Even if I’ve abstained for several days, the initial arousal kind of runs out and so does the sensitivity. If I start to watch something arousing in the second half of the session, that reignites the arousal/sensitivity and often I have the more intense feelings during the second half when I’m using porn. That said, I’m yet to have an O, so I’m sure my sessions can be improved. Maybe audio could be the way to go?
Author: lowfidreams
My first helix and prostate boner?
Okay, forgive the title. I’ve been on my journey toward prostate orgasm on and off for a couple of years and I’ve unconventionally worked backwards towards the helix. Unlike most beginners, my main toy has been a eupho since my third session. I was intimidated by the bigger aneros toys, but after many sessions I got the helix syn V which has given me some nice pleasure. The eupho is the toy that’s brought me the closest to orgasm, so I thought it would be worth trying the regular helix syn trident, since it’s smaller than the V. It’s been a couple of years of trying on and off
I had my first session with the helix last night and I had some very nice pleasure. One thing I notice is that after my muscles contract, it’s like I feel this pressure where my prostate is, almost like my prostate is getting hard for a moment, does anyone get this? I had some very nice sensations in my session including some near orgasmic sensations in my lower abs over my prostate, I felt like if that were to continue, I’d be having an orgasm.
A very pleasant session overall. Trying to be more patient in recent times, still hopefully working towards my first pgasm.
Intermediate Aneros-er
Hey guys, I’d call myself as an intermediate as the title says, I haven’t had pgasms yet in over a year of trying and I’m looking for some insight if that’s ok.
My average session usually starts with me not letting my body clamp down too much, so the toy kind of tickles my prostate and the sensitivity builds up. That’s leads to good places usually, I’ve felt build up feelings where my heart starts to race and my prostate gets quite sensitive. I also get this feeling of hardness/pressure under my belly button later in sessions, I feel like that grows. I’m not sure if this is my prostate growing, a potentially orgasmic feeling, or if I’m simply pressing my bladder.
I tried a session with weed for the first time last night. Not sure if it helped or hindered, I do get a bit anxious with bud so I’m not sure it helps me with arousal. I didn’t seem to have the body awareness to let the session build up slowly and my body clamped down a lot, the sensitivity did build up eventually though. I had a lot of precum for the first time in a session but I’m not sure if that was because I was basically milking myself with the heavy pressure.
After the first hour, I have to confess to briefly touching my dick a bit to make myself aroused again, this would bring back the good feelings to my prostate but I don’t know if it was a good idea overall.
After a long time out, I seem to have lost a lot of sensitivity
So basically I had to take time out as I’ve had some digestive issues. I’ve never had a pgasm but felt soo close in the past. I had a session the other night for the first time in months and I feel like all my hard work and patience has been undone. That said, I’d had a traditional orgasm the day before. Do you guys have any advice? I do still have some back door problems so I’m probably going to be limited to once a week or so.
Also, I use KY but I’ve started to find it irritates my skin a bit. I’m wondering about some oil based lubes that could be good with syn toys?