Author: goldenboy

“Ready Or Not, Here They Come….”

Who are “they”? you may ask…. Here is the answer….

“They” are night-time erections (technically called Nocturnal Penile Tumescence) and all healthy guys (without ED) get them. Since I usually sleep in a “chastity cup”, I can sometimes be awakened by these erections. I usually can feel them coming on if I am awakened; I will get a strange “tingling” feeling in my cock and it is only a matter of time (only a minute or two) before a strong erection ensues. I can’t stop them (neither can you!)

I find that wearing a “cup” to bed helps me to avoid masturbating or playing with my junk. Sometimes, that can lead me to an ejaculation which I try to avoid while in chastity.

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An interesting side-note: I had a “quick” session about 10 PM last night that lasted only about 20 minutes. Afterwards, following nice p-waves, things really settled-down and I was completely flaccid and unaroused. I began to ponder: when will I get my next night-time erection? Will I get one at all? So I settled-in for the night. Sure enough, I don’t know how much time passed (perhaps 2 hours later) I awoke with that “tingling”, strange feeling in my cock. And sure enough, within a short minute or two, I had a full erection, one which I could not control nor could I discourage. It had to happen. Read more »

“…And Hold On Tight!”

I think I had my first Super-O with the SGX! Here goes……

I awoke about 12:30 AM with a moderate erection. Went to the bathroom (#1 only). Decided to do a session with the SGX (since it was next in the rotation). I put on my XO “chastity cup”, put the waterproof paper pad beneath me, lubed-up and started the session. One think I noticed right away is that the last inch “pull-in” of the SGX seemed especially strong, like it knew where it was going and what it was going to do. I couldn’t possibly predict what happened next…..

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Within the first 2 or 3 minutes, I began to experience the familiar “auto-f**k” contractions. I have experienced them many times before. But something about these contractions seemed different. For one thing, I couldn’t stop them! I mean that most sincerely! They were strong and plentiful. They were regular and quick, like a “crazed” pendulum clock. Occasionally, there were some extremely strong “pull-in” contractions as well. Auto-kegels and reverse-kegels. I began to moan; I remember saying (or thinking) “NO!” “NO!” “STOP IT!” but to no avail. I began shaking violently on the bed. I “sensed” a color wheel in my head, a tingling feeling up my spine. For a while, I honestly didn’t know who I was, where I was or what I was doing…..Was I doing prostate stim? I couldn’t tell you…..

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“Prostate Contact Is The Key”

I had been thinking about this for the past 2-3 days. I know it sounds so simple but hear me out…..

The key to real prostate pleasure is physical contact with the prostate and surrounding nerves, usually with an Aneros massager. But other toys can be used as well, even a finger! In days gone by, here in the US, some doctors and medical therapists used to “milk” men’s prostates manually, usually to relieve prostate symptoms. Today, other therapies are used instead. I believe that in China, however, this practice of manual “milking” of the prostate still occurs.

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I know that Aless pleasure is very real and I experience it too, but for me, nothing can compare to a “real”, stimulating massage from a “real” Aneros! I have owned several other so-called “prostate massagers” but they just didn’t do anything for me. In short, they don’t make proper contact with my prostate. There is something about the design of the Aneros that creates a built-in “rocking action” caused by PC/anal contractions that takes prostate massage pleasure to the next level and beyond.

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When I am lying down in a session, I don’t have to do anything. But since the Aneros is right there nuzzled up against my prostate, and making contact, I can be assured that if I am supposed to have an orgasm, I will! I have gone from “do-nothing” to amazing Dry-Os just by being “plugged” by an Aneros massager! As I said, prostate contact is the key! Read more »

“Semen Retention: Something New?”

Coincidence or not? You decide…..

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Yesterday, I was in Day 8 of SR and decided that to forestall the dreaded “blue-balls” I would ejaculate. But instead of a usual wanking, I decided to do it a little differently. So I got out my prostate vibrator, the Svakom Paddy, and with it set to vibrate intermittently at the lowest vibration level, I decided that I would use it to gently coax out an ejaculation. I started with my balls and perineum and very gradually worked my way up to my cock. I avoided the glans until the end. I decided in advance that I would do this “edging” for a minimum of 7 minutes. Well, after about 10 minutes, I couldn’t take it any more. I was ready to explode! [Side note: while in this state, I rotated my hips and “fantasized” about sexual penetration! So easy; so much for ED! I could easily have ejaculated with only a few thrusts.] So I moved the vibrator near the glans and before long, I experienced a great ejaculation; I didn’t “spurt” violently, but the contractions were quite intense, much more so than usual. A large amount of cum and it kept cumming for a while. For the rest of the day, however, I really felt like I was in “low-gear” and didn’t have much energy. Oh, the dreaded “refractory period”.

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“Two Dry-Os Calmed Me Down”

I was awake about 2 AM and felt like I needed a session with the HIH 950. I am currently in Day 8 of SR and feel no “blue-balls” yet. I have been “experimenting” with long “sessions” — to the point of sleeping with a prostate massager. I lubed-up the 950, put a waterproof paper pad on the bed, took off my PJ bottoms and went to lie-down. About a half-hour later, I decided to end this part of the session. Still feeling rather horny and close to masturbating, I decided to put on my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” and went back to bed.

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About 2 hours later, I awoke and had to visit the lavatory. When I finished, I just knew that the time was right for the second part of the session, this time with the more-aggressive MGX. I felt ready for the anal company! One nice feature about using Boy Butter as a lube is that my anal canal remained nicely pre-lubed and that made insertion of the MGX extremely easy. In it went, and I was away! Wearing my “chastity cup”, I again went to lie-down.

