Author: goldenboy

“But Not For Me”….A Chastity Fantasy

I started listening to a nice track on YouTube: “Mix: Music To Have Sex To” and it immediately put me into the mood for an erotic fantasy. Here it is as best as I can remember…..

As usual, I am locked-into my jock cup, unable to even touch my package. I find myself with a group of male friends and we are “visiting” a “men’s club” which specializes in fulfilling men’s erotic fantasies.

We start our “journey” by taking nice hot showers (but not me. I am watching and just going along “for the ride”). Next, the guys walk through a passageway (similar to a carwash) where a lubricant spray is directed at their privates. Oh, how I wish I could go through it!

Next, the naked guys must traverse a narrow passageway by crawling through it on their stomachs. The passageway has vibrators built-in and as they go through, their cocks are being stimulated. Since they are already lubed-up, most of the guys now have very hard erections when they emerge.

Next up, they are given a dose of Viagra (but not me), just to make sure they don’t deflate any time soon. After a while, they are led to a nice-looking room where beautiful masseuses are waiting. Each guy is directed to climb-onto a waiting table, almost like a massage table. There, they are pleasured beyond their imaginations (but not me…..I am watching and fantasizing). All the guys are moaning and waiting for a release…..but not me. Read more »

“A Ruined Orgasm”

I have read about a “ruined orgasm” while in male chastity but never suspected I would experience one. Let me explain……

I was in Day 13 or SR and chastity and had worn my CB-6000S for six hours yesterday. My wife wanted some action last night and wanted to cuddle. But no sooner did I start that I developed a rock-hard erection which she felt. We “cuddled” for a while but I told her that I needed to cum; would she allow me? She said “yes” and I told her that SHE alone needed to get me off. So I pulled-down my PJs and told her to “do her thing”. (I would not touch my cock at all). Well, it was less than a minute that I felt an intense welling-up in my groin and an impending ejaculation which I suspected would feel great. But something else happened. I experienced not intense rhythmic pulses of white semen but rather an almost continuous flow of semen (like from a hose) which pooled on the waiting towel as well as on her hand! In just a few short seconds, it was over! Did I just ejaculate? I had to look at the towel to be sure. Was this a ruined orgasm? I know now that it was. Immediately afterwards, I still felt like I could cum again, and tried myself. But it seemed that I was already into my refractory period and would just have to wait. Read more »

“Male Chastity: Going The Distance”

I have been flip-flopping between my PrisonBird and CB-6000S chastity cages. I am now preferring the CB-6000S since it is “unmodified” and is actually quite comfortable. I can wear it our in public and am up to about 6 hours of continuous wear. I have not slept through it yet as I understand the night-time erections can be painful! But I am building-up to that.

Of course, while in chastity there are several “issues” that need to be addressed. First, urination. It is better to be seated for this event, it is just less of a bother. Second, hygiene. Since I am not wearing it continuously (yet), I don’t have to be too concerned. But the penis needs to be cleaned daily and I am exploring ways that I can accomplish this. There is a lot of info online regarding this subject. Third, and this is a little gross, there is a bit of “leakage” of seminal fluid from the penis while in chastity. Not really a problem yet, just an interesting observation.

Will I be able to continue this practice of chastity? Will I be able to hand-over the keys? Interesting questions; but right now, I am still in “chastity-play” mode so those questions are moot. All I can say is that if you are at all interested in male chastity, take it slow, take it one step at a time, do research and enjoy yourself! This is an interesting “chapter” in my sexuality and I never would have guessed that it could be so easily integrated into daily life! There is a different mindset involved in all of this and it is probably not for every guy. But I have found this a perfect “match” for me at this point in my life. Read more »

“Chastity Delights”

What a morning! Got up with a very powerful erection and immediately decided to go into chastity. So I put on my Shock Doctor Ultra cup and lay down. After a short while, I changed chastity to my new “modified” PrisonBird. It fit like a glove and I actually wore it for about 90 minutes with no issues. Finally, I decided to let my “keyholder” tease and pleasure me with my Svakom Paddy anal vibrator. What “she” did this time is press it (through my PJs) into my anus. She did about 4 or 5 “prostate massages” this way, using different combinations of vibration strengths and patterns. OMG! When she finished each one, I had an “aftershock” erection and felt an intense horniness for perhaps 5 or more minutes afterwards. After 4 or 5, I couldn’t take any more and told her so. Of course this is “fantasy” chastity play, but I like the feeling. I am ready to take-on the day!

PS A new Day 9 in semen retention and I’m lovin’ it!

PS Just like the original Aneros stim, the name of the game in chastity play is “hands-off the penis” (literally!) That is one reason chastity play for me is so f*****g arousing!

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“Oh No You Don’t”

I am having fun again! My wife is very amorous and wants to initiate lately. I am in a new Day 7 of semen retention and that means that I am super-horny too! I awoke not too early and, wearing my Speedo (with safety towel) under my PJs, I was getting hard and wanted some “alone time” for myself to give myself some well-deserved pleasure without cumming. All right! I was ready to lie-down and get started. But then something happened! My “inner voice” immediately told me to get into my chastity cage (my Shock Doctor Ultra carbon cup) right away!

