“Male Chastity: Tease And Denial”

Male chastity and “tease and denial” go hand-in-hand. Of course, it is entirely up to the keyholder (KH) to determine what is appropriate “punishment”. While in “pseudo” male chastity this morning, my KH teases me by making me listen to a favorite (and usually quite effective) binaural for male ejaculation: “Hands Free Orgasm 4 – Male Ejaculation – Binaural Beats for Sexual Arousal and Orgasm”.

I begin to listen and almost immediately my cock is starting to rise, putting pressure on the inside of the jock cup. I have to press firmly to arrest the throbbing. I make it to the end of this wickedly arousing track, but not without a lot of pelvic thrusting, moaning and mental anguish that signified that I was completely helpless in my need for an ejaculation. This feeling is typical of the tease and denial scenarios. One common one is for the KH to tie-up his hands, then edge his cock almost to the PONR, applying ice to his cock to shrink it down quickly, and then put it back into its cage! Talk about male humiliation!

PS Something I “borrowed” from femdomale.com:

“Why Tease and Deny?

Two words: Power and control. In the realm of harmless fun, nothing approaches the rush of power you get to enjoy in sexually frustrating a man. Nothing compares to the control you have when you create a sense of sexual desperation, and then, at your whim, delay gratification of that desire.

“An Amazing Rewired Journey”

Hey guys….In a recent forum post, lonewolf8 asked how he can rewire? I am having a “regular” session early this AM and need to relate my “journey”.

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I am practicing “pseudo” male chastity. I have a “real” chastity cage on order (CB-6000S). In the meantime, I use a jock cup to make it impossible for me to conduct any edging or masturbation. What this does I believe is transfer the pent-up sexual energy directly to my prostate. Since I have stopped my “regular” Aneros sessions (with hardware) any prostate feelings including orgasms have to originate from my “rewiring”. Is this real or is it imaginary? Let me relate this morning’s experience and you decide for yourself.

Now I have been listening to YouTube music for a while now but NONE have affected me the way that this one did this morning: “Sweet Euphoria [Psychedelic Ambient, Downtempo, Deep Trance & IDM Music Mix ]”. I started out in the usual way; nothing happening in male territory (how could it?) But as I am listening, I begin to feel a whisper, a stirring in my prostate that I can’t ignore. Some time passes and I realize that I have fallen-into this track almost like a meditation and before I know it, I am heading towards a series of prostate orgasms, including a Super-O! It started gradually but continued to build….and build……and build. Towards the end, I have begun to breathe more heavily and starting to thrust my hips more. I have fallen-into an erotic fantasy very easily…….I am being penetrated anally by a male cock and at this point, my orgasmic prostate has me totally absorbed.

“Cock Cage: Fantasy….Or Reality?”

My ongoing practice of semen retention (I am into Day 8) and my wife’s low libido seem to have taken me into the realm of total abstinence, male chastity and cock cages. Let me explain.

For the past week or so, I have been practicing my morning “sessions” without ever touching my genitals. I find this stimulating. What I do is put-on a jock cup (either my youth size Bike or regular Shock Doctor Ultra Carbon) with a tight pair of Speedos and lie down, either with or without music. Believe it or not, this “do-nothing” approach not only reinforces the practice of SR but has taken me to a higher fantasy, one of which I experienced last night.

“An Eventful Day”

Background (Yesterday) — I was having a good day; I was into Day 6 of SR and feeling great. I have been “experimenting” with total abstinence through the use of my jock cups and was really feeling it. I also have been eating a little pomegranate every day because it seemed to boost my testosterone. But one thing I didn’t realize is that with the heart meds I take (especially metoprolol), the pomegranate has the effect of reducing systolic blood pressure. Combine that with the fact that I had to stop my metoprolol for 2 days for a nuclear stress test on my heart (which I passed), led to a crazy morning yesterday when I ended up in the ER! I actually drove myself there, but because I was slightly short-of-breath for about half the travel, I honestly felt that I would have to pull-over and call 911. Fortunately, by the time I got to the hospital, my breathing (and presumably my BP) was more back to normal. Anyway, I spent about 5 hours in the ER yesterday morning. They did a series of tests including blood work (especially heart enzymes), and a chest X-ray. After 5 hours, I definitely was feeling more like myself and since all tests were negative, I was relieved and was discharged. I drove home. Needless to say, I am no longer eating pomegranate! Anyone on heart meds for BP, please take note!

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“Virtual Aneros Is Aless Ecstasy”

Who would have thought I could have a stimulating Aneros session without an Aneros prostate massager? But that is exactly what happened this morning. I relocate from bed to sofa with a nice musical track: “Chill House Erotic Buddha Lounge By the Beach – Zen, Relax & Meditation Mix”. Now realize that I decided to be put-into masturbation denial this morning by my “junior” cup. So essentially my penis, scrotum, perineum all were “off-limits” to any form of manual manipulation. I was flaccid as a wet noodle. I am getting-into the relaxation mode when I begin to kegel, very lightly in sync with the bass of the track. Before too long, I am feeling a slight quiver in my prostate and thus began an amazing Aneros (actually Aless) “session” for about the next two hours! I honestly lost all track of time for when I finished, I realized that the next track already was playing. It is now 6 AM and I am ready for the morning!

