I finally ordered my first Helix. Today I tried it . The chats were very helpful. I lubed up with KY and lied on my side to slowly put in the toy. At first, I had to relax but my anus readily opened and accepted what I had to offer. I was surprised that when it passed into the rectum it was quickly sucked in and rested there. I just lied there and relaxed for only 20 minutes but plan to be back tomorrow and increase the time.