Author: goldenboy

A Mini-Meditation: “Guys, We Need Our Cocks!”

While taking a shower this morning, this “mini-meditation” hit me like a brick! Here it is…..

It was so simple yet so profound.

Guys, why do we spend so much time and effort with things like masturbation, ejaculation and prostate simulation? The answer is very simple. We need our cocks! We need our erections! We need our ejaculations! I don’t need to get into the “why”, do I? What are we males without our cocks? Think about it! It’s not just about pleasing ourselves. It’s not just about pleasing our significant other. It involves the entire planet! So the next time somebody tells you that you are too male, too sexy, too provocative, just think and know why you are the way you are.

Think about it……

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“An Erotic Fantasy: She Gave Me The (Middle) Finger”

A seemingly innocent morning. Here’s how it progressed……

I slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight and was quite aroused by early morning. This fantasy started when I was “instructed” to slip-into a more confining and more secure chastity cup. I was “instructed” to put-on the ARMR jockstrap fitted with the SD Ultra Carbon Cup. I did so and went downstairs to listen to some relaxing tracks. The one which I selected was “Erotic Lounge & Luxury Chill Out Collection Vol. 1 | Mixed By Johnny M”. I started it up at low volume and went to lie down. I was “instructed” soon afterward to remove my PJ bottoms only and just relax.

Now I don’t know the exact sequence nor the timing, but the next thing I know is that I have “her” middle finger lightly straddling my anal opening. It seemed to have been there for quite a while. Later on, progressing within the fantasy, “she” began to ever-so-gently apply some pressure down there, so that if I did some anal contractions and releases (like for an Aless session), the pressure from her finger would “index” it ever so slightly inward. She has no lube on her finger so the inward journey was quite slow. I am beginning to feel some pressure now edging on my prostate (but nowhere near it yet). I remember starting to lightly moan with every contraction I made. I honestly felt sexually “paralyzed” while receiving this level of stimulation. I would have liked it to stop, but not really since it felt so ******* awesome! Read more »

“Locked and Loaded In Male Chastity”

Why do I enjoy male chastity so much? I have thought about this recently and need to put some of this into words. I am in Day 7 of this current stretch of semen retention and am reaching my peak testosterone level. I am extremely horny as well. I find that I am still sleeping in a “chastity cup” at night—usually now my Shock Doctor Ultra Carbon cup with the SD 218 jockstrap. This is an awesome combination that I describe to myself as “inescapable” male chastity. The tight, confining cup will not allow anything to escape. When I am awakened at night by an erection, it will continue to build up until my cock is throbbing beneath the cup. Sometimes I feel very close to the explosive discharge of a wet dream (although I have not had one yet). Since I cannot “escape” I have no choice but to ride it out and experience the full pleasure of the erection.

Sometimes the transition from chastity “cup” to chastity “cage” is so quick, I find that before I know it, I am locked into my CB-6000S chastity cage. Believe it or not, I have yet to “escape” from it. When I am locked-in, I have no means of escape. Wearing it yesterday for about 6 hours felt so right. The key to enjoying a chastity cage, I think, is to have some contact of the penis glans on the inside of the cage in the mating part. With the CB-6000S and my anatomy, this works very well and I feel it with every little movement and twitch of my cock and my encircled, “locked” testicles. Read more »

“Chastity, Super-T and Urination?”

What a strange title I picked! What do these have in common? Let me explain…..

I slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” and awoke about 3 AM with an erection so arousing I dubbed it a “wet dream cup”. I felt like I couldn’t take any more and was ready to go-off. So I went downstairs and began to listen to some tracks. But nothing was “clicking” this morning. So I went back into bed and, while still wearing my cup and aroused, I had the idea to just leave it on and lube-up the HIH 950 and see what happens. Now when I do a morning session, I usually take-off the hard cup and put on a regular jockstrap. But this morning, I felt a little different so I decided to wear both the prostate massager and the hard cup. It was a decision I couldn’t regret. I developed auto-contractions within 5 minutes and began to…….swear! Honestly, instead of moaning, I felt so aroused I began to (quietly) say every expletive I’ve ever learned! F**K! S**T! F**K, F*K, F**K! It just felt “right” for this session. And as the words came out, the arousal ramped-up. I could not find a position on the bed where I felt any relief from the arousal. I started twisting and shaking. At one point, I know I definitely experienced a dry orgasm since my whole body tensed-up for a minute or two. After about 20 minutes, I felt “ready” for another ejaculation (it only has been 2 days since the last one). But something inside told me that I needed this. So off came the cup and I quickly rubbed one off. I noticed right away a copious quantity of milky-white semen that was mostly prostate fluid. A Super-T! And after about a minute or two, I still had a lot of this same white fluid coming out of the tip of my cock. Man it felt good to go off! When this session was over, I had to remove the 950 and it felt like it was glued-in place! Oh man! I can get used to more ejaculations, if not just for the reduction of my BPH symptoms! Read more »