Shit! I complied immediately and felt my erection building and then subsiding within the cup. The feeling of helplessness overpowered me and became more arousing as time passed. Sometimes, I am “allowed” to be free for a short while, then have to go into another chastity device (my CB-6000S). Of course, this is all chastity-play but it is very arousing because it comes at different times of arousal.

Cum denial is bad enough but arousal denial (through chastity-play) is the ultimate insult to my manhood. It is so stimulating that I shake just thinking about the possibilities!

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“Where Have All The Fantasies Gone?”

Being in male chastity for almost 4 weeks now (25 days), I have noticed a complete absence of erotic fantasies. That changed this morning. Let me explain……

Having just milked my prostate (I do it now about weekly), I felt very relaxed and just decided to go chill-out with some nice tracks. So I lie down and almost immediately fell-into a fantasy. My lover decides to “tease” me while knowing my lengthy abstinence from ejaculation. I have on a Speedo square leg suit beneath my PJs and she begins to give me a “tantric” genital massage especially concentrated on the scrotum. OMG! The feeling is intensely pleasurable; she works her way up to the frenulum and I feel the building pleasure of an ejaculation. But after about 5 to 10 exquisite minutes, and I feel about 70% near the PONR, she stops! And immediately she directs me to get into my jock cup (pseudo male chastity cage). When I go lie down again, I have an almost instantaneous full-body “orgasm” almost like a Super-O! This felt different, however, and my whole body convulsed. But I felt an intense almost orgasmic-like pleasure all over my body. It didn’t last but a few seconds, but it was an unmistakable feeling, one which I have not felt before. Read more »

“Progressing Towards Day 21!”

Well, here I am at Day 18! Doing okay, except night-time erections are now a challenge! My wife has a head cold, so barring anything unusual, I should be able to slide-into Day 21! What happens at that point I am not sure. I may not want to end this incredible journey! Technically, I am still in chastity and want to experience a wet dream, whenever it comes.

PS I have on order a Doc Johnson P-Plug prostate stimulator to help with prostate milking and a Holy Trainer “clone” for more forced chastity play. I can’t wait!

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“A Note On Semen Retention, Edging and Male Chastity”

I am currently in Day 14 of SR and have observed that I could probably continue to complete the “21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge”. I believe the difference this time is that I am purposely NOT edging. However, I am milking my prostate periodically. My night-time erections are very strong however. I have told my wife about my chastity and abstinence from masturbation. My SR may be ending tonight at day 14!

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“Male Chastity: Begging For A Release”

My SR is currently in Day 13 and I am literally locked-up in chastity. I alternate between the CB-6000S, a jock cup and multiple layers of tight underwear. I have not touched my cock in almost two weeks. My wife’s libido seems to be at a low and that is actually enforcing the chaste lifestyle. Of course, all of this chastity is self-imposed but nevertheless, I am being “teased” mentally since I have not ejaculated in almost two weeks and have no expectation of when I will. This denial of cum wracks the mind. How much can I take?

I do feel that I am closer than ever to a wet dream or an autoejaculation. I would love to wake up to a great, sticky pool of semen originating from my package. My night-time erections are stronger than ever and I am frequently awakened with a rock-hard, throbbing erection that will take a minimum of 30 to 40 minutes to ease up.

I suppose there is a real difference if I were truly “locked-up” in chastity (where she held the key). But let me tell you, this “self-imposed” chastity play is becoming so real, I might as well be locked-up. My cock is locked, I cannot ejaculate and there is no easy way out for me. I will soon be begging my wife……will she allow me the pleasure to cum? Or will this agony continue? She holds the “key”….. Read more »

“A New Toy: The CB-6000S”

My “genuine” CB-6000S arrived very quickly and I was eager to take it for a test ride. There are a lot of videos online to demonstrate the proper assembly and “fitting” of the device. It really isn’t that simple. Let me explain further……

First off, there is a base ring and the right size needs to be selected among the 5 offered. I started out with the largest but found that it was too large; it lets a ball pop-out! So I downsized to the next-largest size and that one seemed right. I wore it alone for about an hour just to make sure there was no discomfort or pain. There was none. Next, I selected a “locking pin” that was almost the longest (of 4 offered).

Then, it was time to “fit” the cage to the penis. This is easier said than done. One thing I discovered is that a silicone lube (I have Wet Platinum) works best. I lubed-up the head of my penis and the top part of the shaft. I rubbed a little inside the cage as well. When my penis was reasonably flaccid, I placed the cage over it and it slid right in! The final assembly step was securing the brass padlock through the locking pin and with a “click” I was locked-into chastity! It is an amazing feeling. I selected the “clear” color and am glad that I did. One thing I notice is that with very little stimulation, the penis “grows” (actually just lengthens) inside the cage and within a few seconds, it has “erected” as much as it will ever be allowed. Not being allowed a full erection inside the cage is not nearly the intense pressure feeling I was expecting. The penis seems to lengthen and contract at will, almost as if had a “heartbeat” of its own. Amazing! Read more »