Author: goldenboy

“Chastity Cup” or Masturbation Shield”?

“I have resumed sleeping in a “chastity cup” at night. I found that by first putting on a pair of cotton boxer-briefs and then the cup, it helps to avoid the irritation I have been experiencing. I’ll continue and move-on from here. My favorite cup is the XO ProCup with SmartFit supporter. It fits just-right and has a little bit of “give” to accommodate my night-time erections.

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I have begun to (internally) call these cups “masturbation shields” for a couple of reasons. First, when the night-time erections come (and they come-on strong), my urge while squirming in the cup is to ejaculate at all costs. That slight “tickle” on my cock’s frenulum can send me into an erotic orbit! Hence, the cup is my “masturbation shield” and is very effective. It will take me to the edge of ejaculation but not beyond. So far, I have not ejaculated into it (but came so-close). Call it almost a “wet dream” while awake…..

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I began to dwell more on this……When the male gets sufficiently aroused, his thought process tends towards completing the sex act (i.e., ejaculating) and nothing else! Why is this? I think it is hard-wired into our male brains. As males, we need to be “ready and able” with very short notice. Hence, we healthy males all get aroused, get an erection and have an ejaculation in a short period of time if we want. But for those occasions where the build-up can be longer (for me, while wearing a masturbation shield) it is an agonizing pleasure that I don’t want to stop. And since these erections (and arousal) can last about a half-hour or more, that time can seem like forever. Read more »

“Integrated Pleasure”

I have had a recurring groin irritation this week and have suspended my use of “chastity cups” for a while. I have been sleeping in a loose pair of boxers along with my PJs. But that’s okay—-I feel great and so does my prostate! I awoke with a strong, arousing morning erection. This morning’s session with the SGX lasted a full hour; I don’t know where the time went but I had wave-after-wave of pleasure. The session “ended” with my attempting to expel the SGX with reverse kegels —- I couldn’t do it without bringing-on erotic anal stimulation from the ribbed stem of the SGX. A wild ride! And then I began to think about it….

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Prostate pleasure should not be isolated to an Aneros session. Rather, since my prostate is so “portable”, I can take it wherever I go. So it makes sense that any pleasure derived from my prostate (including Aless) is naturally integrated into the whole of my sexual well-being. I am currently in Day 8 of SR and have reached a peak in my testosterone level. Boy, I sure can feel it! I am surprised that I have not developed “blue balls” yet! (We’ll see how the next few days progress). But in the meantime, I am feeling a “wholesome sexuality” that envelops my entire being. It is not just about wanting to wank-off quickly and relieve my built-up sexual tension. (But that would be a welcome relief). It is about feeling good from head-to-toe and that includes my sexuality. It’s not about just wanting to perform an Aneros session. It is about feeling the intimate pleasure of prostate contractions throughout my male body and feeling alive with that pleasure! And since this pleasure is so “portable”, I can experience it in the car, while shopping, dining, you-name-it, I can feel it. And that makes for a wonderful life! Please join me in pleasure! Read more »

“Prostate Dance”

Day 6 of SR and I feel my testosterone starting to build-up. I awoke this morning (still wearing my favorite XO “chastity cup”) with a very strong erection and an HFWO feeling. I knew it was time for a session. I lubed-up and inserted the 950 half-way; it took-over the rest of the way and nuzzled against my prostate.

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Now, the interesting thing about this session is that I felt compelled to move my hips. And as I did, I began to feel a gentle “tickle” first on one area and then another area on my prostate. That “dancing” feeling was unmistakable. The same prostate, only a different stimulation and a different feeling! My-goodness! Mind-blowing! As I moved-around, first in one position and then another, I continued to move my hips ever so slightly. And the “dancing” prostate pleasures only continued. How long would it last? I knew I had some Dry-Os since I felt a “clenching” that reached a peak and then subsided. I felt, like in a previous session, a “pumping” sensation down-below. I began to feel a little soreness so I knew my prostate was well-exercised. I knew it was time to stop.