“Male Chastity: A Different Direction”

While listening toI am suffering from erectile dysfunction and my doctor wants me to wear a cup for 14 days, no exceptions. I should notice an improvement in my erections, especially in the cup. However, no ejaculations during that time. He said I may get a wet dream, which is okay.
While meditating, I was “up and down” in my cup. This only heightened the arousal pleasure during each fantasy. So, there are many alternative ways to rationalize wearing a “chastity cup”. It doesn’t always have to be about “femdom” male chastity!
a most relaxing track on YouTube this morning: “Reiki music for energy flow, healing music meditative music for positive energy calming music 31209R”, I began to deeply relax and meditate and fantasize. Since I wore my Mueller Sports Medicine “chastity cup” overnight, I began to dwell on an alternative “mindset” for wearing a chastity cup. Here is a partial list as I remember it:

• I am preparing for a surgical procedure on my testicles and need to refrain from all self-induced stimulation of my genitals. I must wear the cup for at least 48 hours prior to my procedure.

• I am recovering from a surgical procedure on my prostate and need to stop all ejaculations for 15 days by wearing a cup.

• I am trying to boost my testosterone and need to wear the cup for 7 days. No ejaculations during this time. Read more »

“This Session Was Just Too Easy”

I mean it; this session was just too easy. I am in Day 7 of SR and horny. I decided for some prostate massage this morning. I grabbed the HIH 950 and lubed it up with a generous amount of Boy Butter. I was already aroused and it went in very easily. And almost immediately, I am lying in bed with a full erection. I begin to get the involuntary contractions (and reverse contractions) right away! I am getting an uncontrollable urge to “squeeze” and this is causing me to squirm and moan. I am starting to leak precum now. At one point, early in the session, I feel my swollen balls and—-OMG! I roll-over on my stomach and push my hard cock downward on the bed. I honestly felt that I could go for a HFWO without any trouble at all! But technically, I am still in chastity and prevented from masturbation and it wouldn’t be right for me to get-off so easily. Also, I didn’t have sufficient time this morning for more prostate pleasure. I felt that something big was coming (maybe a Super-O? or A Super-T?). So, regretfully and unfortunately, I had to end this amazing session on a high note! But before I stopped, I did about 40 strong-and-hold contractions as recommended by HIH for prostate health. This is a session that I won’t soon forget! Read more »

“From Chastity…..Into Chastity”

I have taken about a 3-week break from wearing my CB-6000S chastity cage. I wear a “chastity cup” at night and nothing during the day (I practice the honor system and it seems to work). The other day, I decided to “try” the cage again. I put it on quickly and—-holy shit! I got an immediate erection which obviously was thwarted by the cage. I got the most extreme arousal feeling so quickly, I thought I was going to explode with passion! This feeling lasted perhaps 15-20 minutes and then began to settle-down. Wow!
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After a good night’s sleep, I am again having a “fantasy” conversation with my female lover and she suggested letting me get out of my chastity cup. I can’t wait for that! But before I do, she wanted to give me an “anal tease” with me still wearing the cup, She lubed-up the Svakom Paddy Anal/Prostate massager and carefully and slowly introduced it, making sure the angle was able to be directed towards my prostate. OMG! I felt the beginnings of an anal orgasm and I began to perform some contractions which felt so good. But after about 10 minutes of pleasure, she directed me to quickly take-off my chastity cup. When I did, she immediately told me to put-on the cage and I obliged.

