My! This fantasy really was wild! Let me explain it….

I wore my XO ProCup “chastity cup” overnight. I am now in Day 10 of SR with absolutely no signs yet of blue-balls. So I’m continuing the journey. But it isn’t getting any easier as I will relate this fantasy as it happened….

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I awoke about 4 AM with an erection; nothing new here. I went to urinate and then returned to bed, still hard in the cup. As I tried to get back to sleep, my erection didn’t start to subside as it usually does. Instead, it got stronger and stronger. Before long, I realized that I had fallen-into a fantasy. Here it is as best as I can remember….

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It is about 40 years in the future! I am having some difficulties with ED and decided to make an appointment with my urologist. I do and he sees me in his office. We talk for a while about my “problem” and he tells me quite openly: “We solved the ED problem years ago!” “What do you mean, doctor?” I asked. He told me that they developed a unique combination of ED-relief meds that have proven to be almost 100% effective for men with my condition. One is a fast-acting version of Viagra and the other stimulates the brain for sexual arousal. Together, they work fast and dissipate just as fast. “There won’t be any after-effects. I would like you to try it”. “But I want to caution you that they are indeed very powerful and I want to make sure that you can ‘tolerate’ them. They work pretty fast (within about 15 minutes or so) and you will become very aroused. Are you willing to try it?” Read more »

“You Can Run But You Can’t Hide (From the MGX)”

Background: I am currently in Day 9 of SR and have no signs of blue-balls yet. I have not edged at all this week and I know this is helping me. I wore my “new” chastity cup—the SafeTGard with “Cage Cup”. I like the jock a lot but am not a fan of the cup. I find it is just too small to accommodate my erect package. So I substituted my Mueller cup last night; it is a good combo!

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For this session, I decided to go with the MGX. I lubed-up generously with BB and started the ride. I wanted to emphasize the “do-nothing” approach in this one, so I got it in my head that the MGX “somehow” got itself into my rectum by accident! (Now don’t laugh…I know this is not true, but I had to convince my brain that this was the case!) Anyway, I progressed in the session with a minimal amount of movement of the MGX. But my body knew it was in there and it was gently tickling my prostate and the ribs were “tickling” my anus. Of course, I am ignoring all of these sensations as best I can…..

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Time passes and I move-about on the bed; trying to find the best position to minimize all these sensations I am feeling. I can’t find one! I know now there will not be anything more this session than some gentle p-waves but that is enough for me! I know that the MGX wanted desperately to take my prostate to the next level but I am resisting. I don’t want the MGX “playing around” in my body! Enough already! Read more »

“Just Surrender To The Pleasure”

I did not sleep in my usual “chastity cup” but awoke about 3 AM, wanting to do a session. I am in Day 8 of SR and no sign of blue-balls yet. So I’ll keep going…

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I selected my Mueller “chastity cup” and put it on. Immediately, it had a “calming” effect on my erection which I noticed immediately. This has the effect of letting me concentrate on my upcoming session. I originally wanted to use the MGX since it was next in rotation. But I decided that the HIH 950 might be a better bet. So I lubed-it up with BB and started the ride…..

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The HIH 950 lately feels like a “finger” massaging my prostate ever-so-gently and this session was no exception. I began to clench-up amid the numerous p-waves coming my way. The involuntary contractions (and reverse contractions) continued and I didn’t know what to do. Eventually, I just decided to “surrender” to the pleasure it was giving me and completely relax. This session was a bit unusual for me since I started lightly moaning throughout and let a few expletives (f***) out. The pleasure was starting to intensify and I just gave-in as best as I could.

Towards the end of the ride (I don’t know what triggered this fantasy) but I was sucking on a female nipple (honest truth!) while I continued to experience the pleasure-waves. I didn’t know how much time had passed and was surprised that it was a full 45-minutes! Read more »

It Just Feels “Right” In A Chastity Cup, So It Just Feels “Right” In A Prostate Massager

The title may be a little corny, but the feelings were very real. Let me explain……

I awoke about 4 AM with a nice, arousing erection. I had a little bit of groin irritation yesterday and so I did not sleep in a “chastity cup”. When I awoke, although the erection felt nice and very arousing, it felt like something was missing. Sure enough, I needed to be in a “chastity cup”. So I selected my XO ProCup and put it on. And immediately, I felt that nice, “cozy” feeling in my private “package” that felt so “right”. I went back to bed.

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Not too long later, I got almost the same feeling, now with my prostate. Something was missing. So I decided that I needed to be in a prostate massager; I selected my HIH 950 since it is usually gentle, soothing and provides a nice, “cozy” massage of my prostate. I pre-lubed with Slippery Stuff Gel, then lubed-up the 950 with Boy Butter. It felt so nice going in. I laid on my side and just relaxed.

