Author: goldenboy

“Twenty Minutes of Freedom”

Periodic release in male chastity is good…and fun! Dominant females periodically release and “treat” their chaste males to a variety of activities, up to and including ejaculation (if they allow it). Some, however, will take him right to the edge and quickly place him back in chastity, which is very frustrating. Here is what happened to me… This morning, while wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight, I was “treated” to 20 minutes of chastity release—-I was “allowed” to change into my ARMR jockstrap for up to 20 minutes! I quickly shed the cup and replaced it with a very secure 3″ jockstrap. I was allowed to fondle my package through the pouch but was prohibited from seeing it or ejaculating. Anything else was fair game. I got an erection almost immediately. I began to lightly caress, fondle and otherwise adore my package, if only through the pouch. After a while, while still erect, I was not too surprised to see a nice, dark, slippery, wet spot of precum! Oh, how I really wanted to ejaculate! When the 20 minutes were up, I was instructed to quickly put-on the Bike “chastity cup” which is very secure. After twenty minutes of freedom, I am back in chastity.

PS This “freedom” exercise is effective for stimulating the chaste male’s genitals and it certainly felt good for me. I was not feeling particularly aroused this morning but afterwards, now feel a warm, satisfying ‘tingle’ from my package. I have gone 6 days without an ejaculation and am feeling ready for one! Read more »

“My Prostate Was Aching and Begging Me For A Release”

Wow! Two blogs in one day? This one deserved to be written. Let me explain……

Following last night’s great “chastity” arousal, I went swimming this morning. I bought a new swimmer’s jockstrap and thought that it was a bit on the small side. But after a couple of wearings, I realize that it is great! When wet, it can be pulled-up and stays nicely in place. It also places more pressure on my package, pulling it upwards and on my perineum via the straps. Oh-oh! I was actually getting quite aroused in the pool while swimming, which is unusual for me. Also, while showering, I was getting aroused and semi-hard. What is going on here?

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Later on in the day, I had a more-than-average Aless but bearable. However, later in the afternoon, I found that the house was empty except for me (and the dog) and I began to get an intense craving within my prostate. It was aching, pulsing and begging me for a session! How could I resist? Honestly, I couldn’t. So I quickly lubed-up the HIH 950 and with an empty rectum, embarked on a quick session, not knowing what to expect. Read more »

“Chastity Cups”: Two Useful Techniques

I have “discovered” two useful techniques that I employ in the use of jockstrap with cups as chastity devices. I find these invaluable in ramping-up my arousal for eventual Aneros sessions.

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First, it is important to keep a submissive mindset in their use. By this I mean that in my mind it is not me putting-on the chastity device. This is in consonance with a more rigid interpretation of being in male chastity. Usually, the submissive male is placed and kept in chastity by a dominant female (femdom if you will). It is only she who holds the key. Keeping this relationship sorted-out in my head is instrumental in achieving the overall arousal level needed.

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Second, the following technique goes hand-in-hand with the first. The “chastity cup” can be re-adjusted (usually after a visit to the lavatory) by the “dominant female” so as to be tighter. It can be adjusted (depending on the model) to provide more direct pressure on the perineum where the leg straps are moved closer-together while at the same time, the waist-band is pulled up for the desired effect. When done correctly, and keeping in mind (and this is key) that no self-adjustment is possible, the effects can be dramatic. Usually for me, this will produce a strong erection due to the added pressure on the prostate. I will feel like I want to experience a wet dream with an ejaculation. I may start to produce some precum. I will involuntarily squirm all over the bed, mostly on my stomach, not knowing what will happen next or even when this feeling will subside. It is mind-blowing! In time (perhaps 30-45 minutes) the arousal will begin to subside. But the pressure on the prostate will remain, a trigger for the next erection and arousal cycle. Read more »

“An Unwilling Subject: A Male Chastity Fantasy”

My goodness! I went to sleep wearing my Mueller ‘chastity cup’ and woke up wearing my CB-6000S cock cage. What happened? An intriguing story. Let’s see if I can remember this dream. I think I do. Here goes……

[Note: this dream sequence is a fabrication of an actual “living fantasy” and may be somewhat intense; reader discretion advised]

