Well where to start!
I have always had a very sensual body to touch. Found the anus area a real erogenous zone, always having loads of pre cum when horny, never really thought about prostrate massage though. Love the Mrs stroking between balls and ass always gives me a massive erection;copious amounts of pre cum.
Starting reading up on the subject and began 2 weeks ago to start seeing the effects of breathing and clenching, researching positions. This lead to what I now know as mini "O's"which felt great, but was hard work to maintain.
I do yoga so have a good relationship with body and mind, which helped focus these initial sessions. Tried using butt plug and even misses glass dildo, but did not reach the spot
Decided to go for the Vice as interested in the vibrator, thought it would help, not imitated by the size.
Day 1
I use coconut oil, oh my god as soon as inserted could feel a pulse on the tip, which gave rise to the realisation as to the exact location of the P.
Multiple mini "O's", but again not the elusive orgasm.Playing with different vibes, but prefer the feel when not on as can focus more on sensation.
Session 2
getting better, tried use without the vibrator inserted but feels better inserted not on ,still multiple O's, pleased with progress :-(