Author: goldenboy

“An Experiment In Ejaculation Control: Can I Induce PE?”

Having endured DE (Delayed Ejaculation) for a while now, with less than stellar results as far as ejaculation is concerned, I decided to see if I can “swing the pendulum” towards the PE (Premature Ejaculation) side. There seems to be a consensus that these erectile dysfunctions mostly have a psychological cause and I believe they are right. So I embarked on this “experiment” last night.

While laying with my wife watching TV, I began to stroke her hand, ever so slightly. At the same time, I began to feel an arousal in my cock. Before I knew it, I was fully aroused and getting a Viagra-like erection. I slowly grabbed her hand and had her place it over my cock. She obliges and, for the next 10 minutes or so, begins to stroke and squeeze it to the point that I am loudly moaning. I am not ready to go-off, however and, since it is close to bedtime and I do not have the confidence yet for penetration followed by a quick ejaculation, I decided to call it a night.

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“Time Out: I Feel A Whisper”

This was more of a deep, meditative “session”. It began with some chillstep music. It is chilly this AM so I grab a comforter and lie down. Having just ejaculated yesterday, I am in “cooldown” mode this morning. After a while, I began to dwell on things…..

A nice restaurant near where I live was torn down to the ground recently, to make way for another one. There is nothing left of the old place, except for the ground. I began to think…..can this also apply to life? The answer (sometimes, unfortunately) is yes! Now I am not implying that my life is torn-down, although if you think about it, it is usually called the “circle of life” and it happens to everyone. Uplifting yet somber.

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I began to dwell on my recent absence from Aneros “sessions”: do I miss them? Of course I do! But, like the groundbreaking for the new restaurant, I have a solid Aneros “foundation” on which to build. As I dwelt on this some more, something happened. I began to feel just the slightest ‘whisper’ in my prostate. At first, it was barely perceptible, yet it was there! So I echoed these whispers back with some very light contractions. And my prostate whispered back to me! I kept up the echoes for a while and began to feel a warmth, a gentle glow from within that led me to believe that the fire is still glowing, there is a sense of sexual balance in my life. At one point, the feeling is building up to a point where I have to shake-out an involuntary contraction throughout my body. Oh! What a nice feeling! Read more »

“Oh, What A Night!”

OMG! Where to start? it is early Sunday morning about 12:30 AM. I can’t sleep any more for now. I am in Day 8 of SR and still feeling extremely horny. I woke up with an erection and decided, instead of loose boxers, to put-on some tighter boxer-briefs. They are one size too small so they fit my package nice and snug. I put my safety towel in place. I feel that today may be the right time for a release of all this pent-up sexual energy. So I chill on the sofa for a while, maybe an hour-and-a-half, and, getting sleepy, decide to go back to bed. That is when things started getting crazy. Let me explain…….

While back in bed, I got a distinctly strong “buzzing” from my prostate and began to do some kegels, first very lightly, then stronger until I “held” them for about 30 seconds or longer. OMG! Now, realize that I no longer practice my Aneros prostate stim. There are various reasons, but primarily, the last few “sessions” I had were essentially duds. They didn’t last too long either. I feel that I have reached a point in my sexual life that my prostate has feelings independent of my other sexual “tools” and that the Aneros “training” is permanent (re-wired to the max). However, while continuing these kegels, I realized that I would not be getting back to sleep any time soon. In addition, I began to get an INTENSE craving for something in my anus. I did retain my anal beads and decided that I would put them to use. Read more »

“The Pleasure Box: Sex in The Dark”

This fantasy was inspired through the music. I began listening to (on YouTube): “IBIZA Luxury Chillout Lounge Music Session by Bogdan Postolache. I didn’t realize that this was going to be another “intercourse” fantasy but it seemed so real. Here is the concept…..

Background: A local university is conducting an unusual “experiment” in sex, offered through its psychology department. They are trying to determine whether there is a potential erectile dysfunction “cure” through an offering of sex with a complete stranger! I have ED, actually DE (delayed ejaculation) and I thought I could benefit from this trial. So I applied online. Basic things like height, weight, etc., my ED concern and my general health. Also, whether I was straight or gay. Before long, I received a reply and was told to report to their “facility”. I was told that this would be an overnight experiment and I should wear a pair of tight, clingy briefs or trunks. So I prepared, and reported for “duty”. [Note that since I am straight, my female “partner” also was selected in the same way. In her case, instead of ED, she could be afflicted with a low libido, or an inability to become aroused; therefore, she probably has had few opportunities for sexual encounters in her lifetime]. Needless to say, I looked forward to the stimulating encounter.

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“Are You Ready For Me? – A Metaphysical Intercourse Fantasy”

Wow! What a session! I can hardly believe what happened! Let me try to explain it….

I started this amazing surfing session with what turned out to be the musical inspiration for it: on YouTube “Chillout – Music For Lovers 2013” by Dave Shepard. It set the mood for what was to become a truly unique experience for me.

I start this surfing session in the usual way, with soft caressing stim of my now-erect and firm package. But it soon became evident to me that this sessions’ fantasy was going to be conducted and relayed entirely in the “third person” — namely, from the point of view of a woman. Sounds somewhat bizarre and unusual, but (I swear) that is what happened. Let me further explain….