I awoke (in Day 3 of SR) wearing my Mueller chastity cup. Still somewhat sleepy, I am led downstairs where my clothes are quickly removed. The chastity cup is removed and put away. The next thing I know is that my cock is being lubricated and I am having a ball ring installed. It feels tight and very secure. My semi-flaccid penis is beginning to grow and it feels like it could blossom into a full-blown erection! Now, the cock cage is placed over my erect cock and I thought: There is no way that that cage is going on! It is an unwilling subject! But with gentle pressure for a minute or two and voila’ my erection is subsiding enough (little by little) for the cage to be slipped-on. It finally goes on. And with a ‘click’, I am put into a most secure chastity cage. One for which there is no escape and no key.
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I am led to a nearby location where I am told to lie down and relax. By now, my erection has grown inside the cage to the point that I can feel my balls swell and start to put much pressure on the cage. But there is no escape from this chastity device. I try to relax in it, turning over on my stomach. While there for a while, I feel a hand reaching beneath me and feeling for my prostate through my perineum. By now, it has started to swell and I feel the gentle massage on it. I feel my prostate starting to pulse like it wants to ejaculate. But I know that will not happen anytime soon. My horniness is starting to ratchet-up immensely! Fuck me, please! Somebody!
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After a while, I find myself back in my bed, awake and still wearing the cage. I remember more external massage of my swollen prostate while there. It feels good and I feel a sudden increase in my arousal level, so much so that given more time, I want to have an immediate Aneros session! My horniness level feels about as high as it can go! Read more »

“No Turning Back, No Escape”

I decided to sleep in my Bike “chastity cup”. This is the most-restrictive cup. I am only in Day 2 of SR and not feeling anything particularly arousing. But I was up early this morning and decided to have a session with the SGX. I began this session in the usual way but didn’t plan on two developments: a meditation and then a fantasy. Here they are……

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Meditation — When we decide to embark on an Aneros journey, we really don’t know where the path will lead us. We take a “leap of faith” when we start, not knowing the end-point nor the pleasures we will encounter along the way. I dwelt on this for a while, succumbing to the erotic pleasures coming from my prostate. I began to feel a tingle coming up my spine and ending near my stomach. I began to shake and squirm all over the bed.

Fantasy — Then, this meditation morphs into a darker fantasy. I am now tied-up and locked away only with my inserted massager and my “cup”. I am squirming over the bed in various positions, unable to wrest myself from my predicament. With every squirm and position, I am feeling more and more stimulation on my willing prostate but am entirely powerless to do anything about it. Not that I wanted to—it felt so good—but the uncertainty of the situation added a certain level of arousal that had not existed there before. Somewhat panicked, I continued to twist and bend in various positions, again hoping to regain control of my situation. I was unsuccessful. Finally, I began to think that the only escape would be when it came time for me to “expel” the massager in the natural way! With that thought, things began to settle-down for me and so this session had ended. Read more »

“Ways Of Coping With Horniness”

Why write this? I have found lately that being in semen retention longer than 7 days can bring-on extreme horniness. How each guy deals with it is a very individual thing. Here are some of my coping skills (in no particular order):

1 Masturbate or jerk-off. This always cures what ails me, especially if I have a nasty case of “blue-balls”. I can just rub-one-off or get more sophisticated with a sleeve, an anal plug or binaural beats. I keep a calendar of ejaculation history so if it hasn’t been that long, I won’t bother.

2 Just ignore it, stud! This works usually at night when wearing a “chastity cup”. It feels so good but can go on for a while (sometimes 45 minutes or longer). That horny feeling sometimes is too much to bear! Thank goodness I am wearing a cup!

3 Fantasize – – What I do here is pretend that I am being “prepared” for a medical procedure (usually on the prostate). I need to wear a sexually-stimulating device (a supporter/cup) for a given period of time and I am powerless to do anything during that period. Usually works for me and keeps my mind focused on something else while enduring a powerful, stimulating erection.

4 Get active! Works well for me. I do something else like physical activity such as swimming, cutting grass, etc. This will almost always help to quell an active erection. But I wear a jockstrap in the pool and that fact sometimes can be another turn-on! Whoah! Read more »

“Still Having The Urge”

Still wearing my XO ProCup to bed. Woke up early (aroused as usual) and my prostate felt like it needed some relief. So I quickly lubed-up the HIH 950 and within a minute, began a most relaxing but stimulating session.