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I got pleasant p-waves almost immediately and felt the massager “cozy-up” to my prostate where it felt so right! I started doing very light, rapid kegels and was rewarded with pleasurable, gentle contractions and felt a very gentle “pump” of fluid make its way down to the tip of my cock. It just felt so relaxing and right! I was not expecting nor did I receive a Dry-O. But what I got with the combination of “chastity cup” and prostate massager put me in a good state of mind and that is enough for me today! Read more »

Aneros “Chastity” Combined With Male Chastity?

I was thinking about this in bed this morning and so I decided to expand on it…..

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Since I practice “male chastity” almost all the time now by wearing a “chastity cup” to bed, it makes sense that I should also be “chaste” in my use of Aneros prostate massagers. I had a nasty bout of “blue-balls” recently due to almost daily Aneros use and, although I like the sessions and how they feel, I didn’t like the after-effects on my body. Hence, perhaps it is time to integrate Aneros “chastity” with my male “chastity”. Would I be able to do this? Let me look into this further…..

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When engaged in male chastity, I have no control over my ejaculations if I am “true” to the spirit of the “cup” controlling them. However, when it comes to Aneros massages, it is my CHOICE to have a session, just by reaching into my drawer and selecting the device of choice and some lube. A quick application of lube, insertion and the session has begun! A simple case of mind over matter!

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Not so fast! This “session on demand” is what I am trying to break-away from; it is almost like an addiction, no? What will be the effects of going “cold turkey” from the sessions? (or at least coordinating them with my regular ejaculations when released from chastity?)

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“Toning It Down A Little Bit and Learning A Lesson Or Two”

Having daily Aneros sessions caught up with me this week. That plus another factor. Let me explain….

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I have been having nice, late evening sessions nearly every day this week with my three Aneros (in rotation): HIH 950, SGX and MGX. All was going really well. My wife and I had a nice “Tantric” cuddling session a couple of nights ago. I remained in chastity although I generated a lot of precum that night and really should have gone-off! My wife agreed! But I stubbornly wanted to remain in chastity. So I retired for the night…

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Fast-forward to yesterday morning. I wasn’t really feeling that well “down-there” (I had a vague “full” feeling) and suspected a nice, albeit “early” case of blue-balls! I was only in Day 4 of SR at the time and thought to myself, that I had no need to ejaculate yet. But I decided to go-for-it anyway and so I started the “edgemeplease.com” edging game while watching some masturbation porn. Sure enough, after about 10 minutes or less, I came. (The game, however, wouldn’t let me cum! But I had to cum anyway!) I noticed that my cum was especially plentiful this time and creamy white. I am amazed that all that came out of me! It seemed the pressure had been relieved! (Or so I thought…)

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“The Chastity/Arousal Continuum”

I didn’t know what else to call this but let me try to explain it……

Since I sleep in a “chastity cup” almost every night now, I find that when I don’t, it can become very arousing and erotic. For example, I went to bed last night without my cup on and, sure enough, when I awoke (due to a night-time erection) I “caught” myself coddling my balls and stroking my cock. I seem to do this lately without much forethought.

Today, I was curled-up on a sofa watching a movie and (sure enough) I became aroused when again I started caressing my firm balls and shaft through my trousers. Almost like an automatic response. What is going on here?

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I started to think about it and it now it seems to me to make perfect sense. There is a connection, a link if you will, between male chastity and arousal; for want of a better term I’ll label it the “chastity/arousal continuum”. What do I mean by this?

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Let me look at the definitions of chastity and arousal; hence:

CHASTITY
The condition or quality of being chaste, especially the condition of not having had sexual intercourse or of abstaining from sexual relations.

SEXUAL AROUSAL
In sexual arousal the nerve impulse release sex hormones and dilate arteries in the genital areas.

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Near-Perfect Erotic Prostate “Finger Massage”

OMG! What a session! Here are the details…..

Background: I am only in Day 2 of SR and didn’t really expect anything from a session. I didn’t wear a “cup” to bed but awoke about 2 AM with an erection and found myself fondling my package. So I needed to get-into a “cup” ASAP! I selected my XO ProCup, put it on and went back to bed. Couldn’t sleep so after about 45 minutes or so, I decided to go to my comfortable couch and listen to some relaxing tracks (no binaural beats). I did so for about an hour and decided to go back to bed. I wasn’t feeling especially aroused but wanted to do a relaxing “do-nothing” session with the HIH 950 (my smallest massager). I could not possibly have predicted what would happen next…..

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