Author: goldenboy

“Gentle Chastity”

Can male chastity come in different “flavors”? Like “intense” and “gentle”? An intriguing concept. My answer is a resounding “Yes!” Let me explain……..

It all started last night. I am soon to be in Day 11 of SR and feeling horny. I started some cuddling with my wife. And much to my surprise, she began to cuddle back! Ever so gently, she came up to me from behind and began caressing my stomach and worked her way down very slowly toward my soon-to-be-erect package. I still had my briefs on under my PJs. Before I knew it, she was very gently caressing the glans of my cock in slow, circling fashion. I began to lightly moan from the pleasure. It seemed to last at least 10 minutes. I honestly thought she was going to make me cum; I had no choice. But then, somehow, she seemed to sense that I was still in chastity (I don’t like to cum when in SR) and she slowly and deliberately disengaged her hands from my groin and let me cool-down. It worked!

It was time for bed and I changed into my night-time chastity “cup”, the SD Pro Ultra Carbon. I put it on and went to sleep. Waking up about 5 hours later, I got the sense that it was time for a more “gentle” chastity cup, so I switched to my Mueller cup and jockstrap. This pairing is the gentlest of all the cups and the jock is not too tight nor too restrictive. I can “grow” under the cup and it will allow sufficient room for expansion. I rested for a while in this “gentle” male chastity device……but then something else happened! Read more »

“My Brain Says Cum, My Body Says No!”

Man, am I horny! I am currently in Day 10 of SR and had an erotic, wild morning since I awoke. I slept as usual in my SD Ultra Carbon cup and “leaked” into the jock. I’m not sure what happened next, but I kind-of fell into a fantasy…..I am being “let-out” of chastity but only for about 20 minutes and must wear a jockstrap (with no cup) for the duration! OMG! I select a swimmer’s jock first and lie down on the bed. I begin stroking, fondling, coddling every erotic part of my anatomy. The only stipulation is that I can’t touch my package directly! Wow, it feels wickedly good! Before the 20 minutes is up, I switch to the ARMR jockstrap with 3″ waistband and start to listen to some binaurals for male ejaculation (I meant business and fully intended to go-off). But my body was still telling me No! so I cooled-down once again. But after 20 minutes, the ride was over and I was “fitted” with a hard chastity cup once again. This time, the Mueller cup. I immediately feel it and get erect. Since I can’t touch anything, I am getting sexually frustrated; quite normal for male chastity. I will almost do anything to cum now. Powerful stuff! Read more »

“A New Cup, A New Technique”

“A New Cup”
I bought a new chastity cup and just tried it out: a Bike adult baseball jockstrap with a traditional Bike cup. At first, I thought it was a little too tight and restrictive, but after a while, it is a good feeling. This jockstrap cannot be worn without the cup……it is just too small and restrictive otherwise. But when paired with the cup, the sensation is wild! I have not slept in it yet for chastity, but feel that it is only a matter of time to get it into the “rotation”. BTW, this came in a 2-pack: two jocks and one cup. I ordered adult large size (I am a 36 waist).

PS I am into day 9 of SR and getting really horny. I need to stay in chastity as long as possible. Otherwise, I find myself playing with my package too much and may regret the stimulation! Oh, how I crave an edging session! But I’m not ready to cum yet; I don’t have any blue-balls feeling.

PS I have three cups now and each one has its own unique “signature” feeling. The jockstraps (I have four) also have their own characteristics. Usually, I pair them up as originally bought. But sometimes, I mix them up for a “different” sensation.

“A New Technique”
During this morning’s session, I “discovered” a new Aneros session technique. I’ll call it “Ignore-It!” and here is how it works…. Read more »

“What Happens When I Attempt To Stop Male Chastity?”

I have attempted this several times recently. In a nutshell, if I don’t sleep wearing a “chastity cup” I invariably wake-up with an erection and find myself touching and coddling my “package”. I can’t seem to stop it. I have even gone so far as to perform an edging session (yes–3 days in a row), sometimes with an ejaculation but mostly without. One recent edging session was with lube (something generally new to me) and it was mind-blowing. I almost felt like I had PE. The male urge for release is very strong, particularly when practicing semen retention. I find myself often within that 7-day peak testosterone period and that means that I can get greatly aroused at any time. So it is important for me to remain in chastity. I don’t rely on my CB-6000S recently; I’m taking a little break from chastity during the day.

The other thing that happens is that with a strong ejaculation, I will feel the after-effects of the “refractory period” which is almost the opposite of sexual arousal. It is a generally “down” period sexually where I have practically no interest in sex. But if I continue SR aiming for 10-12 days, I may suffer the effects of “blue-balls”. Bummer!

I am still swimming and find that I am wearing a swimmer’s jock almost all the time now. Even with a relatively tight suit, I find that the additional support it offers and the way it feels agrees with me. It is also arousing and that doesn’t hurt! So I’ll keep it up. Read more »

“Male Chastity Fantasy: Tease and Denial……And A Ruined Cum!”

I had no idea where this fantasy would lead me, until……..Let me explain……

I had slept in my SD Ultra “chastity cup” overnight and woke up quite early. I decided to go listen to some erotic but relaxing tracks. I went to lie-down and sometime during the next hour or so, I fell-into a fantasy……My “keyholder” wants to tease me. I wasn’t expecting this, however. “She” carefully removed the chastity “cup” from the mating jockstrap and put it aside. Then, she slowly and deliberately began to caress my balls and my cock through the double-layer jock pouch. OMG! It felt beyond good. But just when I began to get quite aroused, she stopped! And just like that, she re-inserted the cup and I was again in chastity!

This tease-and-denial “scene” played-out I believe two more times; I am beginning to get so aroused, I sense a precum “leaking” feeling. I still don’t know where this is leading…..