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I ended this session by doing about 40 strong-and-hold contractions (kegels) as recommended by HIH for prostate health. My prostate has never felt healthier!

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“A Sexually-Submissive Male: Giving Up Control”

It’s no secret that I like male chastity. I am again sleeping in a “chastity cup” and I find it very stimulating. But why is that?….

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Male chastity is but one aspect of sexual submission in males (also know as malesub), It generally means that the male is not homosexual or even bisexual. I’ll admit that I am neither. It just represents a sexual style that is designed for maximum arousal through sexual submission. Sexual submission for me involve several aspects, as I can identify them:

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**I’m not allowed to masturbate**

This is the essence of male chastity. I “play” that I am not allowed to masturbate as long as I am wearing a chastity “cup” and this is quite true. Even if I’m not wearing it, I must remain true to my pledge. It can be very sexually arousing, particularly as I approach (or pass) Day 7 of semen retention. Wearing a cup is a physical barrier (like a cock cage) that almost eliminates any possibility of masturbating to ejaculation.

**If I am allowed to ejaculate, it usually will be a ruined orgasm**

The past few ejaculations for me have been ruined. I like the feeling of almost complete arousal to the point of orgasm, then stopping. I relieve the pressure in my system (and tendency for blue-balls) at the same time. Yes, it is not very satisfying, but hey, in submission, it is extremely stimulating. There is always the possibility of a “regular” ejaculation. Need I elaborate further? Read more »

A 950 “Chaser” Session

I’m writing this blog post not due to anything special about the feelings during this session. I awoke about 4 AM this morning with a strong morning erection. I did not wear a “chastity cup” overnight. I am currently in Day 6 of semen retention and working my way back into chastity. I didn’t have a strong prostate “horniness” but I knew I just had to have a morning session and with the HIH 950! I wanted to do this session in chastity, so I put-on the Mueller cup which fits well and feels good and sexy.

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Strange, but when I lubed-up the 950 with Boy Butter, I just gently started it in and—to my amazement—it seemed to be drawn-in almost by magic! It knew where it was going and didn’t need any help finding it! (At least, that’s what it felt like). With “daily” sessions like this one became, there is a warm, “cozy” feeling of having something nuzzle-up to my prostate. Hard to describe, but you guys that have very frequent sessions know what this feels like, right?

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It is now later in the afternoon and, although I don’t have really strong Aless, I am still feeling a longing in my prostate. Who knows when my next session will be?…..

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“This SGX Session Packed A Punch!”

I had just had a BM and felt completely ready for a session. I knew I wanted more, so instead of my trusty HIH 950, I reached for the SGX. It did not disappoint me. Let me explain….

I lubed-up with BB and started a most relaxing session. I was wearing my XO cup for a couple of hours this morning (I’m not sleeping in it yet). When I started the session, I knew right away that this would be a good one. I did not expect that, before long, I was feeling tingling in my toes and especially my fingertips. What happened next is that as I began to completely relax, I felt waves of pleasure moving throughout my body, so much so that I could not help but start to squirm, shake and convulse. I could not help but let out a few moderate moans as well. Every new position on the bed only brought me closer to complete euphoria.

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I have not had this much precum produced in a session before! I don’t know what was happening but I felt a “pumping” going on within my groin and it felt great! Towards the end of this session, I took off the cup and began to feel like I wanted to “expel” the SGX with reverse kegels. But the more I tried to expel it, the tapered ribbed stem took over and pulled it back in! In this way, my anus became thoroughly stimulated and I began producing more precum! My penis was hard and I could easily have cum. But I didn’t want to (I am only in Day 5 of SR). Finally, I felt like I had enough and expelled it completely. Read more »

“A Respite From Chastity”

I had been having some discomfort in my groin area and thought it would be best if I suspend my night-time use of “chastity cups” for a while. Glad to report that the irritation is clearing up. But, for the past two nights, I have been sleeping only in my PJs. What a difference! Let me explain…..