She begins to get me aroused but I “feel” it from her point of view. She is getting me wet and ready for intercourse with her. She continues to think to herself: ” Do you have what it takes? Are you wet enough for me? Are you man enough? Can you remain hard for me?” She continues to caress me and I am feeling so aroused. She is also getting very aroused and wet. She continues to play with my package and getting quite turned-on. “She” begins to fantasize herself about my cock and it’s shape. How it’s shaped to penetrate her. A thick round slippery shaft that she wants deep inside her. She wants every inch of it as deeply as “he” can push it in. She is ready for erotic pleasure. She takes hold of “his” cock and glides it into her. Read more »

“I Want My Cock Inside You: An Erotic Fantasy”

[Readers: this is going to get quite graphic. That was the nature of this fantasy.]

I wanted a regular “solo” surfing session but I got a lot more. Let me explain……

I switched to my silky trunk shorts for this session and I had my safety towel in place. This surfing session started out like others and I am listening to erotic lounge music. I have a hard erection and am feeling wonderful early this morning. It is about 3:30 AM. So I am starting to surf, I have started the gentle tantric massage of all my manhood and am feeling quite aroused. I was not expecting a fantasy but I am falling-into it, quite unexpectedly.

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“Boxers or Briefs?

Now, don’t laugh! What a strange title and a strange topic. But let me explain…..

I have been wearing loose-fitting cotton boxers underneath my flannel PJs lately in the morning. This morning, I decided (for some unknown reason) to continue to wear them all day. Now realize that I usually wear briefs which are pretty tight and hold my junk in place.

Made it through all day; no problems. I am ready to change into my PJs for the evening and I could not believe what I saw! My package appeared about 4 times as large and my cock was hanging almost 2 – 3 times its “normal” length! I stood in front of the mirror and couldn’t stop staring! I swam this morning and in the locker room, I didn’t notice this increase in my manhood. Needless to say, I will continue to wear the boxers and see what else develops.

PS I am also listening to some binaural beats for package enlargement; maybe it’s working already?

PS I wonder if any other Aneros guys have noticed this as well. Please comment if you have.

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“Full-Frontal Attack: A Foreplay Fantasy”

[I think this blog entry is going to get graphic; be advised]

Background: I am in Day 6 of SR and am looking forward to a penetrative intercourse with my wife. I woke up about 3 AM with another raging erection and decide to listen to some erotically-charged music. So I selected a YouTube track that I have heard before: “Erotic Night Mix 2013 mixed by Dj Alex Vlasov”. It wasn’t too long into this hour-and-a-half session that I realized that I had fallen-into a most intense, erotic fantasy. I am in bed with my wife and she begins a “cuddling” tantric session with me that I can only describe now as a “full-frontal attack” of my masculinity. I didn’t know it at the time, but she was preparing me well for the upcoming intercourse with her. In spite of my DE, she wanted to make sure that I would come within her. Let me try to explain how this developed…..

It started so innocently, like most session do, with some light teasing of my package through my cotton boxers (I have a towel in place). She teases my frenulum and I feel wave upon wave of bliss throughout my body. Her deft hands reach under my sleep top and begin to fondle my chest, abs and nipples. I am falling deeper into an erotic spell. Read more »

“A Sheer Test Of Willpower: I’m Burning Up with Sexual Desire”

How I didn’t ejaculate during this surfing session is beyond belief! Let me explain……

I am up around 4 AM this morning with a raging erection. I started with my usual routine for soft, stimulating music. But I realized that that wasn’t working. So I embarked on a different journey. I began to meditate like I do sometimes. Only this time, the meditation became quite sexual and vivid. I’ll entitle it “Sex = Male”. Now I want to preface this by explaining that this meditation would appear quite sexist in its theme. But that is not intentional on my part. Let me clarify…..

I began to dwell on the “meaning” of sex and I am pulled-into the concept of male sexuality. This was a long, meditative process and would be too lengthy to detail here. But I dwelt at length on the real reason for sex (so obvious!) and the male “tools” and how they came to be. In particular, why is our penis shaped the way it is? Why do we get wet when we are aroused? Why is our package located on our body where it is? Why are our testicles located where they are? Why does ejaculation feel so good? When I am aroused, why can’t I think of anything other than sex? You get the idea! It was almost like a biology lesson. Now, I am not demeaning the role of females in this concept. But I am getting to the root of the sex act and why it is up to us males to initiate, perform and complete it. Read more »

“Rediscovering Male Nipple Stim”

I kind of stumbled-onto nipple stim during this session quite by accident. I was finished with my usual musical interlude for this morning. I needed some rest without any headphones on, so I just laid back down on my stomach and started to relax.

For some reason, I began to dwell on my nipples. Now in the past, they never really factored-into my genital play. However, I soon discovered some facts about my own nipples. Now, I realize that not every guy will have the same response as me, but here is what I discovered this morning…..

—It takes time! In the past, if I performed nipple stim for a minute or two, then that was it! It didn’t seem to do that much for me. What a mistake! What I did this morning was about 25 minutes or so. I took my time and boy the feelings continued to build.

—There is a direct link between the nipples and the prostate. Oh my! With continual gentle nipple stim, and combined with some easy kegels, the sexual response can be mind-blowing!

—I discovered with nipple stim, I brought-on an erection! Oh yeah! What a feeling! Read more »