The jock cup goes on again and I am “treated” to some binaural beats for prostate orgasm, anal stimulation and some others. Finally, and quite unexpectedly, the “chastity cup” comes off one more time and I now am situated at my PC; my keyholder begins to fondle my quite aroused package beneath the pouch and it is obvious that I will have no choice but to cum. I have gone too far down the arousal path and there is no turning back….. Read more »

“We’re Not Just Playing Around!”

I was thinking about this in the morning and thought I should try to put it down into a blog…….Here goes……

Many of us guys on Aneros are “serious” about our prostates! I for one, am concerned about prolonging its health for as long as possible. I want to avoid severe BPH symptoms as well as avoid prostate cancer. I do regular “therapeutic” prostate massage with my HIH 950 now. The fact that it gives me an immense amount of pleasure is not really relevant; but it is a “fringe-benefit” of prostate massage.

Whether or not other Aneros guys are taking the same approach as me is not really pertinent either. What is appropriate, I believe, is that, collectively, we are NOT just playing around with our prostates, our bodies, our pleasure-centers. We are serious about learning how to “manage” our prostates for maximum health. If we happen to obtain pleasure from prostate massage (as HIH transitioned to Aneros, for example) that is great! But I for one don’t want to be called-out for playing with “sex toys” including Aneros. Touche!

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“Session Without A Toy”

I had a pinched nerve in my neck for a few days and needed to apply an ice pack and lie-down. I did and thought to myself: can I “will” myself a prostate orgasm without an Aneros toy? I quickly learned that the answer was a resounding……yes! Let me explain…..

While lying down, I started to perform gentle PC contractions, in and out (regular and reverse) and began to feel a warm, familiar sensation from my prostate. I am now in Day 8 of SR and my system is “ready” for a release any day now. And I continued these contractions for not too long when I began to experience deeper, more regular breathing and I felt my body tense-up to the point where my arms got tingly and I began to shake them. OMG! I had no control. Actually it was just a little scary! How can I experience this much prostate pleasure since I am not even performing a “regular” session? I have no toy inserted. Then it dawned on me…..

Being re-wired through Aneros, I am more “in-tune” with my body. If I become aware of delicate sensations from within my prostate, there is no telling how far these feelings can progress. I discovered that this morning during a brief “Aless” session. What I take away from this experience is encouragement for all the Aneros “guys” trying to experience the elusive Super-O. Just relax, feel the sensations within your own body and learn to amplify the feelings to the point of orgasm. It can be done! I experienced it this morning! Read more »

“The Power Of Lucid Dreaming”

This morning, I was up quite early. I had slept in my Mueller chastity “cup” and decided to switch to the ARMR jockstrap with the same cup. I am in Day 7 of SR and really feeling the testosterone boost. My cock knows it too. I select a relaxing track on YouTube for erotic lucid dreaming and put it on at minimum volume.

I don’t know what happened but the next thing I know is that I wake up and it is about 2.5 hours later. The track ended and another one did not queue up as it usually does. When I get up I developed a massive erection beneath the cup almost immediately, so much so that I felt like I would ejaculate very soon. I was probably experiencing REM sleep; that is the part of the sleep cycle that usually triggers the nocturnal erections. Perhaps if I were continuing to listen to the track in my sleep, I would experience a wet dream. Interesting!

Anyway, I do remember a lot of the dream in detail. It was also in color, since the “girl” in my dream had a lot of colorful tattoos on her back! But I don’t remember anything sexual contained within the dream, only that she was quite attractive. Dark hair and tall as I remember. Bummer! Read more »

” I Remained In Chastity During This Session!”

I was locked-into my SD 218 chastity “cup” all night and was quite aroused. I am currently in Day 7 of SR. Trying to listen to some tracks early this morning but nothing seemed interesting. So I retired back to the bedroom and decided for a quick prostate session. I lubed-up the HIH 950 and started the session. Since I was already wearing a chastity “cup” I saw no need to remove it prior to the session. This turned out to be a smart move….

I started with a “do-nothing” approach and quickly realized that I was headed immediately for some auto-contractions. It felt like a tickle on my prostate; soon I could feel a pulse with every beat of my heart. I couldn’t stop any of it. Since I am locked-into chastity, I have absolutely NO involvement with my penis, which was, in turn, throbbing and large then quietly flaccid. Since I couldn’t touch it at all, I felt everything going on within my prostate. It didn’t matter whether I was lying on my side or face-down; my cock couldn’t be stimulated at all through the cup.

Now I must have lost track of the time since the next thing I realize is that it is about 45 minutes later. I still have a nice, gentle throbbing from my prostate, but no orgasm apparent. That was okay, since I felt amazing. I ended this session with about 30 strong contractions as recommended by HIH for prostate health. This session thus ended with me still in chastity…..I cleaned-up without removing the cup. Read more »

“Another Reason To Feel Good!”

I had my annual urologist check-up yesterday and things went very well. My PSA was 1.5! (Breathing a sigh of relief!) And bladder ultrasound was normal! I was dreading the DRE which is required annually. Fortunately, that also went well. My prostate is normal in size and shape. I am both thankful and relieved.

PS Found this info. online regarding “normal” PSA levels by age:

Age-Specific Reference Ranges for Serum PSA
Age Range (Years) Asian Americans African Americans Caucasians
40 to 49 0 to 2.0 ng/mL 0 to 2.0 ng/mL 0 to 2.5 ng/mL
50 to 59 0 to 3.0 ng/mL 0 to 4.0 ng/mL 0 to 3.5 ng/mL
60 to 69 0 to 4.0 ng/mL 0 to 4.5 ng/mL 0 to 4.5 ng/mL
70 to 79 0 to 5.0 ng/mL 0 to 5.5 ng/mL 0 to 6.5 ng/mL

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