Author: goldenboy

“BPH Is Knocking On My Door Again”

Since giving up my regular Aneros sessions months ago, I now notice that I have regained some BPH symptoms. They are more annoying than anything: i.e., several more night-time trips to the bathroom, etc. To help alleviate the symptoms, as I did before with Aneros, I have ordered from High Island Health their “new” 950 prostate massager and will begin to use it regularly. This should help.

Since I have embarked on SR and now male chastity, I’m sure that the reduced activity level of my prostate is contributing to the BPH symptoms. On the upside, however, I have never been more horny!

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PS My wife should not have any objections as this is purely a “medical” decision. It’s either prostate massage or future visits to the urologist!

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“An Unexpected Aless Session”

I had awakened not too early and was still wearing my “chastity cup”. It has been 8 days without a release. I decided to relax and listen to a couple of binaural tracks for prostate relief. I have had some issues with BPH recently and wanted to help it. I had listened for about an hour or so and then I decided to stop and just go lie down again.

When I did, I began to relax thoroughly. I felt just a slight “whisper” from my prostate but didn’t pay it much attention. But then, something strange but wonderful happened! I began to get an unmistakable “quivering” feeling from my prostate and around the same time, my cock began to get semi-hard and then flaccid and then semi-hard again. I knew something was up! I also began to get an unusual “paralyzing” feeling and felt that I was embarking on a “roller-coaster” of prostate pleasure. I was right! For the next 15 minutes or so, it was an almost non-stop orgasm. I began gently moaning with every wave of pleasure. It just wouldn’t stop! I began to perform just very slight kegels and distinctly felt three different sets of muscles at work. I was paralyzed with pleasure and just couldn’t stop it. The roller-coaster ride was not over yet. I began to get some whole-body quivers and continued to lightly moan.

The “ride” came to an end but I knew that it could have lasted longer. The feeling was almost identical to that during an Aneros session. Amazing Aless! Read more »

“Male Chastity: A Completely New Feeling”

A new blog entry so soon? I thought this event was significant enough to warrant its own entry….

After having worn my “chastity cup” all night (about 8 hours) followed by 2 hours in the CB-6000S, when I removed it, something new and unusual happened. I got a semi-hard erection that was nothing unusual. But then I got this FEELING that with my cock out of its cage, I would be ready to have a release (or ejaculate) very soon. And that feeling became stronger and stronger. I almost couldn’t stop it! Almost like an auto-ejaculation, that’s how strong it was.

Perhaps this is the same feeling that guys who are locked-up in chastity 24/7 get when they beg their keyholders for a release. There is a “rush” for a sexual release (through orgasm) that, when withheld for so long in chastity, comes out so strongly, it is almost overpowering at first. I think that the guy knows that he is soon to be locked-up again and this is his body’s way of coping with that fact. I thought that I have experienced every imaginable sexual feeling available to a male. I was wrong this morning!

PS 15 minutes later, I am still feeling it. It seems to be getting stronger again and I am starting to leak! OMG! How far will this go? Do I need to be locked-up again and soon? I honestly feel now that I must ejaculate! Read more »

“Male Chastity: It’s All About Control”

Another “living fantasy”…..It started with my lover wanting me to start wearing my chastity cage at night instead of just my chastity cup. So I obliged. She knows that I cannot escape from my cage no matter what. She wants to really prevent me from masturbating. And she wants to see more precum. There is no expectation of orgasmic release for me now. It is a different feeling from that which I have had before. Usually, I expected a release about once a week but this time it is different. Since she has the control and the keys, I am not in control of my orgasms.

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I have regular erections within my cage now but they are not painful at all. I feel pressure from within the cage and my testicles swell up and become very hard. After a while, however, they return to normal and the pressure subsides. I suppose that I will be begging for release soon enough. The feeling while in my cage is almost like continuous arousal. I feel my precum inching its way towards the tip of my penis.

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I am listening now to a nice track: “Best of Chillout 2016 /Influence”. It’s about 2 hours long and I am not yet halfway through it. I feel another drop of precum finding its way……I will go lie down again and take this all in…. Read more »

Male Chastity T/D Fantasy: “I Want You To Leak (Again and Again)”

My lover insists that I wear a chastity “cup” at night and I oblige. I woke up at about 3 AM with a semi-erect cock and just wanted to chill. So I start listening to a nice track: “Erotic Lounge & Luxury Chill Out Collection Vol. 1”. It was very relaxing and put me in the mood for what was to follow.

While listening, I had fallen-into a “living fantasy” and had a strong desire. My lover wants to arouse me within my “cup” and wants to use my anal and prostate vibrator on me. So she takes hold of it and before I know it, I have fallen-into a most erotic fantasy…….

My hands are now tied-up and I cannot see what she is doing to me (but I am not blindfolded). Before long, I feel the intense vibratory pleasure on my “cup”. Suffice it to say that it was an intensely arousing“session”. She stimulated me all around the cup, including my perineum and external prostate. Then she maneuvered the vibrator around my anal depression and arranged it in a way that when I relaxed, I could feel the vibrator “drilling-down” into my anus and I was getting hard all over again. It was a wildly erotic feeling and I couldn’t bear much more. I heard her whisper: “I want to know you are leaking inside your cup”. My moans were uncontrollable. I had relaxed beneath my cup just long enough for her to start-up all over again…..and again…. And then that is when I must have lost it……… Read more »

“Male Chastity: Prostate And Anal Play”

I had been relaxing in the early AM wearing my “pseudo chastity cup” (my Shock Doctor Pro Ultra Carbon Cup) when it dawned on me: just because I am unable to touch or play with my cock doesn’t mean that I can’t play with my anus and my prostate. So, thanks to the observations of @Fred27 and @Orgasmic19 in some recent Forum posts, I reached down-below and began doing an external prostate massage by massaging my perineum close to the cup. And something amazing happened! I began to get hard almost immediately and felt my prostate swelling. When it did, it seemed to provide some “feedback” through the narrow portion of the cup near that area. Thus began a feedback-loop (similar to Aneros) where I felt an intensity of prostate pleasure building up. I just laid there and began thrusting into the sofa with each pulse of my erect cock.