I decided to take a break from the SGX (which is more intense). Rather, the 950 provides my prostate with some gentle massage…..or so I thought! I suppose that due to the fact that I was already aroused and had a recent session with the SGX, my prostate was already “ready” to give me pleasure. It did not disappoint me. At one point during this ~45 minute session, I began to arch my back/hips while performing contractions and I immediately felt it in my prostate. I kept this up for a while and it actually felt like I was on my way towards a HFWO! I actually was moaning from the 950, if you can believe it! I am now having a sweet, delicate Aless, certainly not intense like the SGX but enough to let me know that my prostate is alive and well! Take care!
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PS As I have noted before and confirmed by @BigGlansDC, each prostate massager has its own unique “signature”. Take advantage of that when you are considering a session. Why hit your prostate with a baseball bat when a much smaller tool will do? If you only have one Aneros, please consider adding to your “collection” like I did. You won’t be disappointed! Just be sure to “choose wisely” —- think about what you are looking for in prostate pleasure and then go for it! Read more »

There’s Something Very Different About This “Chastity Cup”

I went to bed last night wearing my new XO ProCup “chastity cup”. I like the way it fits: not too tight, not too loose, just right! I slept for about 4 hours or so; then I got-up around midnight; couldn’t sleep anymore. I decided to listen to some soothing tracks which I did for perhaps an hour. I was feeling aroused from my last SGX session so it was an easy decision to have another one.

I lubed-up and was on my way. As usual, this session began with some REAL INVOLUNTARY contractions (no help from me). After that, I began to feel that nice “warm”, erotic feeling from my prostate. These P-waves would not stop and every contraction (in or out) only intensified the feeling. I began to moan and then began to shake all over. What was I headed for? A Super-O? A Dry-O?

Now, the most interesting part of this session was this: I was erect the entire session! No kidding, my erection never subsided. I couldn’t even say how long it lasted; I didn’t keep track of the clock. Was it 30 minutes? 1 hour? Longer? I didn’t have a clue. I was in an erotic “dreamland” where I could only feel the P-waves building up. I didn’t know where this session was heading but I didn’t want to wake anyone else up with more loud moaning. So, reluctantly, I ended this session. (One interesting thing of note: when I went to take a look at my cock, the head was covered in precum and I left a nice wet spot on the pouch!) Now I know what a good prostate milking while in chastity feels like! Read more »

“The SGX Did Not Disappoint Me!”

I received early presents yesterday: the XO “chastity” ProCup supporter and the Aneros SGX prostate massager. Here are my reactions to both.

XO ProCup Supporter
The nice pouch is labeled “SmartFit” . The first time I put it on, I knew it was different. The wide (3″) waistband was not what I expected (compared to the SD Pro Ultra Carbon Cup) but it felt good (not too tight either!) This cup is touted as “The Most Comfortable Cup You Can Buy” and I would tend to agree. When compared to my other “chastity” cups, it definitely has a nice, “soft” comfortable feel to it. I certainly could get used to it. The quality is there too; it should last!

Aneros SGX
What can be said? Aneros is the leader in prostate massagers and I can see why. From the first insertion, it felt right “at-home”. It wasn’t too long before I began to get some nice involuntary contractions. When compared to the HIH 950, I would say that my arousal was there in a fraction of the time. It was not an overpowering feeling, but it was an unmistakable prostate stimulation pleasure. I developed an erection almost immediately and that is always a good sign. Read more »

“A Bump In The Road”

I was in Day 10 of SR yesterday and had hoped to go much longer. That was not the case at all……

I developed a nasty case of “blue balls” — it seemed to hit me suddenly in the morning. I don’t actually feel this in my balls, rather my entire groin felt like somebody kicked me. I knew there was only one solution: I had to ejaculate and soon! I had a morning “errand” to do, but when I returned home, the house was all mine and I quickly decided to put myself out of my misery. I thought about doing it “the right way” (artificial vagina sleeve) but didn’t have the time. So I lubed-up with ID Glide and within a few strokes, got the best relief possible. I felt like I had PE! Within the hour, I was feeling great relief! But so much for SR……I am back at Day 1!

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Last night, I decided to forgo my “chastity cup”. I retired to bed wearing only my long PJs. But what happened? I woke up early this morning, and felt very uncomfortable. My “old friend” (my chastity cup) was missing! It sounds silly, I know, but I just didn’t feel right not sleeping in it. You would think that having free access to fondle and caress my package would be stimulating. But actually the opposite seemed true. I felt an uncomfortable feeling. I should not have easy access to stimulate myself. After all, I have been sleeping in “chastity” for a month (or more). And so, after a while, i put-on my Mueller “chastity cup” and immediately felt better! The “bump” in the chastity road has been smoothed-out! Read more »