Hello. I have been lurking various threads on this topic and such and following the tips people have been leaving behind. However my experience with prostate play has been fairly underwhelming so far.
I have been using a helix syn trident and I don’t know if the problem with this toy is that it’s too small to reach my prostate or if I’m using it wrong?
For example. I don’t actually know if the front tab is resting on my exterior prostate or whatever you would call that area. That tab most of the time just kind of hurts and feels uncomfortable and after some shifting or positioning it stops hurting but then just doesn’t feel like anything at all. I don’t think the tab is “massaging” my prostate exteriorly.
And the actual phallic piece of the toy. I get that I’m supposed to adjust at first which I give time for it to move past that “feels like there’s something in your ass” phase. But after that I just don’t really feel it at all. I flex my PC muscle as I’ve heard you’re supposed to do. And I do level exercises while at work between my sessions to get used to that muscle. However no matter how much I flex. If I flex like 25% or as hard as I can possibly flex. I just feel the toy shift and it feels sort of like it’s settling maybe or it’s shifting closer inwards inside me towards my prostate. But I don’t think it ever reaches or massages my prostate? Like maybe it’s just a bit too small?