A little while later, I did a similar probing around and slightly into my anus (through clothing of course) and I could feel another intense wave of pleasure from my prostate. I kept this up for a while and then it dawned on me…….

Guys like me that are in male chastity aren’t really deprived of sexual arousal. Yes, we can’t have normal erections but as far as the prostate goes, all of us chaste guys have one and it is capable of providing intense pleasure if we know how to stimulate it. I learned that this morning. Another “fringe benefit” of chastity and penile abstinence is that I can be more focused and listen for the “whispers” coming from my prostate. They are definitely there! Sometimes the whispers are so soft, they can be overlooked. But if I stay focused and listen, I can “hear” them! Read more »

A “Virtual” Aneros Session….Amazing!

An amazing session! Here is the background……

I was in Day 6 of SR and chastity. My wife was feeling better after a week with a stomach bug. Anyway, we lay down in bed just relaxing and watching TV when I reached out to her to cuddle. I began to get an erection, but this one wouldn’t go down. It remained hard and just got harder. I began to get aroused and she felt it. She began a most-erotic, gentle tease of my cock and after about 25 minutes, I was thoroughly wet. I knew I would have to go-off or suffer the consequence of blue-balls. I didn’t have a towel handy so I went to get one and returned. I got it into position and my wife took over from there (knowing I am in chastity, she gave the green-light). She proceeded to finish me off with some mind-blowing ball massage and cock-work. I didn’t last long, I ejaculated with an incredible amount of cum! My pelvis was tingling for several minutes afterwards.

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Fast-forward to this morning; I am “locked” in my pseudo-chastity-cup and found an interesting track on YouTube: “Tantric Deep Lounge” by G.I. Joe. I started listening and could feel my cock twitching beneath my cup. I started performing some kegels but not knowing where this was going. After a while (I lost track of time) I began to feel an unmistakable clenching in my prostate and it was a prostate orgasm! Now realize I have stopped my “formal” Aneros sessions months ago. But this “session” felt like I never stopped! Things settled down for a short while, but started-up all over again! OMG! A MMO! During this session, I had the usual moans, deep-breathing, shaking and euphoria. I guess you could say that the Aneros re-wiring is indeed permanent! I probably could have lasted longer, but, alas, it was time to get-up. Read more »

“Male Chastity Retrospective: It’s Not About Me Anymore”

I think it’s time for a retrospective look at my involvement with male chastity. I’ve been at this for probably 2 months or so and I find it to be a natural part of my life now. Not a day goes by when I don’t either wear my CB-6000S during the day (I can easily make it 8 hours) or my “pseudo chastity belt” at night (another 8 hours).

Of course, the semen retention part of male chastity I embrace now. Especially when I pass the Day 7 mark, I feel an increase in testosterone which makes me even more horny. Lately, I have been noticing more precum “dripping” making my undergarment wet. That is a normal occurrence and I need to provide some extra “padding” or something to contain it. I am feeling an automatic “pumping” of what feels like urine (but I know it is precum) periodically, particularly when aroused in my chastity “cup”.

The biggest change in my lifestyle is my absence of masturbation. With very rare exception, I do not masturbate “by myself” anymore. Not that I don’t want to. On the contrary, when I awaken with a morning boner, I am thankful that I am wearing my cup since I know I can’t pleasure myself. My wife has that pleasure just for me. But not always, and although very frustrating for me, that is part of the chastity play. I do find that I am more helpful around the house, cooking, cleaning, other chores seem easier to accomplish. I feel a renewed sense of “lust” for her. I can’t help but get aroused when she is also “in the mood”. Being in male chastity is almost like a continual state of foreplay/arousal. What could be better? Read more »

“Why Is The Do-Nothing Method So Effective? I Have An Idea”

I was up early this morning and just decided to chill-out on my favorite sofa. I found a nice track or two on YouTube and, with headphones on, began to relax. New for me this morning: I decided to see if I can COMPLETELY RELAX my PC muscles/anus and anything else within that could possibly be tensed-up. I started in earnest for about 10 or 15 minutes. But then, something strange happened……..I couldn’t hold this “do-nothing” any longer! I began to feel a strange, hard-to-describe “fatigued” feeling down-there that was unmistakable. And about the same time, I began to experience what I would call an Aless auto-fuck. That is the way it felt and I couldn’t stop it. Yes, I could temporarily “hold” the feeling and pretend to be completely relaxed…….but it didn’t last too long.

After a while in this mode, I began to get a whole-body arousal feeling which forced me to convulse a bit on the sofa. I felt my prostate “alive” with energy and my suspicion is that it is always contracting and relaxing…….although we are not usually attuned to that feeling. How many times during the day do you feel your anus contract and then relax, if only a little bit? Probably (in my case) too many to count. Is it involuntary or voluntary? Why do I do this? I don’t know the exact answer but I suspect that it is related to what I experienced this morning. Oh, the marvels of the male physique! Read more »