PS I experienced all the pleasures of my “regular” Aneros sessions, including involuntary kegels (and reverse kegels), arm-tingling, whole-body convulsions (but not quite at the Super-O level) and a distinct feeling of an anal fuck. I remember re-positioning myself several times during this session, including both sides, my stomach and back. Wow! Such intense pleasure from……nothing! Just your basic Aneros “re-wired” prostate. Amazing!

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“Guys, Let’s Cut To The Chase: We Have A Job To Do”

Lead-In: I started an edging session with a great musical track (on YouTube): “Best of Melodic Dubstep Mix 2016” . I was not too far into this edging when I felt my wet penis and then, I fell-into a powerful “meditative” fantasy. So simple and yet so profound. Let me try to explain how it felt……

What struck me so powerfully was the simpleness of it all. We guys have a job to do. All we need to know is that we have a fluid that we need to release. And that is the essence of it all. Everything else becomes somewhat secondary to our main purpose. Of the five senses, the one that is most critical for us males is the sense of touch. For it is in that erotic touch that we accomplish our mission. Need I elaborate any further?

Even other sexual “scenarios” take a back-seat to our primary goal. That is not to say that they are unimportant. Yes, all the sexual “lifestyle” choices fall-into this. We can get hung-up on looks, breasts, cocks, balls, clits, and so on. Even ED. And yes, we can even get hung-up on prostates! But in the overall scheme of things, it is our purpose, our “drive” as males that we must always keep in proper focus. When we do this, I believe we are on the right path.

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“Ouch! Blue Balls Day! “

Semen retention (Day 10), pomegranates and my wifes’ edging me joined forces yesterday and gave me a good case of “blue balls”. I haven’t had this in a while and it was painful. I had it almost all day and had to take an Aleve which seemed to help. This morning, I awoke again with an extreme erection and decided (and read) that the best way to relieve any further symptoms would be to masturbate to ejaculation. So I did very quickly and the erection subsided almost immediately. I really wanted to exceed 10 days of SR but could not stand another full day of groin pain. Other SR warriors, please take note!

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“Super-O Deja Vu”

Wow! I never saw this one coming! Let me explain the details……

My wife was not feeling well last night and I decided not to force myself on her. I did the right thing. I am now in Day 8 of semen retention. I like the feeling and have become much more spontaneous with women (and men too!) Maybe it’s a testosterone thing. In addition to cum denial (semen retention), I am leaning now towards edging denial as well (a variant of male bondage). So this morning, when I awoke with a raging erection, rather than start to edge and perhaps cum, I decided to don my Shock Doctor Ultra Carbon cup and deny myself even the pleasure of an edging or surfing session. Yes it it difficult but what it seems to do is transfer the sexual energy elsewhere in my body; namely, my prostate.

So this morning, I start to listen to an erotic track or two. I selected some which were labeled as music for foreplay. I guess they were working since I fell-into a fantasy right away. Since I am already performing edging denial, my “lover” continues with this approach. She denies me even the pleasure of a touch of my package for almost a full hour. At some point, she allows me to remove just one layer, exposing the “chastity cup” but denies me a feel for what is underneath. After a short while later, she allows me to remove the cup and feel my now-sensitive cock and scrotum. It feels so good. But just as soon as it started, it was over! I am quickly instructed to replace the cup and its cover. Once again, I am in a state of sexual denial…….

“SOS: A Perfect Prostate Storm”

SOS! My prostate needs help! Let me explain……

I had a nice helping of pomegranate last night after dinner. Pomegranate as I understand it, is a natural testosterone booster. I am now in Day 7 of semen retention and that is usually accompanied by a sudden surge of testosterone. Add to all of this is my newfound interest in forced chastity and (believe it or not) male bondage fantasies (I actually got tied-up this morning). I am getting spontaneous erections today for no apparent reason. I even developed one after swimming (embarassing!)

Don’t get me wrong……I feel f*****g amazing sexually! My prostate seems to be “buzzing” all day today. And if I remain quiet, I will perceive the sensation of my quivering prostate very strongly within my body. I am getting horny as hell. I am not sure how long I will last today; probably my wife will come to my aid this evening. She is usually quite understanding of my ongoing “problem”.

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“A Predictable Aless Session A Day?”

All of us healthy males (babies included!) have night-time erections every night (without exception) which are pretty strong and can last in excess of 30 minutes. I read that the average male experiences about 3-5 erections per night, some men more. Now we are not aware of all of them, but lately I have been awakened by some of them (usually in the morning). it is difficult to get back to sleep with one of these, so lately, I have been retreating to another room with a sofa and just chilling, usually with some relaxing or stimulating music.

This morning, I did the usual routine, but while doing some light kegels, I distinctly felt my prostate starting to quiver. After about an hour and a half, I had my fill of music and decided to just continue to chill without any sounds. What happened next kind of blew me away! I began to dwell on the complete silence of my body, but then felt something unusual. It was my prostate trying to tell me that it was alive and well within me! The more I dwelt (actually meditated) on it, the more I felt it. I didn’t have to perform many kegels to “prime the pump” so to speak. With every new movement and position of my body, I felt those quivers now grow stronger. And they became so strong that I felt my whole body start to quiver, almost (but not quite) like a Super-O!