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I awoke several times last night with an incredibly strong erection; so much so that I thought my wife slipped me some Viagra! Not only was I erect, I had ample precum oozing from my cock. I felt it right down to my prostate. I honestly felt like I was headed for a wet dream or at least an unassisted, spontaneous ejaculation. At one point, I removed my PJ bottoms and gently squirmed on the bed on my stomach, waiting for the discharge. I had at least three or four fantasies run through my head during this time (some male, some female). I thought how wonderful it would be to have an Aneros session right about now! A HFWO for sure!

But, alas, it was morning already and I had to put aside all this pleasure for another time…. I thought chastity was a real turn-on. But when the “chains” are removed, the unhindered sexual freedom has emerged! I feel like a newlywed ready to “spin the wheels”, trying out all my “equipment”! I am eagerly awaiting another night!

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A Rare “Dual” Session!

While suffering with a head ailment for about 2 weeks, I am feeling much better now. I have not had a session for that long and felt it long overdue. I had slept in my SD “chastity cup” since early this morning and felt ready. I lubed-up the HIH 950 and began the session. No sooner did it start that I had an almost immediate erection and several auto-fuck contractions! That is always a good sign! This session was quite arousing and I began squirming, moaning and thrusting. I positioned myself differently on the bed and—oh my!—I felt a blissful state of my prostate that I have not felt before! I still kept on the cup since I didn’t want my cock involved at all. But then…..

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I decided to take-off the cup and just see what would happen. Honestly, I didn’t care if I came on the bed. And guess what? I began to lightly caress my balls (and my cock only a little bit) and I began to get a an erection and more direct stimulation on my prostate within my session-in-progress! So I kept it up. My erection subsided a little then went back up. All the while, I was producing precum now like crazy! I thought that maybe I would have a HFWO. But after a while, things settled-down and so I stopped…..I didn’t have the feeling that I needed to ejaculate.

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“A Ruined Orgasm! I’m Still In The Game”

Background: I am in Day 8 of SR. Had a nice “cuddling” session with my wife last night before bed. Sleeping in my XO “chastity cup”. Awoke about 3 AM feeling the need to ejaculate and end the SR run. I decided to lube-up the HIH 950 and do a nice, leisurely but stimulating session. I “relaxed” for about 15 minutes and then slowly did about 30 strong-and-hold contractions. At some point, I felt that I definitely wanted to cum. But I wanted to extend the teasing and give myself a voluminous ejaculation, so……

I wanted to play ‘edgemeplease’ online. I had not played it in a while and felt it would be appropriate for me this morning. I still had the 950 in and started the game. Now I must be honest and say that I have never had this much precum! I could barely hold onto my cock, it was so wet and slippery! I wanted, begged to go off! And guess what? At the end of the game, I was denied a cum! Bummer! What do I do now?…..

Not feeling satisfied, and still very horny, I decided to play again! I set-up the game for a short session, begging to let me cum. And so I started the game……

Wait! I felt like an ejaculation was imminent. I vowed to go-off even if the game said otherwise. And then…..what happened?…. Read more »

“Chastity: A Complete Male Shield”

While sleeping in my SD Ultra Pro “Chastity Cup” , when I awoke this morning, I began to feel its curved, contoured shape with my hands and began to dwell on a nice meditation….

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There is a definite similarity between a “chastity cup” and a man-made marvel of nature: for example, Hoover Dam. You may laugh but I see a connection. Let me explain…..

The dam is designed to hold-back a great, powerful body of water. The cup is designed to hold-back the great, male, raw sexual power.

The dam is designed to periodically release some water; otherwise it would overflow. The chastity cup when properly used is designed to allow a male a periodic release of seminal fluid.

An overflowed dam can be compared to a wet dream.

The dam generates power by virtue of it great potential energy. The cup generates power by holding-back that great male libido; raw sexual energy. The greatest power generated can be compared to an ejaculation.

No natural disaster: earthquake, tornado, lightning will destroy the dam. The chastity cup is designed to withstand direct blows without fail. It will not collapse or otherwise fall apart.

See the connection? I did! This made for a great meditation!

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