So I’ve gone “from chastity……into chastity” within a minute! I didn’t even have time to think about it! Read more »

“A Chastity Conversation Fantasy”

While waking up in my SD Ultra Carbon “Chastity Cup” I am having a “conversation” with my imaginary lover. Here is the essence……

She: I want you to take off all your clothes. I want to see you in chastity.
Me: Okay. (I take off my bed clothes)
She: That’s nice! Can I touch it? (Looking at my hard chastity cup)
Me: I won’t stop you.
She: Ohh! I wonder if you are getting hard inside? (She begins to caress all around the cup)
Me: You know I will.
She: That’s what I want!
Me: Can I take it off just for a little while?
She: No! You know the rules!
Me: What do we do next?
She: I want you to listen to some tracks.
Me: For what?
She: Silly! For erection, that’s what!
Me: I’ll do as you want. (We go downstairs and I put on some headphones)
She: I’ll let you pick the tracks.
Me: Okay.
(I proceed to select a few tracks for erection, ED, and ejaculation and start to listen)
She: Are you getting hard yet?
Me: What do you think? What comes next?
She: Nothing! I just want you hard in your cup! It is locked-on and is not coming off!
Me: When will you let me out of chastity? ( I now have a strong erection but no means of release)
She: That’s only for me to know. You will remain locked in chastity for now. There’s no release for you anytime soon. I love having you locked-up in chastity! I’m going to do it a lot more often……Maybe I’ll explore your prostate next time….Do you want to cum in your cup?
Me: Fuck! Read more »

AM Male “Spa”

Ah! Summer heat in the Northeast! It will be in the 90s today. I awoke early and just decided that this morning will just be for me. A “Spa Day” if you will. I had slept in my Mueller chastity cup and awoke quite aroused. While still in the cup, I went to lie down on the sofa and listen to some relaxing tracks.

When I felt sufficiently “ready” , I proceeded back upstairs for a prostate session. It has been about a week and I felt in need of some prostate stimulation. So I lubed-up the HIH 950 and I was on my way! I started-out with the typical do-nothing technique, but that didn’t last too long. I began to experience some auto-f contractions after about 10 minutes and things just progressed from there. This session lasted about an hour. The highlight was about three very powerful abdominal contractions (whew! —-I don’t know where these came from.) I finished with about 40 strong-and-hold contractions as recommended by HIH. I don’t think I produced much fluid with this session but it felt so good. I was both erect and flaccid.

After the session was over, the next “stop” at the spa was back down on the sofa where I indulged in a few binaural beats–for prostate, erection, and anal orgasm—a full regimen. I had no intention to ejaculate and I didn’t. But this last stop at the “spa” was just what I needed. I am charged-up and ready to take on the day! Read more »

“Escape Through A Wet Dream”

I have been lucid-dreaming lately. I am in Day 6 of SR and I feel my testosterone level building. I am also wearing a “chastity cup” at night. I have two and alternate between them. I got a good night’s sleep in the first (Mueller) which is not too restrictive and allows some freedom for my erect cock. When I awoke with a great-feeling erection, I was not sure if I was still lucid-dreaming. Probably not, but my brain was telling me that I was. I was “told” to quickly put-on my other “chastity cup” (Shock Doctor) since it is more confining for my bits. And around the same time, I “heard” (was I still dreaming?) that there will be “no escape for me except through a wet dream”. With that said, I began to squirm-around on the bed, just taking-in the concept. I began to lie on my stomach and with every twitch of my erect cock, I felt ever-so-much-closer to an escape, a release, an ejaculation. If I wanted “out” of the cup, I would have to ejaculate. Now I’m not sure of I am still dreaming or not, but the feeling was so real! I am “inching” my way towards my release with every twitch, every thrust of my erotic cock. After a while (perhaps 30-45 minutes) I came-to my senses but I still felt greatly aroused. And the next thing I knew, I was putting the cup into my SD briefs and putting them on. Was I still dreaming? The sense I got (and very quickly) was that since I did not cum, I will now have to be locked-in the cup for a good while. Since it was not in a jockstrap, no one but me will know that I am cock-locked in a cup. Was this an extension of the lucid dream? Was it reality? Does it make a difference? I am feeling now like I am a horny, potent male without any means of release.
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PS Last night, my wife did not reject my advances and I became hard rather quickly. But only a little cuddling and that was it! It must have triggered something deeper within me that resulted in this “dream-like” sequence. Read more »