Well, it wasn’t too long before some kegels and reverse-kegels started to ramp-up my arousal and I felt it immediately. I began to squirm and shake on the bed, something I had not done in quite a few “mild” sessions. I was lightly moaning and remember letting go a few expletives in the process. So I could tell that this session with the MGX “meant business”! Read more »

“Relax……And Count To 45!”

There was nothing really unusual about this session. It was very relaxing. I decided to go for the HIH 950 due to its gentle approach to prostate massage. So I lubed it up and got started. I decided in advance that I wanted nothing more than a relaxing, “do-nothing” session. I got more than I bargained for……

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Throughout this relaxing “prostate-fest”, I experienced a little bit of everything, but in a slow, relaxing way. I got gentle involuntary contractions, gentle p-waves and gentle moaning. When I glanced at the clock, I was surprised to see that it was already 35 minutes into the session. So I decided add another 10, making this relaxing interlude a total of 45 minutes! Nice!

PS I decided to ‘chase’ this session with a 15-minute session with the MGX. Equally nice! I especially like the added stimulation of my anal canal!

Aneros “Chastity”

I will be out of town tomorrow and have been “preparing” for the trip by abstaining from Aneros sessions for a few days. I will be outdoors and don’t need any ‘surprises’ from my lube! Let me tell you….it isn’t as easy as it sounds. Let me explain further…..

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I began having a nice, fairly strong “Aless” feeling yesterday when I did some light kegels. I know my body (and my prostate) would like to have a session. But I have to abstain until at least tomorrow night when I return. You would think that the wait is no big deal. But, unlike “male chastity” (the no ejaculation drill) which I practice all the time, Aneros “chastity” involves no stimulation of the prostate (which, in turn, stimulates the penis). So my whole sexual “system” is being revved-up by the absense. My prostate is looking for some action! Even though I will only be in Day 4 of SR, it doesn’t matter too much. What I am feeling now is a great deal of “prostate horniness” which I usually relieve through an Aneros session. But I can’t! Bummer!

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Out-take: When combined with male chastity, abstinence from Aneros implies a total withdrawal or ‘retreat’ from sex which for a male is enough to drive him up-a-wall! Yes, I feel that way now too! Have mercy!

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My Recent “Blue-Balls” Experience & The Shower Solution

Why write about this? I know (and you probably do too) that the “common wisdom” solution for “blue-balls” is just to masturbate and ejaculate. I do it all the time. But I want to relate a recent experience I had….A little humorous, perhaps, but not at the time…..

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I had only been in semen retention (SR) about 5 days. I had been doing regular (daily) Aneros sessions since I started this run. Around Day 5, however, I began to develop the usual “blue-balls” ache deep in my groin. I have felt it many times before, but usually by Day 10 or so. Since I was only in Day 5, I really felt no need to ejaculate. But this time, it felt different. I thought I had a problem with my prostate, or my bladder or my colon. I noticed too that my balls were starting to ache (especially my left one). Definitely not a good sign.

I swim almost every day and wear a jockstrap to keep my package in check through my suit. Before I started, I more or less decided that when I returned home, I was going to masturbate, ejaculate and “solve” this current bout of “blue-balls”. No big deal! But, hold-on, that is not the way it happened! Let me explain…..

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A Rather Unusual “Waking” Fantasy

[Readers take note: This erotic fantasy is quite graphic; discretion advised]

I wanted to share this “fantasy” I experienced a couple of nights ago. It is not related to an Aneros session but nevertheless it is quite erotic. It just came “out of nowhere” but felt so “real”. Here goes….

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I am alone in a room, lying down in bed. I think I am naked. I believe there is a naked woman lying in bed with me. But nothing else. An interesting scene! Anyway, I am being encouraged to “relieve” my horniness with her. I am practicing semen retention and each day that goes by without an ejaculation just increases my horniness. This fantasy encompassed all forms of ED: premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, anejaculation. It didn’t matter if I had one or more of these ED types. Or none of them. I will succeed with this.

I am encouraged to let nature take its own course. The room is dark and I really can’t see a thing. But I can feel everything. And here’s the rub: there are no towels, no tissues, nothing else in the room or in bed besides me and her! That implies that to relieve my horniness I need to discharge my semen completely into her and nowhere else! I have nothing with which to clean myself up! (If I completely discharge there will be very little to clean-up.) If I masturbate, I will make a mess! Read more »

“With Prostate Massage, Sometimes Less Is More”

I know I have been having too many sessions lately. But I awoke about 2 AM with a very powerful erection. I had not been sleeping in a “chastity cup” and caught myself trying to masturbate. So I quickly donned my XO “cup” and went to lie back down. I quickly decided to have another session with the SGX. It never fails to disappoint me and didn’t this time either……

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When I quickly lubed it up and inserted it, I got the sensation (almost in fantasy) that I should remain “absolutely still” for as long as possible. That is easier said than done with the SGX. Over the next 20 minutes or so, I was able to remain very still. But the SGX was beginning to stimulate my anal canal and then my prostate to the point that I began to moan softly. I could not remain still much longer. I needed to re-position myself on the bed and try to find a position where I could just relax. I couldn’t find one.

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In time (about 35-40 minutes later) I find myself performing very rapid contractions, all the while experiencing erotic P-waves that had me almost in tears. How I went from “very still” to “rapid contractions” is the beauty of the SGX. It somehow knows all the right moves within my male anatomy to the point where it is futile to try to “relax and do my own thing” with it working its magic within me. It can’t be done! When combined with a “chastity cup”, the anal/prostate stimulation combined with no masturbatory access to my package results in a very satisfying, albeit erotic male pleasure-trip that I would want to last forever…… Read more »